FabSwingers.com forum: people not replying to messages

By *ary bailey OP Couple
over a year ago

basildon

We only get to play now and again and find it really bad when people don't reply to emails asking if they would like to meet. As every day you wait for a reply lowers your chances of getting a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not rude to not reply , admin have already said that. Take it as a not interested and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't wait for a reply then! Get on with your day and if you get a reply great, if not, move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you want to meet someone that won't reply to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont reply to all messages.

And i dont feel bad about it

Do you feel bad when you put the phone down to a cold call or marketing call no! Same thing here its a cold message if u get the point

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"Don't wait for a reply then! Get on with your day and if you get a reply great, if not, move on."

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By *ary bailey OP Couple
over a year ago

basildon

This is people on our so called friends list that have chatted with over time not randoms. So should we just block them??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is people on our so called friends list that have chatted with over time not randoms. So should we just block them??"

Or you could just unfriend them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is people on our so called friends list that have chatted with over time not randoms. So should we just block them??"

I regularly clear through my friends list and remove people who have stopped talking or who never get round to meeting.

It's the nature of people, especially on here, to lose interest after those first initial flirts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would presume that if they have read the messege but havn't replied that they are not interested and it isn't rude to not reply to messeges !

I don't always reply to messeges i get because it sometimes leads to abusive messeges from the person i have said no thanks too !

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

My best advice,.. Dont worry about what others are doing, get on with doing your thing.

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By *andp01Couple
over a year ago

here n there

"It's not rude to not reply , admin have already said that. Take it as a not interested and move on. "

IT IS rude don't care what admin say, you put a profile on here to get to meet people then ignore them when they mail you, whats not rude about that !!!

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By *ary bailey OP Couple
over a year ago

basildon

I didn't know you could unfriend. fuck it block them. I think it's rude take 2 seconds to say sorry can't this sat. To all those that don't reply to so called friends messages to meet block us now

thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not rude to not reply , admin have already said that. Take it as a not interested and move on.

IT IS rude don't care what admin say, you put a profile on here to get to meet people then ignore them when they mail you, whats not rude about that !!!"

Sometimes i get so many messeges asking to meet that i simply can't reply to them all and being as admin (who are the bosses so to speak) say it isn't rude to not reply then i go by that rule

If i replied to all messeges i was sent and then they sent another messege back and i had to reply to that too i wouldn't have anytime for meeting lol

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It can also depend on the message,any asking me to meet without any prior contact i delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not rude to not reply , admin have already said that. Take it as a not interested and move on.

IT IS rude don't care what admin say, you put a profile on here to get to meet people then ignore them when they mail you, whats not rude about that !!!"

I don't reply to all messages I receive, I can get 30+ in an hour at times. If I replied to all of those it'd be a full time job.

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By *ary bailey OP Couple
over a year ago

basildon

Totally. These are people we have chatted with xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We only get to play now and again and find it really bad when people don't reply to emails asking if they would like to meet. As every day you wait for a reply lowers your chances of getting a meet. "

It happens but why rely on one profile for a response? Have a network of friends who you can enjoy meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

70 million people in Britain and can't all be everyone's cup of tea. Just get over it and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I woulnt worry about not getting a reply, just move to the next profile. Its funnie how some think they get hundreds of msg and think they are popular, hello its not just them its most women the same.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"It's not rude to not reply , admin have already said that. Take it as a not interested and move on.

IT IS rude don't care what admin say, you put a profile on here to get to meet people then ignore them when they mail you, whats not rude about that !!!

I don't reply to all messages I receive, I can get 30+ in an hour at times. If I replied to all of those it'd be a full time job."

This. Waay too many to reply to at times.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

different expectations, this is what this is about imo...

some say its rude not to reply, others say it isnt.

i chat to lots of people, who ive chatted to before, i also put to the back of the queue, some people who ive already arranged a meet with, in order to talk to others i havent.

people who continue to msg me like every three hours with a hi suzy, how are you?..when ive already spent time arranging a meet with them, dont get my priority attention.

had a couple recently do this getting stroppy cos i was still online and couldnt get to speak to me all day... they had the gall to say i sounded anrgy, when i sent a short note after three messages saying i was busy, speak and see you soon.

i am not your answer to boredom or your exclusive pen pal. i am nice and friendly, usually. the couple above got blocked eventually. they had annoyed me so much i didnt want to see them anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I answer my friends list messages.

I was getting far too much mail and not answering half of it, don't have the time to. Was not being rude. And have changed my message settings, so I do not get unnecessary mail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not rude to not reply , admin have already said that. Take it as a not interested and move on.

IT IS rude don't care what admin say, you put a profile on here to get to meet people then ignore them when they mail you, whats not rude about that !!!"

That's the beauty of this site , we can all do what works best for us , I for one will continue to ignore the messages that clearly haven't read my profile when it's on show and so don't fit what I am looking for as you will continue to answer every message you get.

Win win all round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its anyones perogative to not reply if theyre not interested

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I don't reply to all messages, the hi, hows you and nice tits just get deleted. But I do reply to all mail from those on my friend lists. If I have sent a few messages to friends that are read and deleted without a reply I unfriend them, usually get a message soon after asking why I removed them, I'm happy to let them know why

If I get a 1st message asking to meet if I don't have a meet request up or anything in my status I ignore them.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

If you accept some people don't reply you will probably enjoy the site better

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