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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It always amuses me to look at the age range preferences. It often is 5 years older but 20 years younger.

You can't beat optimism I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are 18 to 99 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're easily amused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haha the "I'll shaggy anything" range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haha, shag, Damn predictive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone aint getting none

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"haha, shag, Damn predictive"
YEs its about enjoying them all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The oldest I've gone is 47

Youngest 21.

Either side in both cases would probably be leaning towards awkwardness ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're easily amused "

Yes I often am.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone aint getting none "

Whos that then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Often' on male or female profiles ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mines no younger, and 18 yrs older, tho upper limit not set it stone.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For men? Mines usually 20ish years younger to 5 years younger. I do ok When I turn 50,if I'm still here,I'm thinking of staying around my own age and above.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I try to remain 10 years either side of my age I think that's reasonable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will go 15 years younger but no older than me.

Mentally and physically I still in my 40s

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I am 10 years younger but only 2 years older because men lie on here surprise surprise and knock off 5 years at least, I'd rather think god you look great compare to OMG you had a hard paper round!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

35-55 and definitely prefer the older men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try to remain 10 years either side of my age I think that's reasonable.

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This site isn't about being 'reasonable'. It is about people seeking what floats 'their' boat, with like minded people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"'Often' on male or female profiles ?"

I rarely look at males,so it is in respect of couples and women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It always amuses me to look at the age range preferences. It often is 5 years older but 20 years younger.

You can't beat optimism I guess."

Its not optimism, its interest and preference. Oh, and it certainly doesn't leave me without messages or with playmates who see me as desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather think god you look great compare to OMG you had a hard paper round! "

There are a lot of female profiles on here lime that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine's 30-40... I like older men (and women!) but I don't want to play with someone who's almost old enough to be my parent. When I get older, I won't want to play with someone young enough to be my child either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Often' on male or female profiles ?

I rarely look at males,so it is in respect of couples and women."

Women tend to be a little more selective I guess, men having wider parameters for sexual encounters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am 10 years younger but only 2 years older because men lie on here surprise surprise and knock off 5 years at least, I'd rather think god you look great compare to OMG you had a hard paper round! "

Lol the younger ones add years,the older take them off we may as well put 18-99

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to prefer younger guys but wouldn't rule out older guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And when you take into account how childish some men can be you can scrap ages altogether (I don't look at women or couples).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some right little boy profiles on here also. Unfortunately. Slags off others presumably because of inadequacy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am 10 years younger but only 2 years older because men lie on here surprise surprise and knock off 5 years at least, I'd rather think god you look great compare to OMG you had a hard paper round!

Lol the younger ones add years,the older take them off we may as well put 18-99 "

What an ingenious way of justifying it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some right little boy profiles on here also. Unfortunately. Slags off others presumably because of inadequacy "

Interesting opinion.....I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am 10 years younger but only 2 years older because men lie on here surprise surprise and knock off 5 years at least, I'd rather think god you look great compare to OMG you had a hard paper round!

Lol the younger ones add years,the older take them off we may as well put 18-99

What an ingenious way of justifying it."

I don't have to justify my age preference on here to anyone. I like younger men and I have them,often. Now you say they have low standards blah blah,will shag anything etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have 22-35 as our age range. It's five years older than Marc and four years younger than me. So it's pretty much right around our ages, neither older nor younger. And it's working out for us just fine

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some right little boy profiles on here also. Unfortunately. Slags off others presumably because of inadequacy "

Hahahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It always amuses me to look at the age range preferences. It often is 5 years older but 20 years younger.

You can't beat optimism I guess."

even the 30 year olds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am 10 years younger but only 2 years older because men lie on here surprise surprise and knock off 5 years at least, I'd rather think god you look great compare to OMG you had a hard paper round!

Lol the younger ones add years,the older take them off we may as well put 18-99

What an ingenious way of justifying it.

I don't have to justify my age preference on here to anyone. I like younger men and I have them,often. Now you say they have low standards blah blah,will shag anything etc etc "

Nor should you have to justify your age preference, or any other for that matter. It's exactly that - your preference, and not anybody else's. You're on this site to do what you want to do!

I much prefer older ladies, but I keep my age preferences broad because I am open minded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is 16 years younger, lower end, and 3 years younger top end. I'm happy with this and have no problem finding people within my range.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It always amuses me to look at the age range preferences. It often is 5 years older but 20 years younger.

