FabSwingers.com forum: POF & Fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So it seems there are quite a few (myself included) on both these sites... How many are actually on the former to find the love of our lives or is it used to just hook up???

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By *ristolcream69Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Pof is great for hook ups to meet singles I don't think I have ever been past one drink before going back to a girls house lol

Am on here to meet more open mined people for all the stuff that requires more than two people

I think that's the difference in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I originally joined pof looking for a relationship with a like minded person. Even listed bdsm in my interests lol.

Soon found out it's not the place to find a relationship. I prefer fab but have had lots of guys tell me they have more luck on pof than they do on fab

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By *.TaylorMan
over a year ago

bournemouth

So which is better ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm sounds like I may need to check this PoF out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think pof is a load off bollocks..ffs mention sex and they run a fukking mile

saying that I've just got the phone app so whether its diff on main site or not I don't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I was on POF as well as a number of dating sites. But was propositioned quite a lot just for sex. Then I found FAB, thought I like sex and actually I am quite happy being single. So closed the POF one down.

I did go on POF looking for a relationship. But like so many free dating sites found it just was a waste of time. Too many aren't actually looking to date at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So which is better ?"

Fab...there's no pretence as to what people want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol I don't get any luck on either! I set up a date in pof only for her not to show!

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By *3xycuckcplCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We first met each other on POF and are now married!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I shut down all my other site profiles once I found fab. Its fine for what I want.

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By *reddieRaeCouple
over a year ago

Banbridge

We met on PoF....6 years and a nipper later, we couldn't be happier...

It was great for hooking up, before we got together, though! LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got kicked off for some reason and haven't been allowed to return lol

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington

"Hmmm sounds like I may need to check this PoF out!

don't bother as most are on both sites!

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By *mooth shaftMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Are they not 2 very different sites - sex site and a dating site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are they not 2 very different sites - sex site and a dating site?"

Supposedly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got kicked off for some reason and haven't been allowed to return lol

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u prob got reported for sending filth

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By *ristolcream69Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Pof is better for meeting singles

On here couples and single women get so many messages per day they can't rread them all & I know this because I was part of a couple for a couple of years

Now am single nobody answers me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got kicked off for some reason and haven't been allowed to return lol

u prob got reported for sending filth

As if I would do such a thing

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By *aughty monkey31Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"So which is better ?

Fab...there's no pretence as to what people want"

Agree you don't know what the ladies on pof really want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got kicked off for some reason and haven't been allowed to return lol

u prob got reported for sending filth

As if I would do such a thing

send one durty message and get banned lol..its happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a few guy's who are on pof and fab

makes me laugh when you read both profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met through pof,over 7 years ago,moved in together 6 years ago and our relationship is as strong and happy as it can be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am on POF as I'd actually like to date but not sure it is what most one there want lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pof ??? Online asylum. Think of it as a Sunday stroll around bedlam, in the style of a Victorian.

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands

A vanilla friend had a quick look at POF once (with me) and was put off by some of the local profiles. She has tried other dating sites too, but has been dishearten by the usual pit falls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a few guy's who are on pof and fab

makes me laugh when you read both profiles

You're fit nicepair

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By *ndyuk7Man
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

pof is rubbish now as you got to pay for everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pof has changed an awful lot, and not for the best it has to be said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Left POF because too many women messing

me about, felt I'd have to commit to either

finding a relationship or I'm just going to mess

a woman about with the wrong feelings, due to

being on this site....

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By *emini1637Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire

I'm also on pof but not logged in since I joined this site! At least on here you know what you're getting, on pof most of the guys would be all 'yeah yeah I'm looking for more than sex, want to find someone nice blah blah' which i was at the time! Then the messages would change and they would be messaging at midnight saying 'shall I come round we can have fun'!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on both, as well as Tinder as well.

I use pof for dating. Though if it's established in the beginning that a fuck is all it is then I'm okay with that. I want to find a boyfriend so I thought I'd try every option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The biggest difference is the cost surely? POF costs......! Doesn't it?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I'm on pof ...recently reactivated my account, I go through phases where I look for something I've yet to find on fab. .. as yet I've not found it on pof either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PoF is very similar to here in many respects.

Many don't know what they want.

Many use it just for sex.

Many lie.

Women get bombarded.

