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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

.....more of a social or get down to business straight away?

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Depends on the individual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social every time for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a social first. When I first started using Fab, I didn't have a social meet first & the sex was shit for me because there wasn't a connection.

Now, I get to know them a bit first & the sex is so much better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials for the win. If you get play afterwards, then great! But if you don't then it's fine as you aren't expecting play. Better than expecting a play then not getting it due to various reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first but always go prepared for if it turns into more

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Sex first meet we don't have much spare time and do not want to waste it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get down to business every time

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

We always meet for a social first. But so far we've always ended up playing on the same night.

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By *rs TootyWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Most def social first, made the mistake of chatting online for a while. Arranged a sex meet n immediately wished I hadn't.

Was nothing like their profile pic :-/ regret it to this day..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social first but always go prepared for if it turns into more "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always go with the vibe... As a former scout... Be prepared!!

Btw I left scouts when I was 16

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

My house

She enters and goes upstairs with some bubbly.

I go up to find her blindfolded and ready.

I tie her down.

Tease and...tease some more.

Eventually have great sex.

Then I remove the blindfold, say hi, and we meet again...properly.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Social to determine an attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a social - fun, relaxed, and the ideal way to build the tension to bursting point...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first, always

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Social first everytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally it depends on the person I'll ask the woman if she wants a social to see if she's happy with me or if we've been chatting a while then play meet all depends on the person. But if it's 1st players I send upto date pics etc so hopefully they don't get shocked

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

Social first. No attraction no playing simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My house

She enters and goes upstairs with some bubbly.

I go up to find her blindfolded and ready.

I tie her down.

Tease and...tease some more.

Eventually have great sex.

Then I remove the blindfold, say hi, and we meet again...properly. "

I was just on my way over and then I read that you're not meeting anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight down to business for me.

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

Socials first here. I learned that lesson the hard way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We go with social with view to play otherwise too much pressure to play without being sure

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By *reg76Man
over a year ago

Chester

Social first always...makes the fun soooo much better when you have already got to know them a bit and done some teasing & flirting!

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By *ollydimplesWoman
over a year ago

hamilton

Social every time .. theres got to be an attraction or whats the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always social to make sure we like each other then get down to it lol

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Always social first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

I like to meet for a drink and a chat first meet but if its obvious we like each other I'd rather play that meet, I see no point walking away and arranging a meet for another time if you both want to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus I only do one offs so if we don't play first meet its not going to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. Just turning up for an hour or so of play would not interest me. Meeting for a drink first and then do the do after would be my preferred way to do it. A pure social is fine having said that.

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