You can't beat optimism I guess.

even the 30 year olds "

No because that would not be legal on the lower scale.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to prefer younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm happy to prefer younger "

Though I allow oldies to contact me too

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

I much prefer the younger guy...my preference is 10 ish years younger although I have partaken in someone 25 years younger until he told me his dad was the same age as me and that freaked me out!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm happy to prefer younger "

not young enough for me to message you though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm happy to prefer younger

not young enough for me to message you though "

Oh god no, not when most of my children are older than you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm happy to prefer younger

not young enough for me to message you though

Oh god no, not when most of my children are older than you!"

Noone needs to know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes this is the nightmare scenario !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm happy to prefer younger

not young enough for me to message you though

Oh god no, not when most of my children are older than you!

Noone needs to know "

I'd know! I said I go younger, not young.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Not really that restrictive on age limits, but rarely in my life have I met a woman under 30 who really wants to go on a journey....

Experiance, confidence, mental strength are required and it seems these only come with age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh I find that on swinger or hook up sites. Women get away with murder. Forget what she looks like or how old she is. If she has a female profile. Men from 18-100 would line up to meet her. Sometimes I want to hand in my man card.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"Tbh I find that on swinger or hook up sites. Women get away with murder. Forget what she looks like or how old she is. If she has a female profile. Men from 18-100 would line up to meet her. Sometimes I want to hand in my man card. "

Fucking dangerous game though... I hate being ambushed. Total opposite to what I expect turns up and I'm walking away.

Added to that I almost always go social first, unless we have killer rapport... No click = no go!

I lived as an Englishman in the USA and Asia during my 20s, I've had enough pointless sex for one lifetime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It always amuses me to look at the age range preferences. It often is 5 years older but 20 years younger.

You can't beat optimism I guess."

That's a 25 year age differential, but your is 20 years.

Does it matter?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

According to my maths there is a 10 year age differential either side of my age.

However if my upper age limit wanted to play with my lower limit and cut out the middle man ( ie me) then you would indeed be right abd that would certainly matter, to me at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger guys really don't appeal other than on the attraction level....they tend not to have that imagination and mental capacity that older guys have. Not a generalisation, just my experience....hence why I haven't filtered out younger guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoa I'm a massive optimist then!!

2 years older / 20 years younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whoa I'm a massive optimist then!!

2 years older / 20 years younger "

I could have sworn you were in your late 30's CL!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh I find that on swinger or hook up sites. Women get away with murder. Forget what she looks like or how old she is. If she has a female profile. Men from 18-100 would line up to meet her. Sometimes I want to hand in my man card.

Fucking dangerous game though... I hate being ambushed. Total opposite to what I expect turns up and I'm walking away.

Added to that I almost always go social first, unless we have killer rapport... No click = no go!

I lived as an Englishman in the USA and Asia during my 20s, I've had enough pointless sex for one lifetime."

I'm always drawn to your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whoa I'm a massive optimist then!!

2 years older / 20 years younger "

If that's uber optimistic what am I??? My top end of the range is 5 years younger !!!!!

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"Tbh I find that on swinger or hook up sites. Women get away with murder. Forget what she looks like or how old she is. If she has a female profile. Men from 18-100 would line up to meet her. Sometimes I want to hand in my man card.

Fucking dangerous game though... I hate being ambushed. Total opposite to what I expect turns up and I'm walking away.

Added to that I almost always go social first, unless we have killer rapport... No click = no go!

I lived as an Englishman in the USA and Asia during my 20s, I've had enough pointless sex for one lifetime.

I'm always drawn to your profile."

To a few I'm intriguing, I suppose... But I'm a slow burner and not many have the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to stick ten years either side but now I've changed that, I find its about the individual and how they look after themselves and how they come across personality wise.

Best meet I've had was a few years back with I rather posh lady of 57, she looked amazing but then I recently met a 26 year old girl was fantastic too, that said the girl had smarts which is always appealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'll have to start going to afternoon tea dances by the sounds of things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your as old as the guy your feeling, u remeber some one saying that and liked ut but age really is just a number as long as uts over 18

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whoa I'm a massive optimist then!!

2 years older / 20 years younger "

I think that's defined as open minded....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Whoa I'm a massive optimist then!!

2 years older / 20 years younger

If that's uber optimistic what am I??? My top end of the range is 5 years younger !!!!!

