FabSwingers.com forum: stroppy woman

By *ricer OP Man
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees

Took a lass to a club on our first meet! I got off with another lass in there as you do, and the first lass got a right strop on!!

Doesn't that defeat the object of swinging or was I in the wrong??

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Depends. Did you just dump her at the bar as soon as you got through the door? Or did you discuss before going in that there might be a chance that you would play with others, and that she was welcome to do so also?

Communication is the key.

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

What do you think? Read your op again, you took out one lady for a 1st meet to a club, then got off with another woman! Did you talk about this before you went into the club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From an outsiders point of _iew it looks like you brought a female along to get the cheaper couple entry fee, then ditched her inside!

Need some more info OP

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By *ricer OP Man
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees

It was discussed beforehand, and we both knew what to expect - I stayed with her for most of the evening!!

That said I did get to go back to hers afterwards, even though she was stropping!! I guess in hindsight she was uncomfortable, but never actually said it!!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I agree with others,not suprised she was a bit miffed really.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Took a lass to a club on our first meet! I got off with another lass in there as you do, and the first lass got a right strop on!!

Doesn't that defeat the object of swinging or was I in the wrong?? "

It depends what her expectations were, did you discuss them? Did either of you make them clear?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Classy people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was discussed beforehand, and we both knew what to expect - I stayed with her for most of the evening!!

That said I did get to go back to hers afterwards, even though she was stropping!! I guess in hindsight she was uncomfortable, but never actually said it!! "

Personally I think if you went together you should have stayed with her & maybe picked up on the signals that she wasn't comfortable with the situation.

Or were you to busy looking for the next conquest......

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"Classy people on here

If you take someone to a club surely you play with others together? Anything separate is just using the girl.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"From an outsiders point of _iew it looks like you brought a female along to get the cheaper couple entry fee, then ditched her inside!

Need some more info OP

This was my thought as well! Not good form OP at all

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By *ricer OP Man
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees

I wasn't looking for the next conquest - it just sort of happened - maybe I need to learn how to say no, and restrain myself, and use the mushy stuff inside my skull!! :/

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

"From an outsiders point of _iew it looks like you brought a female along to get the cheaper couple entry fee, then ditched her inside!

Need some more info OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah mate!!! Perfect gent in my books, what do these 'lasses' expect..t'world...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why didn't you include her as well?

Could have had an mff!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Classy people on here

Uh oh. The c bomb.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Strop on

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By *ricer OP Man
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees

"Strop on

No that was a different day lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you went together and it was her first time too, then you're a cock and she had a right to be stroppy!

Men !

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

"Classy people on here

As well as dumb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Classy people on here

As well as dumb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No meets in 3 years and 2 girls in one night wow how lucky !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, whats the issue here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happened to me and yes, I did get stroppy too. Guy took off with a woman he had evidently arranged to meet there. He even had the nerve to invite me to join in. Such bad manners. Needless to day we parted company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't believe she invited you back I would have said byeeeeee!!

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By *ricer OP Man
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees

"No meets in 3 years and 2 girls in one night wow how lucky ! "

I use other sites as well as this one.......

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By *ricer OP Man
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees

"I can't believe she invited you back I would have said byeeeeee!!"

Tbh, I'm surprised she didn't!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That status you have up wont make her feel any better...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Classy people on here

Oooh indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like total arsehole behaviour.

I'm surprised she just didn't walk out on you.

Mrs

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

To be honest OP, you really did act like a bit of a nob! I am sure that any woman would be quite justified in having a strop!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if it was me I'd have just gone found a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You missed out on a threesome....let your cock run your brain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You took a lady for her first visit to a swingers club and you left her alone while you went off to play?

**shakes head in disbelief**

I presume the only reason she didn't give you your marching orders when you finally came back was because she was also dependant on you for a lift home!!!

Disgusting behaviour on your part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did you say to her before you went off with the other girl? It's just good manners to stick with the person you came with unless they are happy for you to go off and play. Anything else is very rude! Was she left on her own? Not surprised she was unhappy if so!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Classy people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This happened to me and yes, I did get stroppy too. Guy took off with a woman he had evidently arranged to meet there. He even had the nerve to invite me to join in. Such bad manners. Needless to day we parted company."

