FabSwingers.com forum: Immune

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I went to a club a couple of weeks ago and while sitting in a room watching my friend get gangbanged, I was surrounded my men, I could've had a female, a shemale, a 3 some a 6 some, oral, anal, upside down sex, be tied up in a dungeon or fucked in a pool. But I looked at my partner and we both shrugged and went to the bar. We had a conversation where we wondered if we'd come to the end of our 'exploring' and we both wished we'd stayed home with a dvd!

Does anyone else ever feel like this? And if I'm at the end of the line where do I go from here? Help! I think I've lost my swinging mojo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've felt like that loads of times. Just take a break for a few months. It may come back, it may not.

If it's not fun, what's the point?

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over a year ago

I think we all go through stages like that,I remember going to a club a while back and wishing id taken my slippers with me and turning down a gorgeous guy that I would have normally shagged half to death

A few weeks of normality and I was missing it like hell and started making arrangements again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went to a club a couple of weeks ago and while sitting in a room watching my friend get gangbanged, I was surrounded my men, I could've had a female, a shemale, a 3 some a 6 some, oral, anal, upside down sex, be tied up in a dungeon or fucked in a pool. But I looked at my partner and we both shrugged and went to the bar. We had a conversation where we wondered if we'd come to the end of our 'exploring' and we both wished we'd stayed home with a dvd!

Does anyone else ever feel like this? And if I'm at the end of the line where do I go from here? Help! I think I've lost my swinging mojo! "

If its any consolation my swinging career has not really got off the mark and I feel the same lol

After reading a lot of these forums some of the stuff is absolutely insane lol

About clubs I think I did pretty good for my only visit I got to play and even refused a lady . Saying that I never really felt comfortable maybe that just means I am not a swinger or lots of work needs to be done on me lol

I much prefer to meet 1-2-1.

Do I need to leave this site ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

something tells me nobody gives a shit lol

I guess I will be staying a bit longer then .

Back to the OP .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when you have been swinging a long time what used to be exciting becomes the norm and i find it very hard to find new and exciting this to do to keep me stimulated

a break every now and again does you good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mmmm i agree with you

when we started in this we said if we ever stopped finding this exciting then its time to stop

so we do

we take a break for a few months then we are all itchy to get back to it!

i guess anything that is 'normal' will lose its allure eventually

just remember the best sex is in the mind and if that organ isnt engaged then nothing works

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I came out the loo once at a club and almost fell over two girls 69ing each other and the only thing i thought about was i could of broke my neck

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By *andL1970Couple
over a year ago

hemel hempstead

We don't play with loads of people, we've only ever been to one party, and there is always a break between any swinging we do, usually of a month or more. We wouldn't do it two weekends running unless there was something special going on.

The gaps between playing allow us to focus on each other, relive the last playtime an fantasise about the next!

Doing it this way keeps it fresh and exciting for us, so hopefully we'll never get to the stage of being bored with it. However, I think if we were bored of it, we'd simply not do it any more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I need to leave this site ?

Noooo! Please don't! (Sorry for the delay in response hun. Better late than never eh?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We spend most of our time playing together.. Last time we went to chams we spent most of the night watching, cuddling each other, teasing each other and spent a good amount of time in private rooms..

If your not getting something out of it dont do it.. but maybe think of new fantasies.. there are always ways to spice up things..

Set each other tasks.. :D

Have your excitement together for a bit.

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I need to leave this site ?

Noooo! Please don't! (Sorry for the delay in response hun. Better late than never eh?)"

Thanks , thats really sweet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its probably a lot more common among swingers than many would care to admit.

I remember when if-accidentally-I caught a glimpse of stocking top in a pub I'd sit there all night perving,lol.

Now I can wander about at a full blown shagathon without so much as a twitch. It probably just comes down to over exposure........kind of like working at Cadbury's.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the excitement of new situations that has drawn me to swinging. To put it simply No excitement = No fun. I'm very jealous of those of you that have had so many varied experiences that you are now immune.. where do you go next!!!

Does the excitement of the other party/parties rub off?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its the excitement of new situations that has drawn me to swinging. To put it simply No excitement = No fun. I'm very jealous of those of you that have had so many varied experiences that you are now immune.. where do you go next!!!

Does the excitement of the other party/parties rub off?"

Thats exactly my worry. I've exhausted pretty much every scenario and had a great time doing so but now I'm bored of looking for the next thrill.

So....all advise & kind words have been gratefully noted. I will be attending a party at a friends house Sat night for the social side then Lady K is officially on a break!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you get to 'do' the team of rugby players that were gonna throw you around the room lol

If its a yes to that then a break must be taken lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did you get to 'do' the team of rugby players that were gonna throw you around the room lol

If its a yes to that then a break must be taken lol"

lol no....that was a bit of a hoax me thinks!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I came out the loo once at a club and almost fell over two girls 69ing each other and the only thing i thought about was i could of broke my neck"

That made me laugh! A bit like seeing a young girl in skimpy clothes and thinking she's gonna catch her death out like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did you get to 'do' the team of rugby players that were gonna throw you around the room lol

If its a yes to that then a break must be taken lol

lol no....that was a bit of a hoax me thinks! "

There you go then , you still have something to get excited about

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