FabSwingers.com forum: 3 Simple Rules

By *he_original_polo OP Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

For many years I have applied 3 simple rules to swinging/recreational sex:

1 - Be honest with yourself about what you really want.

2 - Be honest with the people you intend to meet about what you want.

3 - Never do anything you don't really want to do just to keep someone else happy.

Just lately it appears.....*sigh*..... never mind, I just thought I would share.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For many years I have applied 3 simple rules to swinging/recreational sex:

1 - Be honest with yourself about what you really want.

2 - Be honest with the people you intend to meet about what you want.

3 - Never do anything you don't really want to do just to keep someone else happy.

Just lately it appears.....*sigh*..... never mind, I just thought I would share."

Good points. I would add a third and that is you meet socially first be honest about if you want to meet or not to play later. We are with people and people take it better than saying you do and never following through with things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they're pretty much the same "rules" that we abide by.

They come first and foremost. They preceed preferences.

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By *he_original_polo OP Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"For many years I have applied 3 simple rules to swinging/recreational sex:

1 - Be honest with yourself about what you really want.

2 - Be honest with the people you intend to meet about what you want.

3 - Never do anything you don't really want to do just to keep someone else happy.

Just lately it appears.....*sigh*..... never mind, I just thought I would share.

You will find that is covered in #2.

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By *he_original_polo OP Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I now realise I do need a 4th rule...

4 - In the event of ignoring 1-3, just posts a question in one of the forums, because the majority will jump in and blame the guy even with only snippets of your side of the story.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Blame the guy...? For what.

Do couples blame the guy if your referring to couples or are you thinking single guys?

Am in a curious mood.

Curious _ruit x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my rule is ..........when adding a third to an existing three it could be advantageous to rename your third a fourth ..

just a fought - i mean a throught.... an idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blame the guy...? For what.

Do couples blame the guy if your referring to couples or are you thinking single guys?

Am in a curious mood.

Curious _ruit x"

Change your nick to CuriousFruit. It's fantastic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on second thoughts.......

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

curious_ruit lol, think I am way past the curious stage in swinging tho lol.

Bi_ruit

buy_ruit

On a extra note, I was on the phone with a company and I had to ask the usual questions, my ethnnic minority etc and the next queation was am I,straight,gay,bi or something else possibly.

I have never been asked before and was quite happy and proud to say I am bi, surprised the man a bit but has anyone else been asked?

Curiousbi_ruit lol x

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"For many years I have applied 3 simple rules to swinging/recreational sex:

1 - Be honest with yourself about what you really want.

2 - Be honest with the people you intend to meet about what you want.

3 - Never do anything you don't really want to do just to keep someone else happy.

Just lately it appears.....*sigh*..... never mind, I just thought I would share."

Excellent Polo. As usual, common sense by the bucket load.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For many years I have applied 3 simple rules to swinging/recreational sex:

1 - Be honest with yourself about what you really want.

2 - Be honest with the people you intend to meet about what you want.

3 - Never do anything you don't really want to do just to keep someone else happy.

Just lately it appears.....*sigh*..... never mind, I just thought I would share."

Good advice.

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