I had that once too

I had a guy ask me to join him at a club unbeknown to me at the time he had arranged to meet a couple there

we went and got changed stood at the bar and then he said to me "I'm just going to talk to some friends" and just walked off

didn't see him for hours

what really RESLLY pissed me off was that the woman hadn't took any drinks so he was fetching her my wine from behind the bar all night, I went for a glass and it was all gone and I'd paid the entry in, if I'd have gone alone I'd have got in free and had my drink

cheeky bastard

moral of that story is just go alone in the first place

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By *ricer OP Man
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees

"That status you have up wont make her feel any better...

She's not on here - as far as I know!!

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By *ricer OP Man
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees

"You took a lady for her first visit to a swingers club and you left her alone while you went off to play?

**shakes head in disbelief**

I presume the only reason she didn't give you your marching orders when you finally came back was because she was also dependant on you for a lift home!!!

Disgusting behaviour on your part."

No we got a taxi back to hers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That status you have up wont make her feel any better...

She's not on here - as far as I know!! "

You did tell her it was a swingers club right ?

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By *ricer OP Man
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees

"What did you say to her before you went off with the other girl? It's just good manners to stick with the person you came with unless they are happy for you to go off and play. Anything else is very rude! Was she left on her own? Not surprised she was unhappy if so!"

No she was left playing with another lass

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By *ricer OP Man
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees

"That status you have up wont make her feel any better...

She's not on here - as far as I know!!

You did tell her it was a swingers club right ?

We discussed it before we went and knew (or I thought we knew) what we were doing :/

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No she was left playing with another lass "

so what actually happened. Did you just go off or was she already playing with another woman then you went off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That status you have up wont make her feel any better...

She's not on here - as far as I know!!

You did tell her it was a swingers club right ?

We discussed it before we went and knew (or I thought we knew) what we were doing :/ "

Yes yes I'm only messing

to be honest if everything you said it true (not that anyone would lie on here

) if she was playing with somebody else alone I can't see why she would moan at you for doing the same

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By *ricer OP Man
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees

No she was left playing with another lass

so what actually happened. Did you just go off or was she already playing with another woman then you went off?"

She was already playing - should have said that in the first place instead of making myself out to look like a total knob end!!

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By *ricer OP Man
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees

"That status you have up wont make her feel any better...

She's not on here - as far as I know!!

You did tell her it was a swingers club right ?

We discussed it before we went and knew (or I thought we knew) what we were doing :/

Yes yes I'm only messing

to be honest if everything you said it true (not that anyone would lie on here

) if she was playing with somebody else alone I can't see why she would moan at you for doing the same "

Agreed!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Took a lass to a club on our first meet! I got off with another lass in there as you do, and the first lass got a right strop on!!

Doesn't that defeat the object of swinging or was I in the wrong?? "

I would feel absolutely shit if I went to a club with a lady who ditched me for another fella.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No she was left playing with another lass

so what actually happened. Did you just go off or was she already playing with another woman then you went off?

She was already playing - should have said that in the first place instead of making myself out to look like a total knob end!! "

nice back peddling there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No she was left playing with another lass "

well, that makes it all right then. Not!! If that was me id have been more than fedup. Ive never been to a club and I certainly dont feel the need to go now, if thats how men behave towards the lady they invited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No she was left playing with another lass

So it's ok for her to play with somebody else but not him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she was playing before you went off I retract my previous statement!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

No she was left playing with another lass

So it's ok for her to play with somebody else but not him?"

Come on nn, you don't believe this whole 'she was playing with someone else' twist in the story do you?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No she was left playing with another lass

So it's ok for her to play with somebody else but not him?

Come on nn, you don't believe this whole 'she was playing with someone else' twist in the story do you?!?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No she was left playing with another lass

so what actually happened. Did you just go off or was she already playing with another woman then you went off?

She was already playing - should have said that in the first place instead of making myself out to look like a total knob end!! "

Yes. I'm surprised that you didn't really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if it was me I'd have just gone found a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No she was left playing with another lass

so what actually happened. Did you just go off or was she already playing with another woman then you went off?

She was already playing - should have said that in the first place instead of making myself out to look like a total knob end!! "

You're just making this up now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No she was left playing with another lass

So it's ok for her to play with somebody else but not him?

Come on nn, you don't believe this whole 'she was playing with someone else' twist in the story do you?!?

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

No she was left playing with another lass

so what actually happened. Did you just go off or was she already playing with another woman then you went off?

She was already playing - should have said that in the first place instead of making myself out to look like a total knob end!!

You're just making this up now!"

The damage was already done, no amount of backtracking will make him any less of one.

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