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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If like us you're a couple who meets single guys rather than couples, I'm interested to know how you choose your play mates. For instance with us Mrs Fandango will usually be approached by a guy via message then chat for a while then I'll have a veto. How about you?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

This would depend, but if at clubs, where we often playa, alone, it just happens if one of use likes the look of a guy we chat and go from there. Since we have different tastes in men, I get the initial approach, but we discuss immediately. Of course, we like to share any man we meet, but that does not always happen ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If like us you're a couple who meets single guys rather than couples, I'm interested to know how you choose your play mates. For instance with us Mrs Fandango will usually be approached by a guy via message then chat for a while then I'll have a veto. How about you?"

Pretty much same for us but we usually make a group chat on kik and see if we all get along if i dont like the male then we dont meet him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This would depend, but if at clubs, where we often playa, alone, it just happens if one of use likes the look of a guy we chat and go from there. Since we have different tastes in men, I get the initial approach, but we discuss immediately. Of course, we like to share any man we meet, but that does not always happen ..."

This probably works well for you as you both play at clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either of us can veto anything at any time. Whether it's choosing wallpaper or someone to fuck, rule is the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If like us you're a couple who meets single guys rather than couples, I'm interested to know how you choose your play mates. For instance with us Mrs Fandango will usually be approached by a guy via message then chat for a while then I'll have a veto. How about you?

Pretty much same for us but we usually make a group chat on kik and see if we all get along if i dont like the male then we dont meet him "

Hmmm we Should use that feature more ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If like us you're a couple who meets single guys rather than couples, I'm interested to know how you choose your play mates. For instance with us Mrs Fandango will usually be approached by a guy via message then chat for a while then I'll have a veto. How about you?

Pretty much same for us but we usually make a group chat on kik and see if we all get along if i dont like the male then we dont meet him

Hmmm we Should use that feature more ourselves. "

Plus its really horny watching the wife swap pics with someone else whilst im working

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr chooses when and what.....I make suggestions as to who then he puts them into numbered order for me to contact them. Phone or message is usually by me with his ocassional input. This suits us. Every couple will have their own way. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Group chat on kik yes also if they have it. Some can get quite demanding of time or try side chattimg out of the group which can get them off the to do list.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Group chat on kik yes also if they have it. Some can get quite demanding of time or try side chattimg out of the group which can get them off the to do list."

Ah a good test!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoever gets online first has a look and mails them. The other gets online and keeps chatting to them/ says no thanks as appropriate. Then I do most of the chatting.

If it's in a club we both look then if one's not happy we have a signal so the other knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never pick the guys if I can help it.. (ms) I prefer Mr to make the decision.

In a club I won't ( much to Mr deviants despair at times ) make a move on a guy... Until he says something or gestures towards a guy. Even then I May or May not. My worst thing is when Mr asks me to sort something out x as I hate having to make the decisions x

If Mr picks them I know he is happy with that choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Group chat on kik yes also if they have it. Some can get quite demanding of time or try side chattimg out of the group which can get them off the to do list."

So true! We occasionally use whatsapp to out the sly

S x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"If like us you're a couple who meets single guys rather than couples, I'm interested to know how you choose your play mates. For instance with us Mrs Fandango will usually be approached by a guy via message then chat for a while then I'll have a veto. How about you?"

A man messages us or we message them, we decide if we would like to meet for a social then take it from there. If any of the three people involved decide they don't want to take it further it doesn't go ahead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it when its clearly the male half interested for the female half...in meeting me...

somehow it comes to silence when actually arranging anything...

I turned up at a meet once and the female half clearly had no idea who I was...nor was she interested...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Group chat on kik yes also if they have it. Some can get quite demanding of time or try side chattimg out of the group which can get them off the to do list."

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We do a search on Fab and stick a pin in the monitor screen results to pick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do a search of single guys fitting our criteria , put them on a list mildred looks through them chooses three or four of them, then I contact and chat on mildreds behalf and choose just one and arrange a meet, mildred don't like chatting on here feels awkward talking to strangers as she is very shy to start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If like us you're a couple who meets single guys rather than couples, I'm interested to know how you choose your play mates. For instance with us Mrs Fandango will usually be approached by a guy via message then chat for a while then I'll have a veto. How about you?"

Dunno, she usually leaves it to me, but am getting fed up with being wrong.

Trying to get her more involved and proactive in the process.

But it's frustrating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If like us you're a couple who meets single guys rather than couples, I'm interested to know how you choose your play mates. For instance with us Mrs Fandango will usually be approached by a guy via message then chat for a while then I'll have a veto. How about you?

Dunno, she usually leaves it to me, but am getting fed up with being wrong.

Trying to get her more involved and proactive in the process.

But it's frustrating. "

Perhaps it's her way if tactfully saying she doesn't want to meet anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's fine if it were true but she is always saying she wants to have some fun.

She worries that I will think she is too enthusiastic and will get jealous.

That's what she says.

Maybe you are right.

I will go and ask her immediately.

Maybe we need to reevaluate or have a break from swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's fine if it were true but she is always saying she wants to have some fun.

She worries that I will think she is too enthusiastic and will get jealous.

That's what she says.

Maybe you are right.

I will go and ask her immediately.

Maybe we need to reevaluate or have a break from swinging?

"

It was just a thought. A possibility. Your explanation makes sense.

Also she might just not fancy anyone. Not suggesting anything is wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs rarely comes on fab , so it's all down to me .

She much prefers it this way and it works well for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If like us you're a couple who meets single guys rather than couples, I'm interested to know how you choose your play mates. For instance with us Mrs Fandango will usually be approached by a guy via message then chat for a while then I'll have a veto. How about you?

Pretty much same for us but we usually make a group chat on kik and see if we all get along if i dont like the male then we dont meet him "

Pretty much how we decide too. Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks so far for everyone's contributions! Well done!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mrs rarely comes on fab , so it's all down to me .

She much prefers it this way and it works well for us "

See I prefer to just know as little as possible till we get to something.

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