FabSwingers.com forum: Trust

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How far does it stretch on here ?

so I live in a small area, not many seemingly gen peeps, virtually no one accoms and im discerning

Chatted on and off with another TV for a year or so. They have site verifications.we seem to have a lot in common and a definite affinity. They dont accom but i will. However I know verifications aren't always trustworthy, through a couple of unpleasant experiences.Its agreed that a meet would be fun and given the limited options here it would seem ideal.

They wont verify themselves to me on cam. ok they dont have one. They wont let me have a phone number giving a slightly odd excuse. They wont meet in a public place. They wont meet me if i book a hotel room.

So i feel im meeting them half way. Have done all i can.

They will only meet if i give them my home address.

would love to know what others think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't! They won't this and they won't that. Seems rather odd to me. Giving out your address to strangers is asking for trouble!! And quite frankly veris meet mean nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How far does it stretch on here ?

so I live in a small area, not many seemingly gen peeps, virtually no one accoms and im discerning

So i feel im meeting them half way. Have done all i can.

They will only meet if i give them my home address.

would love to know what others think."

IMO the fact there is no phone number given to verify genuine then I would go no further x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't! They won't this and they won't that. Seems rather odd to me. Giving out your address to strangers is asking for trouble!! And quite frankly veris meet mean nothing "

Thanks and yes it is incredibly odd.

Its like some weird sort of psychological trust game. Prap they are from sidney university psychology/sociology dept

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Have you actually asked them why all the barriers put in the way of meeting? I personally wouldn't meet them until I'd discussed this, and maybe not even then. My house is my sanctuary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is your gut instinct saying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris are just a guide I do not class cam veris as real by that i mean it says nothing about them as people.

As for giving address do not be so naieve tell them your concerns then just block them a year is long time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you actually asked them why all the barriers put in the way of meeting? I personally wouldn't meet them until I'd discussed this, and maybe not even then. My house is my sanctuary."

Yes i have. Trust issues which i wont go into but have nothing to do with the site.

However all the trust is on my part and there is zilch on theirs. Its really odd and im a bit sucked into the mystery. However my stance on no verification no meet is something i wont move on.thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What is your gut instinct saying?"

Haha well it says they are more than likely not the person in their photos. which makes their verifications fake, on this site and fab guys. Perhaps they mean no harm but get off on the game and getting the home address is the climax.Perhaps they have malice in mind cos they hate bi people or tv's. They seem to get a kick out of wriggling their way out of things with clever excuses, maybe its an ego thing about manipulation and control. lol they aint getting my address tho

And thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Veris are just a guide I do not class cam veris as real by that i mean it says nothing about them as people.

As for giving address do not be so naieve tell them your concerns then just block them a year is long time."

Yes m8 thank you. I left the site twice over this. Made me lose all trust in the whole shebang. Im a sucka for a mystery. I realise this is one ill never fathom and leave it at that. I cant help wondering what happens when people do give them their address. Obviously not murdered in their beds or im sure i would have heard about that.

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By *asterandhiswhoreCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Don't meet them. End of

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't meet them. End of "

Oh no I wont. Thanks.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Like any potential meet, you have to tick most of the boxes. If you are unsure in any way, mark it down to experience and move on. If there is a trust issue you should put it down to incompatiblity and walk away. Unless of course you want to see if a compromise can be struck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Like any potential meet, you have to tick most of the boxes. If you are unsure in any way, mark it down to experience and move on. If there is a trust issue you should put it down to incompatiblity and walk away. Unless of course you want to see if a compromise can be struck.

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lol m8 thats the weird thing, i have compromised and met half way in all manner of ways. I did say how in my opening post. they wont, not at all. Its decidedly odd

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

All those barriers have alarm bells ringing for me. I wouldn't, they are probably fake. Move on and don't waste any more time with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't meet.

Don't give them anymore of your time and energy either.

Trust your gut!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't meet.

Don't give them anymore of your time and energy either.

Trust your gut!!"

haha youve obviously not seen my gut

No i wont waste anymore time. But its been good to hear what others think, so ty

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