FabSwingers.com forum: orgasm from penertration

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi,all just a quick question,i so want to orgasm from a guy being in me have met quite a few black guys and think have come close but something seems to stop me taking that final step.

i have recently discoverd that i quirt but that was with the guys fingers so any advice for the best way to possibly achieve orgasm from penertration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi,all just a quick question,i so want to orgasm from a guy being in me have met quite a few black guys and think have come close but something seems to stop me taking that final step.

i have recently discoverd that i quirt but that was with the guys fingers so any advice for the best way to possibly achieve orgasm from penertration."

Sadly some women just find it harder than others. Have been with some who climax in seconds, and others who take bloody forever!

If fingers are working for you, I'd suggest two things 1) if you like the clit being stimulated, mastubate this whilst he is inside you and 2) if it's inside you like fingering, figure which spots you like and angle it so he hits these specifically.

Or both! Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What have black guys got to do with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol @ others who take bloody forever

nothing like making a female feel good

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

It could be a speed thing ..or grind ing down on your clit ... But good penetrative sex is not just about sticking a cock in someone and jiggling it about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What have black guys got to do with it?"

I read this in the style of Tuna Turner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What have black guys got to do with it?

I read this in the style of Tuna Turner"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What have black guys got to do with it?

I read this in the style of Tuna Turner"

Lol

That's all I can think of now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried being on top with him wearing a cock ring? Works for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In answer to the Op I have only ever been able to orgasm from penetration alone with my husband. I think it is because I feel so connected to him and we have a huge level of trust between us. This plus the fact that we have been having sex with each other for so many years and know each others bodies so well probably makes it easier for me to completely relax and let myself go.

I do find it easier to orgasm as I am getting older and sex just gets better and better.

It does make it harder for it to happen if you think about it too much or have expectations. Being able to relax and go with it may help you to push through that barrier. Good luck.

I'm only speaking for myself though. It may be completely different for other women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi,all just a quick question,i so want to orgasm from a guy being in me have met quite a few black guys and think have come close but something seems to stop me taking that final step.

i have recently discoverd that i quirt but that was with the guys fingers so any advice for the best way to possibly achieve orgasm from penertration."

I tend to come more from penetrative sex when I go on top! Try more of a rocking motion - 'riding' him rather than simply lifting yourself up and down - I find this works for me and makes me orgasm again - and again - and again - and .............

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By *lirtyjjWoman
over a year ago

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"hi,all just a quick question,i so want to orgasm from a guy being in me have met quite a few black guys and think have come close but something seems to stop me taking that final step.

i have recently discoverd that i quirt but that was with the guys fingers so any advice for the best way to possibly achieve orgasm from penertration."

This is exactly my problem too (minus the black guy reference, no disrespect intended)

I think my main problem is i overthink it and once I start to think about not orgasming then it just isn't going to happen. Just gotta figure out how to not think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problems coming from penetrative sex. Its easy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi,all just a quick question,i so want to orgasm from a guy being in me have met quite a few black guys and think have come close but something seems to stop me taking that final step.

i have recently discoverd that i quirt but that was with the guys fingers so any advice for the best way to possibly achieve orgasm from penertration.

Ps - the colour of the penis has yet to make a difference - in fact I'm beginning to suspect my vagina is colour blind!

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Wish I could even come close!

I've never orgasmed from penetrative sex, nor do I ever expect to!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I tend to come more from penetrative sex when I go on top! Try more of a rocking motion - 'riding' him rather than simply lifting yourself up and down - I find this works for me and makes me orgasm again - and again - and again - and ............."

This works for me to, but I will say if any alcohol has been consumed by myself?

Then it is never going to happen, even on my own with my wand!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wish I could even come close!

I've never orgasmed from penetrative sex, nor do I ever expect to! "

This is exactly how I used to feel until I met Mr L. Never say never x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think my main problem is i overthink it and once I start to think about not orgasming then it just isn't going to happen. Just gotta figure out how to not think

This ^^^ Once I relax I orgasm but easier said than done (female half)

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'm not being funny but do you normally practice total sober sex? As I have only just realised that this is a common problem with females and not just myself, as alcohol whilst it makes me horny at times it de-sensitises other areas and whilst I still enjoy sex, I am never going to cum no matter how hard the guy works at it (Or myself for that matter) x

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol

My partner comes on top with me being still or arching up so you are in control

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"I have no problems coming from penetrative sex. Its easy!"

Lucky bugger lol

But seriously OP if you are enjoying yourself an orgasm is not the be all and end all. If it happens fantastic if not still fantastic because you have enjoyed the ride.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What have black guys got to do with it?

I read this in the style of Tuna Turner"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi,all just a quick question,i so want to orgasm from a guy being in me have met quite a few black guys and think have come close but something seems to stop me taking that final step.

i have recently discoverd that i quirt but that was with the guys fingers so any advice for the best way to possibly achieve orgasm from penertration."

Take him missionary and get him to go a little higher up your body than usual so his cock is pushing against your clit as he fucks you, helps if his legs are on the outside of yours. Slowly slowly then build up the speed as you grind into him. Doesn't need to be a huge cock but girth helps.

You're welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi,all just a quick question,i so want to orgasm from a guy being in me have met quite a few black guys and think have come close but something seems to stop me taking that final step.

i have recently discoverd that i quirt but that was with the guys fingers so any advice for the best way to possibly achieve orgasm from penertration."

Find a cock with a bend in it so that it keeps pressure on the G spot might be worth a try and make sure your body's in the right position I.e on your back, bum elevated. Not that I've tested these theories

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By *ouple36DDCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I have never cum from penetration. The only way is when my pussy is being licked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thanks for this i thought i was abnormal ..... I dont need to orgasm to thoroughly enjoy penetrative sex but i want to for him. Bcoz when asked "Did you, you didnt did you ??" makes me feel ive failed the practical test or even worse leaves him feeling he failed it

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