FabSwingers.com forum: Reading profiles correctly

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Often the curse of the male who doesn't read profiles. However, following snide comments, rudeness and abuse I've received I think women and couples don't read profiles either!

Question is which women out there actually read profiles and do you judge by profile write up or pics alone?

Daddy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some read

Some don't

Long profile, short profile....it matters not.

No real drama really, one can choose to ignore the folk that clearly haven't read it.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Sometimes there's no point in judging by pics.

Especially if there's significantly more of someone else in them than the profile owner.

I suspect there will be as many of each gender that do/don't read profiles - and as many of each who just look at the pictures. I also suspect those that just look at the pics will end up disappointed more often than those that read a profiles text in full.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I read,look at pics and verifications before deciding .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Often the curse of the male who doesn't read profiles. However, following snide comments, rudeness and abuse I've received I think women and couples don't read profiles either!

Question is which women out there actually read profiles and do you judge by profile write up or pics alone?

Daddy x"

Our pet hate is copy and paste messages x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always read profiles personally. Get narky if people don't read mine properly

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I always read profiles and the wordy bit is very important, if they haven't made the effort to have a decent profiles then I can't be bothered reading any subsequent messages

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I read but if its clear they have not read ours, then don't bother with it, I look for key things that are deal breakers .... for us. Often picks are enough though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read them look at criterias.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Often the curse of the male who doesn't read profiles. However, following snide comments, rudeness and abuse I've received I think women and couples don't read profiles either!

Question is which women out there actually read profiles and do you judge by profile write up or pics alone?

Daddy x"

I always read profiles if msged before I msg back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics mainly, as that is what will get me interested initially. I do read the profile as well and look at veris.

If anything on the profile puts me off then i'm put off. I'm not really looking for anything particular in the profile, just not to be put off by anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there really long profiles i do tend to drift half way through

a lot of the time i find myself chatting away for ages to a guy then reolise that i havent even looked so by the time i get round to looking theres not much point reading it because its all been talked about so just check pics out and maybe veris if i am intrigued

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Usually check the pics, if there are any, before moving onto the profile. I enjoy reading a well written one but not too detailed.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

If someone messages I will read their profile before replying. We get lots of messages from couples who only soft swing, don't kiss, brag about being VWE and have lots of rules etc. All those preferences are fine for them but they don't work for me.

I compose a lovely sorry we are not what you are looking for message & even pop kisses on only to get the 'why not?' response.

When I point out all the things on my profile that they haven't read or ignored thereby proving we a incompatible I get the we will do it your way just for you message or silence......at no point I have even looked at their pics - no point - because I am never going to meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes there's no point in judging by pics.

Especially if there's significantly more of someone else in them than the profile owner.

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You can tell a lot about a person from their profile.

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By *oconut2Woman
over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond

I look at the height first then I'll read the profile and look at the pics

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I always read profiles first but hubby tends to look at pics first.

Profiles are important because (as others have said) the profile is usually a good indication of what they are like.

We've been lucky not to have had any rudeness from those we say "thanks but no thanks" to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read them look at criterias.

Amazing how many say they won't meet smokers but want to meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have ticked all the boxes on my profile I look at distance, pics and profile. But I also take into account the dozens of other messages in my inbox at the time, so even a good looking, charming local might not get a reply...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's a combination of everything including verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely read people's profiles and look at photos. I can usually tell when someone hasn't read mine, I then don't feel mean for not replying to their messages.

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

Now read profile first. Saw a nice hot couple the other day, perved their pics and then saw they were only looking for guys.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I read their profile before messaging.

If they message me, I will read their profile, look at the pictures and any veris before replying.

If its clear they haven't read mine, then I reply saying thanks but no and sometimes say why (I get loads of VWE guys and thats not my thing at all) and also loads from a long way away and thats not what I use fab for either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally I will read profiles unless they message me. Then I go by pics and what is put in the message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Often the curse of the male who doesn't read profiles. However, following snide comments, rudeness and abuse I've received I think women and couples don't read profiles either!

Question is which women out there actually read profiles and do you judge by profile write up or pics alone?

Daddy x"

to be fair its a pretty weird kink, and quite creepy to most as many may think your only role playing with adults as you cant get a real little girl, and given a lot on here are parents that gonna sound a sour note from the off.

so you're always gonna get abuse from that perspective as even though you say you can play vanilla your vanilla section pales in comparison to your child/incest fetish even purely on word count,.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at pics and verifications firstly !

Meeting in person verifications that is !

Webcam ones mean nothing!

But if the profile text is a long winded do's and don'ts thing i get bored .

I used to have a long winded profile and niw its just short and humourous and its made no difference i get the same amount of meets as before .

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

We look at a profile if there is no text then we look no further however if they have written more than a few words we then look for pics but no pics or just cock pics then move on

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

I found myself in a peculiar circular argument with a couple last night. They sent a one line message asking if I fancied meeting, which would have been nice except that their profile said they couldn't accommodate. I replied to that effect, and apologised because it was my fault for not changing my profile.

Four hours later, they sent the same message, so I replied politely saying that it was still no good unless they had had a change of situation.

For my trouble I got a shirty reply asking why I kept messaging them if I was just going to mess them about.

Needless to say that by the early hours they were posting ranty updates about how everyone in Yorkshire was a timewaster.

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By *ral.steveMan
over a year ago

LEEDS

I always read profiles if msged before I msg back ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I look at pics and verifications firstly !

Meeting in person verifications that is !

Webcam ones mean nothing!

But if the profile text is a long winded do's and don'ts thing i get bored .

I used to have a long winded profile and niw its just short and humourous and its made no difference i get the same amount of meets as before ."

Mines long but it explains alot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at pics first then description if im still interested ill then read their blurb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so you're always gonna get abuse from that perspective as even though you say you can play vanilla your vanilla section pales in comparison to your child/incest fetish even purely on word count,."

Um, if you don't understand the difference between role play and real life, I would have more of a problem with you than the op...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get lots of nice comments about my profile, even by women who've are not compatible, so, in my experience, most women do

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