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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How young is too young and how old is too old???

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

What for? Driving? Skiing? Sky diving? Can you be more specific? Z

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The age of people you would meet on here, how do you arrive at the age bracket you have chosen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as the age covers me...who cares

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

It looks like for you it's -

Too young = 19

and

Too old = 46

It will no doubt change for everyone else though seeing as it is all down to preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It looks like for you it's -

Too young = 19

and

Too old = 46

It will no doubt change for everyone else though seeing as it is all down to preference. "

Tut @ 46!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people have really arbitary age preferences.why would you meet 28 year old but not 27 ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do need to change mine really, I'm not ageist and make my judgement to meet them on what I see not their age x

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"I do need to change mine really, I'm not ageist and make my judgement to meet them on what I see not their age x"

I would think so too, seeing as your "other half" is 95!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do need to change mine really, I'm not ageist and make my judgement to meet them on what I see not their age x

I would think so too, seeing as your "other half" is 95! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our age criteria is 19-97 we chose this to show we had thought about it and changed it.

Age for us is explained in our profile, if we find someone sexually attractive thier age doesn't come into it, we have never asked anyone's age when we have chatted to them in clubs and don't see why being on the internet talking to them should be any different.

Some old people are younger than thier years, some young people are older than thier years.

We simply won't let a number put us off and prefer to get to know them better to see if we are compatible regardless of the number.

On the other hand we are totally strict when it comes to our own ages and will not meet anyone unless we are within thier own written age criteria.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How young is too young and how old is too old??? "

I work roughly between 24 and 60..

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I ask if they have heard of t rex, roxy music & sparks..

if yes... they get a length.

if not... the highway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Old uns

As long I don't dislocate their hips when I spread their legs, they'll do for me

Young uns

If they prefer Kates box to the X-box they're ok too

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Old uns

As long I don't dislocate their hips when I spread their legs, they'll do for me

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if everything is in working order lol then age doesnt really matterxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for us i 27 and he 30 we both agree that 20 was young enough for us.we were approched by an 18yr old but felt for us that it was too young but thats our opion as for older ages we dont know lol

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

if a girl wanted to meet with me and sounded genuine, fun and friendly age wouldnt come into it.i have fantasies including both a young 18yo and much older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last 2 shags I've had was with a 30 year old

Had to do it twice incase I'm not invited back

She is 10yrs under my preferred age, but lifes tough sometimes

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

as of yet I have not agreed to meet anyone under 21....

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I am 38 almost 39, so tend to meet those 10 years older or younger in general. If a person is mature and lovely at 30 then great but wouldnt meet a man of mif 30s and was an immature pratt.

I met a guy ages ago and was 29 at the time I think(this was a few years ago now) he had a maturity of someone the same age as me but with the body of a younger man. If I could meet more of him I would be very happy. But normally it is soon clear from mesaging them that they are too immature for me. I am sure to someone 15/20 years older than me I would seem immature for them.

I just choose generally about 10 years either side of my age range. But all dependant on chemistry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer my own age group, though i have put 35-55 as my choice.

I just think that anyone im old enough to be the parent of is just too young and whilst i agree that some young people in the 20's age group can come across as quite mature, including comments made on another forum, i am maybe changing the way i think but not sure i would ever go that far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger than my children?!! No thanks!

Old enough to be my daddy?!! Ewwww no thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops i forgot to mention the upper age group, well i would draw the line at someone in the 60's who looked that old and talked that old, ive met a 52 yr old who looked older than his age, and energy wise couldnt cope at all. In saying that, the guy i see regularly, is now 60 and looks much younger and is fit as a fiddle.

Guess it depends on the person not the age but i would still be choosy on age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately im 60, 5'7 and a single nmale so there are quite a few catagories I do not fit into. I only message or reply to people that are seeking older males as no point wasteing their time or mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just find i get on better with people my own age group so tend to meet guys in their 30s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Much prefer my own age group, though i have put 35-55 as my choice.

