FabSwingers.com forum: 'selling points' that actually turn you off

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It can't just be me that gets turned off by things that some folk think are great selling points. I'm not talking about the obvious ones like no physical attraction or pushiness.

For me, if a guy says he 'loves giving oral' I have often found that this means they love the feeling of having their face buried in a pussy and getting all wet in the process. Rather than they love giving really good oral and seeing the woman respond.

So 'I love giving oral' has actually turned into a bit of a turn off sentence for me.

Are there any other 'selling points' which are actually turn offs for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bbc or heavy Cummer puts me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

VWE - too much is uncomfortable so seeing that puts me off.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm a heavy cummer

I can fuck for hours

I can breathe through my ears

Your pleasure is more important than mine...yeah...right!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a heavy cummer

I can fuck for hours

I can breathe through my ears

Your pleasure is more important than mine...yeah...right!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slut/whore etc

I like to feel some sense of achievement when it comes to success with my meets, as in, I've met an attractive, sexy woman who could have had many guys, but chose ME because she likewise found me sexy and attractive.

Why would I be interested in a woman whose 'slut' status suggests she'll have anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 'im a repeater' one annoys me x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah, I find the heavy cummer weird.... And the stamina thing. I would prefer a great fuck in 15mins than a mediocre one that lasts an hour...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoops.. I'm guilty of saying I'm a slut...lol.. but don't meet just anyone for the sake of it.. think that's a slag lol... either way xx

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By *r jblMan
over a year ago

from parts unknown

"It can't just be me that gets turned off by things that some folk think are great selling points. I'm not talking about the obvious ones like no physical attraction or pushiness.

So 'I love giving oral' has actually turned into a bit of a turn off sentence for me.

Are there any other 'selling points' which are actually turn offs for you?"

I think you just haven't found the right man who can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So 'I love giving oral' has actually turned into a bit of a turn off sentence for me."

I've only a met a few guys who have mentioned they love giving oral on their profile, never had oral off any of them.

The ones who don't mention it tend to give.

Dom puts me off, i hate being submissive, i equally hate being used.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a squirter/gusher.

I'll make you squirt /gush.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"VWE - too much is uncomfortable so seeing that puts me off. "

Me too and not only that it takes more than a big cock to make an excellent lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a heavy cummer

I can fuck for hours

I can breathe through my ears

Your pleasure is more important than mine...yeah...right!!!

I for one get off on a woman getting off. Pleasure through their pleasure so to speak. I put on my profile that everyones enjoyment is important. And I mean it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you just haven't found the right man who can.

Oh I have met several

They just tend not to be the ones whose opening messages tell me they 'love giving oral'...

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"I'm a heavy cummer

I can fuck for hours

I can breathe through my ears

Your pleasure is more important than mine...yeah...right!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No black, asian and company... a total turn off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No black, asian and company... a total turn off "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love a squirter/gusher.

I'll make you squirt /gush."

This. I can't stand profiles that say this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No black, asian and company... a total turn off "
why is that a turn off that's personal preference same as ones that say looking for BBC.. How can that be a turn off??

I don't like the ones that say no photo due to work, or professional couple when they have spelt professional wrong.

1's that r txt spk

And the worst is any couple profile where only the man ever seems available

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"Love a squirter/gusher.

I'll make you squirt /gush."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No black, asian and company... a total turn off why is that a turn off that's personal preference same as ones that say looking for BBC.. How can that be a turn off??

I don't like the ones that say no photo due to work, or professional couple when they have spelt professional wrong.

1's that r txt spk

And the worst is any couple profile where only the man ever seems available"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So 'I love giving oral' has actually turned into a bit of a turn off sentence for me.

I've only a met a few guys who have mentioned they love giving oral on their profile, never had oral off any of them.

The ones who don't mention it tend to give.

Dom puts me off, i hate being submissive, i equally hate being used."

With you on both of those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

beards ......yuk hate

im in the armed forces/uniformed ...do we need to know

spend hours in the gym.....and ??

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

"So 'I love giving oral' has actually turned into a bit of a turn off sentence for me.