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My top age is also younger than me. Extremely optimistic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be a pessimist, my range goes 3 years younger but 15 older....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine are 18 to 99 lol "

How many 99 year olds on here I wonder Shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines between 35 and 50. Not sure its right though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The oldest I've gone is 47

Youngest 21.

Either side in both cases would probably be leaning towards awkwardness ...."

That's what blindfolds are for

Wear one and remain blissfully ignorant if not just blissful.

Seriously though, so much of fun happens in the head, between the ears as much as between the sheets that it is the person rather than the age that counts - at least to me.

Gary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age limit is 30+ plus it depends on matureness and the mans body mainly the chest area x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines 18-39 but I seam to attract men in their twenty's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number met & played with all ages, it's about the people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ivy is 21 and doesn't like younger than her women or men and has always played with older people so our age range is 24-35 with no set in stone on the top age but never younger than R

It comes down to chemistry though not age when meeting in the club for the first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure you'd be in stitches over my age range.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess it's all personal choice, I've been told I'm not old enough by a girl half my age, suppose it's just howworks on here, someone for everyone I like to think

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My latest interest is 28 my upper limit is 49, to many "50" year olds where messaging me. The older I get the lower my age limit gets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes it all nonsense is that the people I have met and know, and had fun with.... and then I bump into them on here... And most of them have me outside their age range I have a type I find attractive.. Age tends to be secondary. Find the same in relationships as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It always amuses me to look at the age range preferences. It often is 5 years older but 20 years younger.

You can't beat optimism I guess."

I don't think I'd be happy to meet a 5 year old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18-99

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Mine are 18 to 99 lol

How many 99 year olds on here I wonder Shag? "

None - but there are 17 woman profiles within 1500 miles of me.

This site discriminates against centenarian swingers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will go up to 50.any more and its my dads age.

The 18-99 make me think they ain't fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 47 my range is 44 to 60 and always getting told I need to lower it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will go up to 50.any more and its my dads age.

The 18-99 make me think they ain't fussy"
snap

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London


"It always amuses me to look at the age range preferences. It often is 5 years older but 20 years younger.

You can't beat optimism I guess."

Good point, I changed mine when I met my bf as he was out of my age preference, but we clicked anyway - my reasoning was that if I met someone near my age they would be looking for a relationship, so I did, despite myself, and it happened .... not that I am knocking it

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport

How many people don't change their preferences? I mean surely if you've been here 5 yrs you should now have increased your upper limit by 5 really

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

20 years older than us would be difficult!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Forum Mod
over a year ago

I'm extremely strict about my preferred age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The oldest I've gone is 47

Youngest 21.

Either side in both cases would probably be leaning towards awkwardness ....

Seriously though, so much of fun happens in the head, between the ears as much as between the sheets that it is the person rather than the age that counts - at least to me.

Gary"

A gap of 20 years+ is just too huge for me on the upper end. (And I can't think why someone of that age would be interested in me anyway)

My preferences are 25-46 +/- a year or 2 each side.

I've only gone below 25 twice.

No guy on this site would have turned either down being bluntly honest.

I've never met below 25 since. The interest wouldn't be there I would doubt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really that restrictive on age limits, but rarely in my life have I met a woman under 30 who really wants to go on a journey....

Experiance, confidence, mental strength are required and it seems these only come with age."

1 here!

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By *arkinberksMan
over a year ago

Ascot

Hmmm tricky balancing act really. Think it all has to do with how old you are and how old you feel. My experience has been that most people look at your age and then decide if they feel comfortable with that before actually taking it any further. So most 20-30 year old tend to shun anyone over 35-40 cos it's a bit like shagging your parents. Conversely a lot of people over 35 would happily hump someone between the ages of 18 and 25. Equally a lot of people under the age of 45 would run a mile from someone over 55. The mental image tends to be that if you are heading up 60 you are wrinkly and past it. Yet looking on here there are some extremely fit folk of both genders who are that sort of age. Groucho Marx was dead right when he said that a man is only as old as the woman he feels. Some days I feel like an 18 year old - but it's a bugger to catch one

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By *bfoxxxMan
over a year ago

Crete or LANCASTER

Harrison Ford,

George Clooney,

Steven Seagal etc

None would get a meet based on their profile.

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By *arkinberksMan
over a year ago

Ascot


"20 years older than us would be difficult! "

Might be, but not impossible;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met women of varying ages, passion is not dictated by age, nor is sensuality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines 27 to 55

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