FabSwingers.com forum: this site is so hard to get into

By *ice guy 44 OP Man
over a year ago

wrexham

been on here a while now im not the best looking im quiet fit looking gen my profile does not run any ne down but find it hard to get started only met 2 off here.

how the hell do some people do it any help please or can some of you ladys check my profile and say thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you should start going to the clubs on singles and couples nights. Fab members have partys at alot of places over the uk and some single men are very welcome theres no worries about going alone as there will be other singles there and most i have been to make you very welcome, Its a good way of meeting people face to face and you never know you my click and have fun. look at uk forum here xx jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps you should explain why you can't accomodate. As a single girl, a can't accomodate is a sure sign that he has a wife indoors.

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By *ice guy 44 OP Man
over a year ago

wrexham

no its i do not live on my own at the mo in my parents place untill i get my own thats the reason why thats all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just looked at your profile and you have a fab body i would think lots of ladys here would like you. jo xx

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"no its i do not live on my own at the mo in my parents place untill i get my own thats the reason why thats all "

Don't worry . not all of us think the same.

Personally I think you only have to explain to anyone you meet anyway..if at all.

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By *laggMan
over a year ago

gloucester

Well done, 2 meets . That's more than some of us that are over forty and straight, but really I think it's a game of persiverance untill you click with the right folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no its i do not live on my own at the mo in my parents place untill i get my own thats the reason why thats all

Don't worry . not all of us think the same.

Personally I think you only have to explain to anyone you meet anyway..if at all."

Great point.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Your profile looks great and the pics are great.

Socials are excellent and would also suggest the chat room with your face on cam(not your dick) and just chat with people. You may find it hard but as with anything its how you come across and how you speak to people that makes a difference.

There are of course swing clubs if you fancy going on a single male night.

It is very hard for single males as so many of them on the site and same for other sites.

Just be polite and genuine and work out the actualy maths rations on here and that will help you understand how hard it is for single males.

Personally I luvvvv single males,especially ones near me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"been on here a while now im not the best looking im quiet fit looking gen my profile does not run any ne down but find it hard to get started only met 2 off here.

how the hell do some people do it any help please or can some of you ladys check my profile and say thanks"

Just check out the amount of new guys in the New Men section.

Half of them have probably joined since your O.P.

Also have a look at the Introductions Forum and the ratio of men to couples/women..........that's where the problem lies for most guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no its i do not live on my own at the mo in my parents place untill i get my own thats the reason why thats all "

Pop it on your profile, just stops fems thinking you may be married.

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By *ilthythanetCouple
over a year ago

ramsgate

Unfortunately, it's notoriously difficult for single males to get meets on here, and in the lifestyle in general, and there is a lot of competition.

As an ex single male single swinger myself, i'd totally recommend going along to clubs that have couples and singles nights.

Don't let yourself become jaded by the people who would write you off before they've even messaged you.

Good luck.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

ive said this before just sell your self works for me also deepens who your looking to meet cpls or single fems if i was you go down the cpls route just keep trying

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By *ice guy 44 OP Man
over a year ago

wrexham

thanks just looked at yours to wow i will see how it goes. keep you informed

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By *ice guy 44 OP Man
over a year ago

wrexham

yes not bad but i sent 40 messages for that

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By *ice guy 44 OP Man
over a year ago

wrexham

moving near you neaxt week ok haha

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By *ice guy 44 OP Man
over a year ago

wrexham

thanks mate new there was nice people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes not bad but i sent 40 messages for that "

Sometimes it takes 40 messages to make a connection, sometimes only 4.

It can be frustrating, but worth keeping at it.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

one week ago ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not single but if I were, a guy living with parents is a put off at any age.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Economic times are hard. I lived with my parents for a few months last year. I din't like it, but it was absolutely the logical thing to do.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

see... I don't have a problem with the living at home stuff..... by where my mum is (basically in the area by the olympic stadium) I know rents are thru the roof...

the problem i have is that he asked the question months ago... got lots of good answers.....

then asked the question again last week.... and got lots of answers.....

then asked the same question again today... which raises loads of red flags...

impatience, not listening to advice, moaning ect ect ect....

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Fabio seems to talk a lot of sense...

A big question is are you after a shag, or memorable sex?

If its the quick shag, because not had any for a few weeks, then desperation smells!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez took a break not been on fabs for two months and you guys are still whinging.

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

This is the second thread you`ve put up about the self same thing.

FFS man. Get a life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is the second thread you`ve put up about the self same thing.

FFS man. Get a life!"

He has one...he just wants a shag!

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

"This is the second thread you`ve put up about the self same thing.

FFS man. Get a life!"

Sorry, I stand corrected - THREE threads

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By *anba2Couple
over a year ago

burbage

Yes...this thread is not as funny as the last one tho... Made me laugh so much

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