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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you experience a low after your hotwife/cuckoldress/mistress has had a meet. Am I the only person who gets this or do others? It's not a jealousy thing and soon passes back into wanting her to meet up again but hard to put into words.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Do you experience a low after your hotwife/cuckoldress/mistress has had a meet. Am I the only person who gets this or do others? It's not a jealousy thing and soon passes back into wanting her to meet up again but hard to put into words."

Could you mime it?

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

is it because you're left wondering when you'll next have that excited feeling before her next meeting?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

is it because you're left wondering when you'll next have that excited feeling before her next meeting?"

There's still a mix of negative emotions so guess it could be just a processing of those but perhaps it could be

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

How long have you been in chastity?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not in chasity atm longest was for 4 days but that's a relatively new event

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By *hunderstruckMan
over a year ago

Northampton

It might be that the whole scenario is so high in emotion , the cuck being denied or even made to see something he doesn't want to.

Or do something he doesn't twant to .but does it to please his wife or bull.

Then feels a little embaressed or ashamed of himself for not being enough for his wife . But still wants to please her

Long may it last lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Perhaps ashamed or embarrassed but not because I don't want to see her having and enjoying fun with other men. I guess because vanilla people don't get off on their partners teasing them about the guys they've been with or ignore you as they walk in snogging the guy they've been out with all night.

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By *hunderstruckMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Each cuckold relationships different

Some will embrace the fact they have been cucked and it will always be a high , while others feel low at certain times . Maybe you like to watch and know she's enjoying herself

But you don't give her those feelings she craves .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds similar to sub drop... is it? I get that and it's a bit of a nightmare sometimes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds similar to sub drop... is it? I get that and it's a bit of a nightmare sometimes"

Yes possibly seeing not just a cuck but a sub as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always mindful as a bull of these moments when the the couple need alone time to rekindle.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds similar to sub drop... is it? I get that and it's a bit of a nightmare sometimes

Yes possibly seeing not just a cuck but a sub as well"

Haven't got much advise but I can sympathise. The only thing that sorts my head out is an honest conversation. Not even necessarily a load of reassurance, just the act of talking through it helps me process my emotions better. Big virtual cuddles from me next time you have it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds similar to sub drop... is it? I get that and it's a bit of a nightmare sometimes

Yes possibly seeing not just a cuck but a sub as well

Thanks and after a quick google search Sub drop is spot on. I get bit moody and sometimes depressed after she's had a meet. Can be more or less depending on the level of involvement I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby has the same problem,then gets over it after a few days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I think the OP is right. I think it's a simple case of you've enjoyed it immensely and then quite soon after you ask your hot partner if they enjoyed it and would like it again. Mrs N is usually pretty ambivalent about it and can take it or leave it.

As you say it's not jealousy, just a desire to repeat and like most blokes as soon as our cock is able to get hard again we are up for more.

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

"Not in chasity atm longest was for 4 days but that's a relatively new event"

ok, I thought maybe it could be cum denial issues. Of course I don't know if you're used to that or not though

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By *anDare70Man
over a year ago

kirkby

It may be akin to sub-drop in bdsm. If so then it would suggest that she needs to spend close time with you after, reassuring, reaffirming whilst you get your feet basic.

Basically having been intense on an exciting emotional ride you can suddenly be left in a void when it stops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds similar to sub drop... is it? I get that and it's a bit of a nightmare sometimes

Yes possibly seeing not just a cuck but a sub as well

Thanks and after a quick google search Sub drop is spot on. I get bit moody and sometimes depressed after she's had a meet. Can be more or less depending on the level of involvement I have"

Well there are loads of things to try to ease sub drop. Everything from no talking but lots of touching right through to no touching but lots of talking. Perhaps asking your domme to have a read of some good websites around aftercare, it may limit your drop when you both work out what you react best to. I sent R links to sub drop and aftercare before we'd even really got into a d/s relationship as some of the things we were discussing were venturing a bit that way and I knew I'd need it.

I also found an interesting website on what to do if your dom(me) isn't around so maybe you could read up on that as well?

Like I said before, lots of virtual cuddles from me but I'm sure your domme can help you loads x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was cuckold to my first wife for 2 years, it was a mixture of excitement, humiliation and submissiveness, we had some wonderful times and amazing sex, she also said she loved me more than ever for allowing her to see other men

She did how ever eventually leave me for one of these men so tread carefully.

I have since re-married but my days of being cuckold will stay in the past

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By *hunderstruckMan
over a year ago

Northampton

If it's a true cuckold relationship maybe she should cage you and abuse you a little (or a lot)

Some cucks like to be caged and denied long before a meet and a few days after too

I think you both should reevaluate what you both want out of the cuckold relationship .

Then you won't feel so down

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

She does cage me before meets though how long for depends on my behaviour or how well I perform certain tasks she sets me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm. All sounding very familiar to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love being the alpha male for a couple, as per my veris ... in my experience its these types of couples that have the strongest relationships... the one guy says he loves the mix of emotions... and soon calls for another meet. we are actually friends through meeting on fab.

the whole experience is mind blowing ... best type of sex for me !

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

It could be to do with coming down from such a high. Chatting to each other about would help. J

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