I've only a met a few guys who have mentioned they love giving oral on their profile, never had oral off any of them.

The ones who don't mention it tend to give.

Dom puts me off, i hate being submissive, i equally hate being used."

Agreed, and when you say you are Dom, they ask if that is because you had a bad experience being a sub ....

Also anyone that says no blacks, no ... any other type of person in such a tone - its the tone/semantics/phraseology I don't like - there are different ways of saying what you mean, and how you say it tells me what you are like - especially on your profile, when you have any amount of time to edit and re-word.

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

My vote would be for the heavy cummers (yuk) and those who promise to make me squirt. No interest in that whatsoever.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"Yeah, I find the heavy cummer weird.... And the stamina thing. I would prefer a great fuck in 15mins than a mediocre one that lasts an hour..."

not a fan of someone banging into me for ages - it doesn't really do anything for me and gets boring very quickly. I would much rather be doing licky/sucky stuff with a little bit of that thrown in

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

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"It can't just be me that gets turned off by things that some folk think are great selling points. I'm not talking about the obvious ones like no physical attraction or pushiness.

So 'I love giving oral' has actually turned into a bit of a turn off sentence for me.

Are there any other 'selling points' which are actually turn offs for you?"

Most stuff puts me off on here, to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not meeting lol

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

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"Love a squirter/gusher.

I'll make you squirt /gush.

This. I can't stand profiles that say this

Yes. It seems some kind of 'badge of honour' for most men, doesn't it??

Porn has a lot to answer for, methinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love a squirter/gusher.

I'll make you squirt /gush.

This. I can't stand profiles that say this

Yes. It seems some kind of 'badge of honour' for most men, doesn't it??

Porn has a lot to answer for, methinks

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Any profile that screams "look at my huge cock".

It usually isn't.

Or they've put a 'y' where an 'e' should be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" not a fan of someone banging into me for ages - it doesn't really do anything for me and gets boring very quickly. I would much rather be doing licky/sucky stuff with a little bit of that thrown in

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

The ones who are looking for a type - milf, bbw, cougar. I am more than just my age and body shape.

Also the one's looking to try new things and who want a guide/teacher. I've been there and tried all kinds of things most of which I don't want to try again. So I have no desire to hold someone's hand as he tries things that I know don't excite or interest me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heavy cummer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i can lick pussy for hours"

and they cant make you cum at all

or safe sex then try it bareback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heavy cummer,stamina vwe,we here for pleasure not pain lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quality over quantity .

Like it makes them better than anyone else ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quality over quantity .

Like it makes them better than anyone else ? "

and over 50 veris from a few months LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quality over quantity .

Like it makes them better than anyone else ?

and over 50 veris from a few months LOL"

Yeah this puts me off as well. Forgot about this one. They're just after a regular fuck and realised it's hard to get one on here because those of us who are 'after quantity' are just highly active sexually and tend to be more fussy about regular meets (which isn't them).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't bite...unless you want us to...

Guarantee to make you squirt...

Doms or bulls or anyone who goes on about how rough they like to fuck...

And the endless referral to their enormous cock...

Fuck, it's a wonder we've met anyone...

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Oh and the one's who make comments about hardened swingers and lots of verifications - I've got nearly two hundred veris, I just choose to only show the recent ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

even tho my profile says im str8 im not I am bi....yep another one lol

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Most of the above!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It can't just be me that gets turned off by things that some folk think are great selling points. I'm not talking about the obvious ones like no physical attraction or pushiness.

So 'I love giving oral' has actually turned into a bit of a turn off sentence for me.

Are there any other 'selling points' which are actually turn offs for you?"

Well I (Rogue) do live giving oral, and for the purpose of making Blondie squirm and squeal to a satisfying orgasm, but would never list it on our profile.

I consider myself a giving person in that and other respects but it's nice to surprise our meets with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No single males. Guys we will find you.

