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does it get more difficult to get meet when you get near fifty and beyond

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi im finding it a bit harder to find other couples interested in meeting a male and i was wondering if its because im the wrong side of 45 now.is this an age issue ? Maybe its me, Im not big headed enough to think that might not be the case ?

What do other swinger think and find x

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"hi im finding it a bit harder to find other couples interested in meeting a male and i was wondering if its because im the wrong side of 45 now.is this an age issue ? Maybe its me, Im not big headed enough to think that might not be the case ?

What do other swinger think and find x"

I don't have a problem finding couples but you may need to adjust your own expectations about which age-range you may be looking at.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im looking in my age range and above sent you private message too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fook in hope not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

dont panic yet, maybe just my area lol

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

I've only recently started actively using the site again, but, since doing so, I haven't found it a problem

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

As a couple who are on both sides of fifty we only play in clubs and have absolutely no problem with people of all ages wanting to play with us....so as far as we are concerned age is no problem!

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

I'm 50

I've been using sites like since 2002

I find that actually I get far more meets now than I did then

For these reasons :-

A I've got more freetime

B I've got no kids with me

C I'm more open minded

D I'm unafraid to show explicit and obviously identifiable photos

E I need far more cock

Lol

So I'm doing far better than I ever have done before

And all without me traveling or offering accomadation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know this was aimed at couples but as a single woman of 47 I prefer older men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do bad for a OAP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi im finding it a bit harder to find other couples interested in meeting a male and i was wondering if its because im the wrong side of 45 now.is this an age issue ? Maybe its me, Im not big headed enough to think that might not be the case ?

What do other swinger think and find x"

Not at all.

If i spoke to someone older than me got on then id meet

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"hi im finding it a bit harder to find other couples interested in meeting a male and i was wondering if its because im the wrong side of 45 now.is this an age issue ? Maybe its me, Im not big headed enough to think that might not be the case ?

What do other swinger think and find x

Not at all.

If i spoke to someone older than me got on then id meet

"

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells


"hi im finding it a bit harder to find other couples interested in meeting a male and i was wondering if its because im the wrong side of 45 now.is this an age issue ? Maybe its me, Im not big headed enough to think that might not be the case ?

What do other swinger think and find x"

Oops did I forget to answer your question

No

Age is irrelevant to me

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By *icking3itMan
over a year ago

Fareham

Having been on swinging sites for a while iv noticed that it is a littel harder to find play mates since iv turned 50

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I believe my 50th birthday will be a joint affair with BlondeCaz on here at a swinger club, so I better get a right good seeing to that night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 28, and there are some bloody hot men on here 45+, several over 50 that I have high hopes of getting to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a couple either. But older men can be very sexy

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Can not believe how many younger ones get in touch with us

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I'm saying now't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this was aimed at couples but as a single woman of 47 I prefer older men "

Same here. I adjusted my upper age limit a while ago. So glad I did. Some extremely hot older men on here.

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I have just hit 55 and don't have any pics on show, but still chat to some lovely people and have met some fantastic folk along the way...

Good luck for the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men and women on here in the fifties that look amazing!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 22 and It is not easy to find a woman who likes young men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 22 and It is not easy to find a woman who likes young men"

I much prefer older, experienced men, with maturity and life experience.

nothing against younger men, Im sure some are great, just never beenn attracted to my age/younger.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells


"I'm 22 and It is not easy to find a woman who likes young men"

I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 58 and I'd say I have no problem! x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm mid 50's and have no problem in meeting folk.

Some great 50+ guys on here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There's a gent on here who won't mind me saying that he's well into his sixties who does very well.

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By *omeo1stMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

Hitting 51 puts you outside of many peoples filters so there is a noticeable drop in interest. Thankfully there are still a few people who want to say Hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I lived nearer, I would meet you BUT you cannot accommodate, and that plays a huge part in whether I meet someone or not. Cannot accommodate is known for meaning `married/attached' so lots of people avoid it for that reason - I don't want someone's angry wife on my doorstep!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this was aimed at couples but as a single woman of 47 I prefer older men

Same here. I adjusted my upper age limit a while ago. So glad I did. Some extremely hot older men on here. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes, meant to say, one of my favourite fun buddies is 68 and shows no sign of slowing down! Age is never a barrier to really good sex

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By *unskiss99Couple
over a year ago

where ever you like

Since being involved in the 'lifestyle' lol we have both said age, size etc no longer matters you seem to be able to see past all that, much more than I think we would both admit before (not looking for single men but if we were age wouldn't matter)

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi im finding it a bit harder to find other couples interested in meeting a male and i was wondering if its because im the wrong side of 45 now.is this an age issue ? Maybe its me, Im not big headed enough to think that might not be the case ?

What do other swinger think and find x"

Personal preference - I usually prefer men over 45 - any younger and they might remind me of my daughters boyfriends, which can be a bit off putting mid blow job!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi im finding it a bit harder to find other couples interested in meeting a male and i was wondering if its because im the wrong side of 45 now.is this an age issue ? Maybe its me, Im not big headed enough to think that might not be the case ?

What do other swinger think and find x"

I am in my mid 50s and i don't have a problem getting meets x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am in my mid 30s and yes abit of a problem, but getting meets is not top of my list as the gym comes first

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

68...... Extra meets always welcome...!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im 28, and there are some bloody hot men on here 45+, several over 50 that I have high hopes of getting to meet. "

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By *bfoxxxMan
over a year ago

Crete or LANCASTER

No.

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By *ob55Man
over a year ago

PE13

As a genuine 60 I've noticed a lot of people set their upper age limit at 60.

Not looking forward to being 61 next month

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By *eyondCuriousWoman
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

its all about what you want from here or in life, I am 52 she is 30 we have in the past had some horny time now we are very happy with the fem we play with when we all have time. I would say enjoy what you are and respect what you can play with.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

We are doing ok can not believe how many much younger guys want a 3some with people our age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems that every age group thinks that age may be an issue, from experience both on sites and clubs those with time and money to travel and play tend to be 40+ anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope

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By *uestandpinkCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Great answers on here....its all about the fun

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By *uddy and hollyCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

No can't say we see any changes if any thing we get more now than when we was in our 40s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a couple either. But older men can be very sexy "
Whooo hoooo, (waves), over here!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this was aimed at couples but as a single woman of 47 I prefer older men

Same here. I adjusted my upper age limit a while ago. So glad I did. Some extremely hot older men on here. "
Damn, just missed out on age with this one!! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op, I'm the wrong side of 55 (the common age range cut off point), and yes it does get very difficult. But I Suppose age range is there for a reason, I've said before, I wish I hadn't been so truthful with my profile!!.

Anyway, being my age isn't so bad, my mind is starting to become very perverted and taboo!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 56 and having a great time! I'm playing with all ages from 23 to 64!

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By *orseydaveMan
over a year ago

Norwich NR5

If you actually take note of members in your area, you'll be in for a nice surprise. The vast majority of couples are 40+, and a previous poster got it bang on, people have more free time on their hands, they don't have kids around them 24/7, and I'm sure after x number of years of marriage, know what they want, and the shyness of youth has gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi im finding it a bit harder to find other couples interested in meeting a male and i was wondering if its because im the wrong side of 45 now.is this an age issue ? Maybe its me, Im not big headed enough to think that might not be the case ?

What do other swinger think and find x"

You should start worrying when you get to my age then the age factor really does come into it's own

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