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By *aneandpaul OP   Couple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Talking to a guy on here then out the blue he wants to fuck my cunt why do these waster,s come out with such things does that sort of talk turn any ladies on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in messages and with strangers no.. but with people I know have met a few times and in the right situation yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not. A big turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys have zero class or timing.

Although I'd be more concerned if he wanted to fuck your ear!

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By *r BrightonMan
over a year ago

brighton

They are some prize arseholes in here lol

But there is some good normal guys as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talking to a guy on here then out the blue he wants to fuck my cunt why do these waster,s come out with such things does that sort of talk turn any ladies on"

If I've known the guy a while, absolutely it does.

With some of the cretins I've just met on here, no. Instant block. Vile creatures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if he said I changed mind dont want to fuck you would you be offended.

Clearly the bloke is a pratt.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

It just demonstrates a lack of respect. See it as self filtering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he was testing the water re dirty talk whilst look at your c*nt pic...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talking to a guy on here then out the blue he wants to fuck my cunt why do these waster,s come out with such things does that sort of talk turn any ladies on"

When this happens you can be pretty sure they aren't going to meet . These guys are the dreamers and fantasists who get off on the thought of meeting , but rarely show .

As soon as they say this or ask what you're wearing ..... Delete and block .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having received a few of these in your face messages I strongly suspect that the sender is not actually looking for a real face to face meet.

The sad little looser finds their sexual satisfaction simply by sending an obnoxious message & gets his orgasm from the indignant response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they are knobends.

People are human not meat and should be treated accordingly

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Maybe he was testing the water re dirty talk whilst look at your c*nt pic..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a knob!

Does he really think such an approach is going to get him anywhere?

How old is he? 15?

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

When is the right time to change subjects and send such a message?

C...

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Having received a few of these in your face messages I strongly suspect that the sender is not actually looking for a real face to face meet.

The sad little looser finds their sexual satisfaction simply by sending an obnoxious message & gets his orgasm from the indignant response."

this..well articulated

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By *LFB.Woman
over a year ago

Farnborough.

Along with the 'im going to ruin you' immediate block lol

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By *huramMan
over a year ago

London

Sex talk can be like stand up comedy.

Often offensive and your timing is essential.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Common its an adult site lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Talking to a guy on here then out the blue he wants to fuck my cunt why do these waster,s come out with such things does that sort of talk turn any ladies on"

Lack of social skills, thinking with his cock not his head, lack of understanding.....

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Massive turn off ,i hate really graphic early messages from people i don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When is the right time to change subjects and send such a message?

C..."

When you meet perhaps ?

But many women hate that kind of uncouth terminology full stop ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talking to a guy on here then out the blue he wants to fuck my cunt why do these waster,s come out with such things does that sort of talk turn any ladies on"

Whilst I'm not condoning his choice of words - when two of your three pics are of you with your legs spread wide it does give a certain impression.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talking to a guy on here then out the blue he wants to fuck my cunt why do these waster,s come out with such things does that sort of talk turn any ladies on

When this happens you can be pretty sure they aren't going to meet . These guys are the dreamers and fantasists who get off on the thought of meeting , but rarely show .

As soon as they say this or ask what you're wearing ..... Delete and block ."

Not true with all. I gauge chat with who I'm speaking too. Use mucky chat to build up to a meet. As with all things some like some dont. Also Just as comfortable chatting vanilla. Granted there will be some who want chat and no more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least you know early on that he doesn't fit what you are after, rather than lulling you into a false sense of security.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

To be fair... In keeping with all the stop targeting males post responses that have gladly been increasing.

Some people like talk like that, some don't.

The site is what you make of it, maybe he misread what was happening.

Some women do like dirty talk, some like fancy a fuck messages, some like cock pictures.

While I don't agree in being so crude I guess I can see where he might be coming from.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

Also... How do you know he's a waster?

Did you you want him to fuck you and he blocked you?

Did he not attend a meet?

Dad he go unlos after sending the message?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Talking to a guy on here then out the blue he wants to fuck my cunt why do these waster,s come out with such things does that sort of talk turn any ladies on"

Classy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talking to a guy on here then out the blue he wants to fuck my cunt why do these waster,s come out with such things does that sort of talk turn any ladies on

If I've known the guy a while, absolutely it does.

With some of the cretins I've just met on here, no. Instant block. Vile creatures."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe he was testing the water re dirty talk whilst look at your c*nt pic..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just use as another filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Devil's Advocate! - I wonder if he wouldn't have said it if you didn't have your cunt on public display?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I had:-

"How big your cock"

Which is just a shockingly poor example of grammar and in now way inclined to make me put out.

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Talking to a guy on here then out the blue he wants to fuck my cunt why do these waster,s come out with such things does that sort of talk turn any ladies on"

Don't really see the problem. Is it his choice of using the word cunt? Or his rapid switch from general chit chat to telling you what he would like to do with you?

I understand many don't like the word cunt. I prefer it. I wouldn't be offended by someone being direct or by someone using that word. I suppose it's a word I used to use tentatively as I know others can hate it. Now I just solely use it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a knob!

Does he really think such an approach is going to get him anywhere?

How old is he? 15?"

Hah! I had a 39-year-old send me a message like that and tell me to get with the times when told to learn some manners.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Talking to a guy on here then out the blue he wants to fuck my cunt why do these waster,s come out with such things does that sort of talk turn any ladies on"

Nope; not me

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"They are some prize arseholes in here lol

But there is some good normal guys as well "

I'd like to fuck that prize arsehole!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who was he talking to at the time?

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