FabSwingers.com forum: Why can't I just watch in directing rooms?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are a couple, but that does not mean what we want is the same! Hubby is a Bi curious exhibitionist who likes spanking - I am a straight female who likes voyeurism. So why, every time I go into a room am I asked to get my tits out, drop my knickers & give hubby a BJ? Why is a female not 'allowed' to JUST watch - like all the guys out there? The other day there was 187 in a directing room - and only 3 females! I suggest that if the guys weren't so predatory - & jumped on you soon as you enter a room - you would get far more girls in there. Sexism is alive & well on FS!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies....many different folk out there I guess. I def like being watched! Bob x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore them

Do ur own thing

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By *ewshyTV/TS
over a year ago

falkirk

fair point

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

"We are a couple, but that does not mean what we want is the same! Hubby is a Bi curious exhibitionist who likes spanking - I am a straight female who likes voyeurism. So why, every time I go into a room am I asked to get my tits out, drop my knickers & give hubby a BJ? Why is a female not 'allowed' to JUST watch - like all the guys out there? The other day there was 187 in a directing room - and only 3 females! I suggest that if the guys weren't so predatory - & jumped on you soon as you enter a room - you would get far more girls in there. Sexism is alive & well on FS!!!!

Have to say I am in agreement to a point.

We love going on cam and showing off, but the directing just gets ridiculous!

And as soon as another woman comes in the room they forget all about you and say the same chat up lines to them!

I have always said, I don't think you should be allowed to direct unless you're on cam yourself!

Would be easy for the mods to keep an eye on, as they soon kick people out for directing in non directing rooms/typing in capitals etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We do do our own thing but, PM box after PM box appears on the screen. You end up getting so busy deleting these that you never get the chance to enjoy anything! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do do our own thing but, PM box after PM box appears on the screen. You end up getting so busy deleting these that you never get the chance to enjoy anything! xx"

Close the pm box set it to friends only or nobody

Job done

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't mind being on cam - even if just to watch - but I am 'directed' to do allsorts to hubby. I agree that they soon flock to the newest on screen & bombard you with invites to privately Skype. Puts me off a bit. We want to swing but I am fed up of everyones focus on me & not hubby! Same in Bisexual chat - just a lot of single guys wanting to play with me.

Oh! I'll get over it, I guess! xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Didn't know you could control/set PM box! Will defo give it a try - Thank Q! XX

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks! Us girls have got to stick together! XX

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By *ileyMan
over a year ago

basildon

"Ignore them

Do ur own thing"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I can't seem to block PM in directing room. How do I do this (& please give me an idiots guide as I'm not that savvy!!)

Help very appreciated! XX

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