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"Ok I've bought some but... Can a guy tell with his fingers? What if he has a big cock?!! If I have short fingers will I struggle to get it out?! Argh slight apprehension going on here! " I wouldn't advise using it for sex without telling the person to are with just in case. My husband can feel it with his fingers but after a few minutes of it being in he said it felt like me(ish) but he wasn't digging around or trying to make me squirt - just rubbing my clitoris and a little light fingers in action. He couldn't feel it during sex and said if he were wearing a condom he wouldn't have had any chance. Mine did cause a tiny bit of spotting on his belly when he went in deep. That is why I suggest you tell the person you are with especially if he does a lot of fingers in playing. Getting it out is tricky - I ended up having him pull it down a little by the loop and then I could grab it but I do know a lot of women can grab it their own selves - maybe have a trial run? These are my own personal experiences and bear in mind other people may have found things very different to me but in my case it worked quite well | |||
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"What's a beppy? " It's a sponge tampon especially made for use when having sex x | |||
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"Ok I've bought some but... Can a guy tell with his fingers? What if he has a big cock?!! If I have short fingers will I struggle to get it out?! Argh slight apprehension going on here! " I have only used them with Mr B, I personally wouldn't feel comfortable using them with anyone else. In certain positions he said he can feel them slightly. They are pretty good but I would recommend telling your play partner as they aren't always 100% effective. I've had a couple of cases where I've panicked as I couldn't get the buggar back out for a while. It's a bit easier if you squat down. | |||
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"Iv recently used something similar which are called Softcups. They are not spongy but do the same job. I told my partner at the time and he said he could just feel it but no discomfort and it was easy enough to pop out!" Are they not the same as moon cups? Designed to hold back period blood until you squish it and then you wash and re insert? I didn't think they were designed for sex but just for periods..... Well you learn something new - moon cups are not supposed to be used for sex so they must be different | |||
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"Iv recently used something similar which are called Softcups. They are not spongy but do the same job. I told my partner at the time and he said he could just feel it but no discomfort and it was easy enough to pop out! Are they not the same as moon cups? Designed to hold back period blood until you squish it and then you wash and re insert? I didn't think they were designed for sex but just for periods..... Well you learn something new - moon cups are not supposed to be used for sex so they must be different " Woohoo I am going to try them..... Beppy is not perfect for me so maybe a soft cup will work better - thank you for telling me about them xx | |||
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"Are they not the same as moon cups? Designed to hold back period blood until you squish it and then you wash and re insert? I didn't think they were designed for sex but just for periods..... Well you learn something new - moon cups are not supposed to be used for sex so they must be different Woohoo I am going to try them..... Beppy is not perfect for me so maybe a soft cup will work better - thank you for telling me about them xx" I looked at mooncups but thought they might do him an injury lol. I guess you may have Googled them but they are a firm ring with a clear film which catches the blood, the ones I got online are disposable but I believe they do have reusable ones. When I first opened them, my friend and I were a bit like wtf? How is that going in but it was ok and I never felt it! Hope you get on ok with them x | |||
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"Are they not the same as moon cups? Designed to hold back period blood until you squish it and then you wash and re insert? I didn't think they were designed for sex but just for periods..... Well you learn something new - moon cups are not supposed to be used for sex so they must be different Woohoo I am going to try them..... Beppy is not perfect for me so maybe a soft cup will work better - thank you for telling me about them xx I looked at mooncups but thought they might do him an injury lol. I guess you may have Googled them but they are a firm ring with a clear film which catches the blood, the ones I got online are disposable but I believe they do have reusable ones. When I first opened them, my friend and I were a bit like wtf? How is that going in but it was ok and I never felt it! Hope you get on ok with them x" I had to google them - hoping they would be a softer version of a moon cup and they certainly do look it so I am goig to try them.....I am so pleased I wandered back to this thread - again thank you xxxxx | |||
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"With the beppy get the wet not the dry as they are shaped differently and as well as being easier to insert are easier to grab hold of to retrieve. All beppy tampons have a little hole in them that you can thread a piece of dental floss through (and tie) before using to use to pull them out again. Just tuck the thread inside and that's what you need to get hold of to remove. If all else fails then waterlog it. Use a shower hose to get water to it and then the weight of the waterlogged sponge will make it drop. If you have to do this then keep some balance activ or some rephresh handy." spot on advice | |||
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"This sounds way too complicated " Agreed! I am SO glad Bradley doesn't have a problem fucking me when I'm on. I've tried these Beppy things before and would sooner masturbate than go through the hassle for someone who insisted I wear one. Trying to get it out took forever and left me sore and dried out (and using water up there isn't exactly great for your PH balance). It was a long time ago with a different partner but with all the hassle, I was left feeling like the fuck wasn't worth it, lol. - Amy. x | |||
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