I just think that anyone im old enough to be the parent of is just too young and whilst i agree that some young people in the 20's age group can come across as quite mature, including comments made on another forum, i am maybe changing the way i think but not sure i would ever go that far "

I know what you mean. I tend to prefer men up to 10 years older. At 50 I'm finding men five years older well ...old!!

Meeting a 37 year old tomorrow, seems exceptional, I hope so. I may start looking to the 30/40 somethings for fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How young is too young and how old is too old??? "

Kids are too young. Corpses are too old. In between I can find something attractive in everybody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kids are out of the question !!! in fact anyone under 25 for us lol..

But What Woman/Lady or even a couple in Here - Would Not Consider A 95yr old Millionaire With a Heart Condition hhhmmmm ???? lol xx

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"It looks like for you it's -

Too young = 19

and

Too old = 46

It will no doubt change for everyone else though seeing as it is all down to preference. "

for me some of you peeps have got to stop being so stuck on age ive had best sex from both age groups 20s and 60s and wow so guys lets all have sex and fun xxx

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

K wants a toyboy, I just want a pulse, well actually thats an optional extra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Younger than my children?!! No thanks!

Old enough to be my daddy?!! Ewwww no thanks!

"

our point of _iew exactly..approached by a 21 yr old lad when we have our own son of 23! never gonna happen,we use 28/51 as a guide but have some lovely people as friends who are in there mid fifties

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"It looks like for you it's -

Too young = 19

and

Too old = 46

It will no doubt change for everyone else though seeing as it is all down to preference.

for me some of you peeps have got to stop being so stuck on age ive had best sex from both age groups 20s and 60s and wow so guys lets all have sex and fun xxx "

Those weren't my age preferences and I'm not stuck on age at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It looks like for you it's -

Too young = 19

and

Too old = 46

It will no doubt change for everyone else though seeing as it is all down to preference.

for me some of you peeps have got to stop being so stuck on age ive had best sex from both age groups 20s and 60s and wow so guys lets all have sex and fun xxx "

Its called choice, we are entitled to be stuck on age, as you put it, i prefer my own age group, and i have fun, loads of it

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"It looks like for you it's -

Too young = 19

and

Too old = 46

It will no doubt change for everyone else though seeing as it is all down to preference.

for me some of you peeps have got to stop being so stuck on age ive had best sex from both age groups 20s and 60s and wow so guys lets all have sex and fun xxx

Those weren't my age preferences and I'm not stuck on age at all. "

all i say is some guys and cpls should open there eyes why should age be a problem ive met six plus body wise like 30s year old and 20s acting like late 30s cpl and what about mix age cpls hey

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"It looks like for you it's -

Too young = 19

and

Too old = 46

It will no doubt change for everyone else though seeing as it is all down to preference.

for me some of you peeps have got to stop being so stuck on age ive had best sex from both age groups 20s and 60s and wow so guys lets all have sex and fun xxx

Those weren't my age preferences and I'm not stuck on age at all.

all i say is some guys and cpls should open there eyes why should age be a problem ive met six plus body wise like 30s year old and 20s acting like late 30s cpl and what about mix age cpls hey "

My eyes are always open so no need to worry about me and once again if you read my post correctly that you initially quoted you would have seen that!

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

ok sorry but you see were im coming from why cant they just open there eyes there missing out and you know what i mean

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By *ipstickCouple
over a year ago

swansea

Definite no to anyone same age as our kids , or our parents !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok sorry but you see were im coming from why cant they just open there eyes there missing out and you know what i mean "

My eyes are wide open, i fail to see what fun i at 49 could have with a 19 or 29 year old, we have absolutely nothing in common. Like i said, its call choice, i prefer the maturity and experience of my own age group so am missing nothing whatsoever in sticking to that. And equally you have the right to choose any age you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ask if they have heard of t rex, roxy music & sparks.."

