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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i have been going to swingers club with a friend for 6 months now but im still very shy, it doesnt bother me when he plays with other ladies but im so shy i cant .. just wish i could get over shyness, any ideas

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"i have been going to swingers club with a friend for 6 months now but im still very shy, it doesnt bother me when he plays with other ladies but im so shy i cant .. just wish i could get over shyness, any ideas"

Can't play with women or other guys?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

not into women at all ... and just cant play with other guys.like to be watched but just am too shy

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Just with strangers or with guys you've been chatting to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just guys been chatting too....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just out of interest why would you go to a swingers club if you was to shy to play with anyone or be watched? don't mean that in a unhelpful way tho i know it is lol i just dont get it......when you say shy is it shyness or insecure? its not the same, im not shy at all but i am quite a insecure person and i find it hard to get naked in front of people because i dont like my body, but i'm ok once i have gotten to know people, im ok talking just takes me a bit of time to move to the next stage sometimes maybe if you chat to people and get to know them a little?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"just guys been chatting too...."

Would you be better in a diferent setting do you think?

Is it because you feel pressure in a club and thats what puts you off?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no i like to be watched and im quite happy with my body, i first went to a club just to please my friend and out of curiosity, dont get me wrong i like to go, i just w3ish i could get over the shyness.. if that is what it is

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we always go on couples only nights,i dont feel pressure i just feel like im missing out

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

If you like to be watched then you must have been in that situation to know you like it,why do you feel shy now?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i like to be watched but am too shy to be touched... had boobs touched this week and i was fine but cant do anything else.. maybe its not shyness maybe its not confident enough

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Sounds like a lack of confidence to me rather than shyness.

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By *ickedWWoman
over a year ago

Chester

why dont you put the clubs on the back burner for a while and try something else, like camming, you can do as little or as much as you like until you build up your confidence.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you don't want to be touched and watched. Maybe you like the freeness the club gives but can't make that final push to do something. So only advice I would give is to be 100% sure it's what u want before doing anything. Hope it all works out for you.

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