Makes me think I'd be dealing with Liam Neeson's character in Taken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also the one's looking to try new things and who want a guide/teacher. I've been there and tried all kinds of things most of which I don't want to try again. So I have no desire to hold someone's hand as he tries things that I know don't excite or interest me."

Lmao. It's not about wanting a guide or a teacher, it's about being willing to learn and experience new things. I've had my mind expanded since joining fab. I'm sure there's tons more for me to experience yet. I like to think of it as being prepared to go a bit left field and not just go lick suck fuck cum.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Been here before and know how it works".......

Drama alert......

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Most of the stuff mentioned!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No single males. Guys we will find you.

Makes me think I'd be dealing with Liam Neeson's character in Taken.

We took that off our profile after our first few weeks cos it sounded a little odd.

Now we just specify that we want bi singles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It can't just be me that gets turned off by things that some folk think are great selling points. I'm not talking about the obvious ones like no physical attraction or pushiness.

So 'I love giving oral' has actually turned into a bit of a turn off sentence for me.

Are there any other 'selling points' which are actually turn offs for you?"

Shame, some people are quite good at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who use vowels, fckng scm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No single males with a repeat NO SINGLE MALES as if we can't read ..then they have loads of veris from single males!? lol

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By *000_6ftMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Demanding profiles that want meets in a specific time slot, with a specific person and specific act.

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

I hate heavy cummer, love oral and women that brag that they squirt or men that brag they can make women squirt.

If women squirt or gush so be it but don't brag like it's part of your sexual prowess

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Often women swoon over my culinary skills, mention a meringue roulade, with home-made lemon curd, mascapone cheese and double cream and they're putty in my hands.

Then they see my copy of the "Natural Harvest" cookbook, and suddenly they don't want to know

Mr ddc

Ps you may, or may not, wish to Google "Natural harvest"....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heavy cummer

"Dom"

"I'll make you squirt/gush

"I'm not looking to fuck the whole site"

"Hi how r u "

Too many icon thingies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a heavy cummer

I can fuck for hours

I can breathe through my ears

Your pleasure is more important than mine...yeah...right!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Heavy cummer

"Dom"

"I'll make you squirt/gush

"I'm not looking to fuck the whole site"

"Hi how r u "

Too many icon thingies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Telling you things they think you want to hear, its funny though they think us ladies cant see it.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quality over quantity .

Like it makes them better than anyone else ? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No black, asian and company... a total turn off why is that a turn off that's personal preference same as ones that say looking for BBC.. How can that be a turn off??

I don't like the ones that say no photo due to work, or professional couple when they have spelt professional wrong.

1's that r txt spk

And the worst is any couple profile where only the man ever seems available"

He's just giving his own opinion the way the OP and others have. What's the difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate heavy cummer, love oral and women that brag that they squirt or men that brag they can make women squirt.

If women squirt or gush so be it but don't brag like it's part of your sexual prowess "

Maybe it's more of a warning than a boast.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Heavy cummer....bleurgh! Instant turn off

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands

Most of the above, plus: ranty and negative profiles, moaning about not getting meets, timewasters, fakes, naming and shaming - all especially in shouty capitals.

We're all here for fun and a positive profile is much more attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Incoming

big loadddd

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it's:

"will fill this in later" or "anything you want to know, just ask" when you can see they've been on the site over a year! As others have said, how difficult is it to actually write something about who you are and some idea of personality!

The second is aggressive negative list type profiles about what you will not do! Can anyone ever meet the impossible combinations spelt out?

We also get put off by those that say, "no black or Asian"! Even when phrased nicely, for us,I'm sorry we don't go for people who have preferences based on skin tone or ethnic and racial backgrounds.

Lastly, although pushing the boundaries of the post topic, I'm afraid it's cock shots, or more importantly bad ones! Ones taken on the loo, ones that make it look like a hideous growth we'd never want a zillion miles near us! We've instantly turned off more profiles due to this than any other! Seriously guys, Do people ever look at the photos they've taken and think, "yes that looks good" Maybe we are just weird?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definatly the ladies that brag about being a squirted or a gusher like its some kind of great act .

It's seems to be the Fab badge of honour .

