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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So if I was in mmf and would let the guy suck me while she rides my face does this make me bi I always get messages asking for mmf but only if he can suck me

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Sexuality is a spectrum. Too many people get obsessed with defining it.

Do what you want, just be honest about it with people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sexuality is a spectrum. Too many people get obsessed with defining it.

Do what you want, just be honest about it with people. "
just my point some of them said because it stated stright on my profile it's a no go lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you have a guy hanging off.your cock I'm calling that bi

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

I would think if you say your straight then people would assume you wouldn't be happy with either sucking another guy or being sucked. Just my opinion.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"if you have a guy hanging off.your cock I'm calling that bi "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if you have a guy hanging off.your cock I'm calling that bi "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you have a guy hanging off.your cock I'm calling that bi "

I think that's exactly how it's defined in the Oxford dictionary!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if I was in mmf and would let the guy suck me while she rides my face does this make me bi I always get messages asking for mmf but only if he can suck me "

It wouldn't make you bi - just very horny

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if you have a guy hanging off.your cock I'm calling that bi

I think that's exactly how it's defined in the Oxford dictionary!! "
that's perfectly fine then just asking haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you have a guy hanging off.your cock I'm calling that bi "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's only bi if he hasn't got a frock on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it was hot! That poss cos I'd love to haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's only bi if he hasn't got a frock on "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no such thing as bi, it's just called being greedy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no such thing as bi, it's just called being greedy! "

Nowt wrong wi that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no such thing as bi, it's just called being greedy!

Nowt wrong wi that. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexuality is a spectrum. Too many people get obsessed with defining it.

Do what you want, just be honest about it with people. "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexuality is a spectrum. Too many people get obsessed with defining it.

Do what you want, just be honest about it with people. just my point some of them said because it stated stright on my profile it's a no go lol"

Well if your ok with it change your profile to bi.... Mine says straight because I wouldn't be happy with it. Fine plenty mmf as verifications show but a guy tries sucking my cock and next thing he sucks is his food....through a straw!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a label.

But if it makes you feel better you could say bi curious. Once that difficult hurdle is crossed just write in your profile what your limits are, such as oral, no anal etc. If any of it makes you uncomfortable then be honest and say you're straight, or else you'll end up just disappointing folk who were expecting more from you.

One can only assume a lot of men on here lie to try and get a quick fuck and then can't deliver when put in an awkward situation.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Why would a guy that doesn't mind another guy sucking his cock be worried about being called bi? That is what being bi means.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem with putting bi on your profile is people making assumptions. You can't put a little bit bi in the right situation/orally bi if the cock is irresistible or will fuck and suck to your hearts content. Same with women,I don't put bi although I've had a bi mff or two with a friend because I'm not going to meet a woman from here or a couple looking for a bi woman. It's different for men because of sti statistics which scare people away from male bi-ness.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The problem with putting bi on your profile is people making assumptions. You can't put a little bit bi in the right situation/orally bi if the cock is irresistible or will fuck and suck to your hearts content. Same with women,I don't put bi although I've had a bi mff or two with a friend because I'm not going to meet a woman from here or a couple looking for a bi woman. It's different for men because of sti statistics which scare people away from male bi-ness. "

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"it's only bi if he hasn't got a frock on "

It's only gay if you kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's only bi if he hasn't got a frock on

It's only gay if you kiss. "

You're only gay if you push back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would a guy that doesn't mind another guy sucking his cock be worried about being called bi? That is what being bi means."

That's me bi then

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I imagine that enjoying a guy sucking your cock means you're bi.

Be bi and be proud. Not everyone is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The problem with putting bi on your profile is people making assumptions. You can't put a little bit bi in the right situation/orally bi if the cock is irresistible or will fuck and suck to your hearts content. Same with women,I don't put bi although I've had a bi mff or two with a friend because I'm not going to meet a woman from here or a couple looking for a bi woman. It's different for men because of sti statistics which scare people away from male bi-ness. "

Those stats shouldn't be bi stats, they should be classed as idiot stats! How so many men, straight or bi, can go bareback is beyond belief!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've blocked couples because only want sex with women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's only bi if he hasn't got a frock on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it need a label.... Enjoy the fun and if the chance to wank and suck a good looking cock is there, we'll it would be a shame to waste it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it need a label.... Enjoy the fun and if the chance to wank and suck a good looking cock is there, we'll it would be a shame to waste it "

This "it's only a label" comment always cracks me up since so many guys twist logic on it's head to avoid the bi/gay label.

