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Where do you get chatted up the most?

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By *r_BigHead OP   Man
over a year ago

The Naughty Step (aka Northampton)

People always go on about people not approaching each other in swingers clubs. So, a question for the girls ... Do you get chatted up more in a swingers club or a night club / night out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nightclubs... I find it awkward.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Dance floor,s i like to dance Paul,s a bar fly soon have a guy dancing with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None. Never get chatted up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Neither. "
snap

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"None. Never get chatted up "

Yeah, right....

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

I have to stray into a gay bar to get chatted up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None. Never get chatted up

Yeah, right...."

It's true

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"None. Never get chatted up

Yeah, right....

It's true "

Well, I can't believe that....but then I can't see your face ...can't even message you to show you mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pubs, nightclubs, on the dance floor or in the casino.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I have never been chatted up in my life. I have been chatted to (and possibly chatted up) but have never been able to figure out if people are just friendly or interested so I assume friendly by default.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None. Never get chatted up "

snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In front of the mirror

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None. Never get chatted up

Yeah, right....

It's true

Well, I can't believe that....but then I can't see your face ...can't even message you to show you mine "

Ha are u saying I may have an ugly face?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tesco's but find a nice class of lady in Aldi

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"None. Never get chatted up

Yeah, right....

It's true

Well, I can't believe that....but then I can't see your face ...can't even message you to show you mine

Ha are u saying I may have an ugly face? "

Nah...I'm just chatting you up....seeing as it never happens to you..I would like to judge for myself though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waitrose.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Neither. snap "

Me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tesco's but find a nice class of lady in Aldi "

agree - supermarkets can be a great place - lots of flirting going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do my hunting in morrissons, best place to find sweet mature women"

Hanging out in the meat section, no doubt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

trains i kid you not

a swinger club not many men come chat me yo

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By *hocolate007Man
over a year ago

london

I do my hunting in morrissons, best place to find sweet mature women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do my hunting in morrissons, best place to find sweet mature women. "

Hanging out in the meat section, no doubt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oddest was in the queue for an ice cream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oddest was in the queue for an ice cream.

"

2 ball screwball?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None. Never get chatted up

Yeah, right....

It's true

Well, I can't believe that....but then I can't see your face ...can't even message you to show you mine

Ha are u saying I may have an ugly face?

Nah...I'm just chatting you up....seeing as it never happens to you..I would like to judge for myself though "

Oohhhh I did not get that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oddest was in the queue for an ice cream.

2 ball screwball?"

The works.

99 with chocolate sauce.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm crap at picking up signals. Just assume being friendly until my friends tell me what the deal is lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oddest was in the queue for an ice cream.

2 ball screwball?

The works.

99 with chocolate sauce. "

Quite a mouthful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm crap at picking up signals. Just assume being friendly until my friends tell me what the deal is lol "

It often bewilders me.

A young man in the park the other day kept staring at me.

I thought he was planning to mug me......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm!!

I do very well in normal bars etc - but in swingers clubs??

I sit on an empty sofa - within seconds it's full - and the one next to it!! I get in an empty jacuzzi and hey presto!!

I do love chatting to lots of people though - but if I want to talk to fem friends too then I have to get up and walk over to them! Thinking of changing my perfume!!

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Very happy to be chatted up..........!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The gym, Tesco, School gates,work and swingers clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get chatted up. My friends are all the attractive ones so I'm overlooked x

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Me never...Flik constantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i visit head office !

Nothing worse than a big office full of ladies .. There worse than men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since I'm now single for the first time since 1993 I don't know the signs at all. Last week at a book launch I was apparently chatted up but I thought she and her friend were just been friendly and making polite convo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never, but then i don't think i could tell even if they were

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get chatted up anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get chatted up anywhere "

Then the people who live near u are blind and stupid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get chatted up anywhere

Then the people who live near u are blind and stupid"

Who do u think is posting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the train station,platform 2, by the stairs. I don't do clubs of any kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never been chatted up in my life. I have been chatted to (and possibly chatted up) but have never been able to figure out if people are just friendly or interested so I assume friendly by default."

Well I haven't met you but you seem interesting, sexy, and (braces for a slap) cute. So I'd chat you up if I wasn't exactly the same as you and completely inept at it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get chatted up

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"I have never been chatted up in my life. I have been chatted to (and possibly chatted up) but have never been able to figure out if people are just friendly or interested so I assume friendly by default."

I wouldn't have a clue if I was being chatted up. And even if I was fairly certain I was, I wouldn't want to make the first move in case I had got it wrong in swingers clubs and in normal life

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

47 replies and nobody has said it, so here goes...

"I only get chatted up in one place...my dreams"

Thank you and goodnight

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By *ark NoirMan
over a year ago

London

My nearest off licence, the local beggers use that as a tactic to get loose change off me. Always a motive with some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In bars, shops, train stations, on the street...pretty much everywhere.

I've never been to a swingers club and don't intend to, but I imagine it would be no different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get chatted up more at work... Really annoying tbh.... X

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I get chatted up most often when I am out with girls from work in a vanilla setting.......guys are always trying to pull me away to talk to them and not others. It got to the stage last time that anyone who spoke to me was told that I was not having sex with anyone that night - a lot of really shocked faces

My work colleagues say I give off pheromones

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By *itTVlondonTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I get chatted up my cab drivers all the time

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By *r_BigHead OP   Man
over a year ago

The Naughty Step (aka Northampton)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At our age, never get chatted up now....

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By *r_BigHead OP   Man
over a year ago

The Naughty Step (aka Northampton)

By the sounds of things I'm amazed that anything actually happens in club, since everyone is standing around not talking.

Goes to show that most swingers appear to be quite shy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never been chatted up in my life. I have been chatted to (and possibly chatted up) but have never been able to figure out if people are just friendly or interested so I assume friendly by default."

Judging by your pics... You've definitely been chatted up and need to rest that default friendly setting as it's clearly a lil faulty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get chatted up the most from d*unks standing at the bus stop

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Hospital. I'm a terrible flirt with porters, nurses and paramedics. Last time I was in, it was all the male theatre staff hitting me up, I flirt back twice as hard and have a giggle.

Oddly, when I'm sat at traffic lights, I've had guys hand over their bloody phone numbers on a scrap of paper (most likely to be their mates number, never followed up on them!).

I rarely get chance to be chatted up in a club and that is where I meet 99% of the time, but that's because I'm always first to just wander off to strike up convo with people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Neither. "
poor you. I'm sure you do really.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"People always go on about people not approaching each other in swingers clubs. So, a question for the girls ... Do you get chatted up more in a swingers club or a night club / night out?"

I very rarely get chatted up. I'll often get people chatting to me but that's more in a general friendly way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get chatted up the most from d*unks standing at the bus stop "

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