It's free unless you want to use the upgraded features.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it seems there are quite a few (myself included) on both these sites... How many are actually on the former to find the love of our lives or is it used to just hook up??? "

ive hooked up with plenty on fab. None of which girlfriend material.

hot...but extremely mental

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"So it seems there are quite a few (myself included) on both these sites... How many are actually on the former to find the love of our lives or is it used to just hook up???

ive hooked up with plenty on fab. None of which girlfriend material.

hot...but extremely mental"

maybe we dont want to be your girlfriend....yeah im mental...

had profile when i wanted to date..people wanted to move me in straight away...demanding and being quite honest, not my thing..found here im happy..its more honest...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got kicked off for some reason and haven't been allowed to return lol

I also got banned from POF not sure why I'm such a good girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it seems there are quite a few (myself included) on both these sites... How many are actually on the former to find the love of our lives or is it used to just hook up???

ive hooked up with plenty on fab. None of which girlfriend material.

hot...but extremely mental

maybe we dont want to be your girlfriend....yeah im mental...

had profile when i wanted to date..people wanted to move me in straight away...demanding and being quite honest, not my thing..found here im happy..its more honest..."

I meant pof not fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But yeah on pof I had some crazy encounters in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On there too but looking for other things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though all/most of the girls seem to list 'looking for a relationship'? And 'if your looking for a one night stand, move on'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met other half on POP 4 years ago and we had a commitment ceremony last year xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even though all/most of the girls seem to list 'looking for a relationship'? And 'if your looking for a one night stand, move on'"

best thing is 8 out of 10 girls ive pulled on there have all been 'looking for a relationship' but give it up in a matter of hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even though all/most of the girls seem to list 'looking for a relationship'? And 'if your looking for a one night stand, move on'

best thing is 8 out of 10 girls ive pulled on there have all been 'looking for a relationship' but give it up in a matter of hours"

Nice lol back to getting the rod out then :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a profile on POF a few years back and had a number of "successful" meets, including my current partner. She introduced me to Fab and we've had 1 play meet and a couple of socials - personally, I definitely 'got more' on POF rather than FAB. I've now got a single profile on FAB and I just use it to send messages to women who are too arrogant (sorry, busy!) to even reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on both of them ooops lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Take my advice, OP, leave fab and stay on pof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even though all/most of the girls seem to list 'looking for a relationship'? And 'if your looking for a one night stand, move on'

best thing is 8 out of 10 girls ive pulled on there have all been 'looking for a relationship' but give it up in a matter of hours"

Very gentlemanly. So what exactly do they give up and you presumably take?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even though all/most of the girls seem to list 'looking for a relationship'? And 'if your looking for a one night stand, move on'

best thing is 8 out of 10 girls ive pulled on there have all been 'looking for a relationship' but give it up in a matter of hours

Very gentlemanly. So what exactly do they give up and you presumably take?"

not quite the imaginative type are you? Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See Fab is for me to indulge and enjoy some fantasies and POF was to find someone i could be with not just for sex but tbh most of the time all i got was messages from guys I had blocked on here saying 'wanna fuck I know your a slut on fab'

Guys seem to think because us ladies have a healthy sex drive we arent good enough to date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not necessarily, but it does make me smile when people have filters on their pof profiles 'must not be looking for intimate encounters', 'must not have messaged others looking for sex,' yet their fab profiles list numerous recent verifications from meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I closed down all of my other accounts when I found FAB because it suits my needs better and i'm hoping it's less likely any friends or relatives will find us on here!

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Somewhere in between would suit me. I enjoy fab inc parties and group sex. But it would be nice to have someone for casual dating as well, meals and evenings out, but who is ok with the swinging thing. But I think I'm asking too much

so I'll carry on fabbing for now

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

"So which is better ?

Fab...there's no pretence as to what people want"

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even though all/most of the girls seem to list 'looking for a relationship'? And 'if your looking for a one night stand, move on'

best thing is 8 out of 10 girls ive pulled on there have all been 'looking for a relationship' but give it up in a matter of hours"

Is this before or after you've pulled?! Sounds like your technique needs refining.......!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Somewhere in between would suit me. I enjoy fab inc parties and group sex. But it would be nice to have someone for casual dating as well, meals and evenings out, but who is ok with the swinging thing. But I think I'm asking too much

so I'll carry on fabbing for now

There's sites for that too.

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