We can all piss on someone no need to brag !

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I can fuck all night or similar..

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By *uby_xWoman
over a year ago

funky town

Love giving oral

could stay down there all night

Usually because they can't last long and oral fills the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When men brag about being able to make women squirt... Or when they brag about being the new "Mr Grey", no thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When men brag about being able to make women squirt... Or when they brag about being the new "Mr Grey", no thank you

"
I'll shut up now so

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

The ones that demand facial pics yet don't have any of their own to show/send you.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

"Most of the above, plus: ranty and negative profiles, moaning about not getting meets, timewasters, fakes, naming and shaming - all especially in shouty capitals.

We're all here for fun and a positive profile is much more attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ones that demand facial pics yet don't have any of their own to show/send you."

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Definatly the ladies that brag about being a squirted or a gusher like its some kind of great act .

It's seems to be the Fab badge of honour .

We can all piss on someone no need to brag !"

Yayyyy fully agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definatly the ladies that brag about being a squirted or a gusher like its some kind of great act .

It's seems to be the Fab badge of honour .

We can all piss on someone no need to brag !"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definatly the ladies that brag about being a squirted or a gusher like its some kind of great act .

It's seems to be the Fab badge of honour .

We can all piss on someone no need to brag !

Lol

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ahhh but ya need good aim for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People with a meet listing on every day and never get a meet. (makes me think they are desperate or fake)

Things like "try me you wont be disapointed"

or interests ticked they clearly dont have a clue about

"professional cant sent pics but will skype"

and the yo yos

the people who leave every fooking week or month and come back, same photos same blah blah thinking they are "new"

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By *oconut2Woman
over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond

"Yeah, I find the heavy cummer weird.... And the stamina thing. I would prefer a great fuck in 15mins than a mediocre one that lasts an hour..."

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By *huramMan
over a year ago

London

When they write,

"Been here before and I know how it works."

Who cares about that?

Are they after a gold star?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they write,

"Been here before and I know how it works."

ahh i have something on the top of my profile like that

saves the how you finding fab and that pile of shit messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No profile photo and no public photo's and if they do its all Cock, tit and Pussy shots.

Friend invites without messaging you.

Verifications, so what, it's like a bragging list, had a couple with loads of verifications no show. Even though they arranged the meet twice.

We've had quite a few men posing as couples. Blocked.

Profiles that aren't about fun- ones were they want the perfect couple that meets every tick box.

E.g must be Attractive, Athletic, Fit and WVE.

Or make the first meet sound like an inter_iew for job and if your lucky you may get to the second round.

All We want to do is have fun with each other and other like minded people.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

would love to give you a full Facile why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No single males. Guys we will find you.

Makes me think I'd be dealing with Liam Neeson's character in Taken.

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By *000_6ftMan
over a year ago

Norwich

People who misspell their own town.

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Heavy cummer, or dom/bull instantly put me off. Don't care how much you cum lol and I'm not submissive

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

'Professional' puts people off we've noticed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I maybe be the odd one out but I hate guy who uses heavy cummer, VWE, can fuck for hours...

BECAUSE THEY ARE NEVER A HEAVY CUMMER, JUST A DROP CUMS OUT.

THEY SAY THEY ARE 8 INCHES BUT IN REALITY AS 5 INCHES.

AND THEY CUM IN 3 MINS OF FUCKING

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"I maybe be the odd one out but I hate guy who uses heavy cummer, VWE, can fuck for hours...

BECAUSE THEY ARE NEVER A HEAVY CUMMER, JUST A DROP CUMS OUT.

THEY SAY THEY ARE 8 INCHES BUT IN REALITY AS 5 INCHES.

AND THEY CUM IN 3 MINS OF FUCKING

No need to SHOUT

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hahaha. All fucking brilliant guys and gals! Thanks.

These also reminded me that I hate hearing how somone wants to 'experience' an older woman. If you want an 'experience' go to Chessington World of sodding Adventure...

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Heavy cummer puts me right off and just makes me think of lots of wall paper paste.

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