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On Univ Challenge this week, the glitterati of Oxbridge were flummoxed by who sang 'Sitting on the dock of the bay'..too young, too stupid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The youngest I have played with is 31, the oldest is likely to be 62 if I play my cards right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It looks like for you it's -

Too young = 19

and

Too old = 46

It will no doubt change for everyone else though seeing as it is all down to preference.

for me some of you peeps have got to stop being so stuck on age ive had best sex from both age groups 20s and 60s and wow so guys lets all have sex and fun xxx

Its called choice, we are entitled to be stuck on age, as you put it, i prefer my own age group, and i have fun, loads of it "

.

I agree, when we first started on another site 4 years ago we had a much wider range, but we've found that we're most comfortable with people close to our own age, so we narrowed the age range so we weren't wasting the time of people we would be unlikely to meet. That's not to say there isn't a 30 year old that might have all the qualities we're looking for, but it becomes an arduous job sifting through all the messages from under 40's in order to find them.

Someone also mentioned why would people exclude others who are only 2/3 years outside someones age preference. Well I have 2 reasons, the first one is they haven't read our profile and if they have they think they can circumvent my preferences-CHEEKY!

The second is the minimum/maximum ages already take into account people younger/older than the ideal who might tick the boxes. Ideally I prefer people in their mid 40's, but would meet someone of 40 or 55 if they did tick all those boxes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I goes fa the personality attraction

So me age requirements are

Legal and not dead

Everyone has something about em and if that something appeals ta me that's all that matters ta me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It looks like for you it's -

Too young = 19

and

Too old = 46

It will no doubt change for everyone else though seeing as it is all down to preference.

for me some of you peeps have got to stop being so stuck on age ive had best sex from both age groups 20s and 60s and wow so guys lets all have sex and fun xxx "

How can you tell people they should change their preferences - what cheek!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It looks like for you it's -

Too young = 19

and

Too old = 46

It will no doubt change for everyone else though seeing as it is all down to preference.

for me some of you peeps have got to stop being so stuck on age ive had best sex from both age groups 20s and 60s and wow so guys lets all have sex and fun xxx

How can you tell people they should change their preferences - what cheek!!! "

Apart from the 1 year .

What can possibly be the difference in a 34 or 35 year old person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It looks like for you it's -

Too young = 19

and

Too old = 46

It will no doubt change for everyone else though seeing as it is all down to preference.

for me some of you peeps have got to stop being so stuck on age ive had best sex from both age groups 20s and 60s and wow so guys lets all have sex and fun xxx

How can you tell people they should change their preferences - what cheek!!!

Apart from the 1 year .

What can possibly be the difference in a 34 or 35 year old person "

.

Well if you have an age preference there has to be a cut off at some point, after all someone with a minimum age of 35 might ideally be looking for someone of 40, and receive messages from people who fulfil that preference, so why make compromises if you don't have to?

We don't fit the criteria of lots of people we like the look of, but by being explicit about what they're looking for in their profile we know not to waste our time (or theirs) by contacting them, there are buttons for every buttonhole in this lifestyle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am in my 40s and never felt so sexie in my life ,,,,,,,,,,, so dont right off us woman who are getting better with age ,, lol I cam match most 25 year olds in bed lol Had one or two. x jo xx

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By *LLSEXEDUPMan
over a year ago

Reading

As a young man (I'm 22 at the moment) I find myself being very flexible in regards to age.

So the youngest being 19 and the oldest person i'd meet would be someone in their mid 40s, howether a lot of people look after themselves very well so I would be very flexible in that respect, I guess as time goes on i'll change my approach but right now I enjoy older ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It looks like for you it's -

Too young = 19

and

Too old = 46

It will no doubt change for everyone else though seeing as it is all down to preference.

for me some of you peeps have got to stop being so stuck on age ive had best sex from both age groups 20s and 60s and wow so guys lets all have sex and fun xxx

How can you tell people they should change their preferences - what cheek!!!

Apart from the 1 year .

What can possibly be the difference in a 34 or 35 year old person "

The age on mine is a preferred group but that doesnt mean to say if i chatted to a 34 or even younger and we got on that i wouldnt meet, equally with the other end of the spectrum and i have a 60yr old that definitely rocks my boat, well actually floods the bed

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