None on the other hand object to the "straight" label.

Clearly it matters enough to so many they will lie - even to themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I totally understand this problem. I've put bi and straight on my profile so many times because of assumptions people make. I know I shouldn't care but so often when I put it as bi, it puts so many couples off as they think all I care about is cock and contact with the male half. In actuality, a massive turn on for me is to enjoy the sex between me and the woman with the other guy watching or getting involved but not having contact with me. Different days I like different things! I wish the only label all people would have would be 'sexual' and then you could discuss preferred activities between yourselves.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"if you have a guy hanging off.your cock I'm calling that bi "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if I was in mmf and would let the guy suck me while she rides my face does this make me bi I always get messages asking for mmf but only if he can suck me "

Well, if you are tempted, I would say you are a repressed homosexual. Only the repressed bit is bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have bi curious on my profile, and also my username says it all.

I like to suck a cock from time to time, but I also love giving women oral

I NEVER let a bloke cum in my mouth, so im not greedy!

I can't see a problem with letting people know about my preferences, I am who I am, and im not going to change for anyone.

If I see a nice cock that's willing to let me suck, then I go for it, even better if there's a female watching me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have bi curious on my profile, and also my username says it all.

I like to suck a cock from time to time, but I also love giving women oral

I NEVER let a bloke cum in my mouth, so im not greedy!

I can't see a problem with letting people know about my preferences, I am who I am, and im not going to change for anyone.

If I see a nice cock that's willing to let me suck, then I go for it, even better if there's a female watching me "

That at least is an attitude I can respect even if I don't share your interest in sucking cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There should be a new category - 'straight curious' or 'straight dishonest'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There should be a new category - 'straight curious' or 'straight dishonest'"

For those who think they're 'too much of a man' to admit being bi!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also play 100% straight if the people im with are not into anything kinky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if I was in mmf and would let the guy suck me while she rides my face does this make me bi I always get messages asking for mmf but only if he can suck me "

You're definitely a bit bi. Maybe a sensation seeker or just happy to go with the flow.

Depends whether you would want the guy to suck you if no woman was there. At first, I didn't like that too much but that changed.

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

I will always choose a woman over a man and have never looked at another guy in the street and thought about sex with him, but in a mmf situation I am more than happy to interact with a man in any way that feels good at the time and is agreeable to all involved. I like to think of myself as situationally bi and am quite comfortable declaring myself as such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems most guys don't fancy guys 'on the street'. However, when in a sexual situation, when aroused, quite a few guys are more interested in the sensations they experience and are less concerned about who they receive those pleasurable sensations from.

I have chatted to an awful lot of guys in person, who identify as bi, but they often say they don't fancy guys. Many of them find cocks quite fascinating though.

I identify as bi and unlike many, I actually see hot guys on the street and know I fancy them and want sex with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't fancy guys, I just want to play with their Cocks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just said it with less words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know exactly where you're coming from OP. I'm the same.

Wouldn't entertain anything with another guy but in a MFM threesome where the male half of the couple is Bi, i'm OK with him sucking along with his Mrs.

Just as long as he's not expecting me to return the favour, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget about labels just carrying on having mutual fun however you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I imagine that enjoying a guy sucking your cock means you're bi.

Be bi and be proud. Not everyone is. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if I was in mmf and would let the guy suck me while she rides my face does this make me bi I always get messages asking for mmf but only if he can suck me "

consider yourself lucky.

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By *landAnnCouple
over a year ago

Inverness


"So if I was in mmf and would let the guy suck me while she rides my face does this make me bi I always get messages asking for mmf but only if he can suck me "

___________________________________

Suggestion.... change your name to ....

HaveMyCockAndEatIt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I have bi-curious on my half of our profile, but after a very nice encounter at Eureka last night I lost any pretence of curiosity.

Think its time for a profile update.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you have a guy hanging off.your cock I'm calling that bi "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I have bi-curious on my half of our profile, but after a very nice encounter at Eureka last night I lost any pretence of curiosity.

Think its time for a profile update. "
how you doin'?

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