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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i just read a nice profile statement where this female feels sorry for genuine guys because some guys spoil it here for genuine blokes looking to have fun.

i dont think i could less agree with her statement. but also there are couples and females here too that i feel arent genuine. single blokes are minority here and i read more people claim single blokes are time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a new one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tee hee!! Single blokes are a minority?!! Erm...I hate to break it to you...!!

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By *randmrsfreakyCouple
over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield


"i just read a nice profile statement where this female feels sorry for genuine guys because some guys spoil it here for genuine blokes looking to have fun.

i dont think i could less agree with her statement. but also there are couples and females here too that i feel arent genuine. single blokes are minority here and i read more people claim single blokes are time wasters. "

there are more single blokes on here than you can shake a stick at, your posts get weirder every day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If profiles were open and honest we would all have a chance. We have all been victim to timewasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If profiles were open and honest we would all have a chance. We have all been victim to timewasters."

It depends how you define timewaster!

For me, changing your mind prior to meeting, unable to firm up a meet etc NOT a timewaster. Arranging a time and place and not turning up IS a timewaster, and in three years of swinging NEVER encountered a timewaster!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tee hee!! Single blokes are a minority?!! Erm...I hate to break it to you...!! "

BUT single guys are a majority, single women are a minority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time waster is a fact of life, one has to learn to deal with it and move on.

For me, I arrange my first meet at places that I would like to eat. If my meet fails to turn up, I shall sit down and have a good meal myself, no time wasted.

Sorted!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


" We have all been victim to timewasters."

All sweeping statements arise out of bitterness.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

perspective is a great thing and maybe if some understood that just because we are on a sex site...... WE AIN'T ALL GAGGING FOR A SHAG and will bend over and let any Tom, Dick or Sally pump us.

this may cut down on disillusionment that people feel

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

have had a few guys where time and place is arranged i turn up and they dont so def for me that is time wasting as what time i get is precious being a single parent...... its those guys who do give the genuine ones a bad name and then some of us dont want to meet

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I think for a lot of people for me, and this pertains to a lot of single guys, see this as a sex site.... I see this as a swinging site and the two are different things in vibe and attitude, hence why lots of single guys keep making the complaints will always whinge... and those who do actually "get it" as such, just look at these and laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single blokes are part of the minority?! What facts are you basing this on?!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"i just read a nice profile statement where this female feels sorry for genuine guys because some guys spoil it here for genuine blokes looking to have fun.

i dont think i could less agree with her statement. but also there are couples and females here too that i feel arent genuine. single blokes are minority here and i read more people claim single blokes are time wasters. "

for example to what I wrote above.... Do I think that you "get it" as such?

with what you written in the past,

the advice you were given,

the need to ask then the same question again,

and then the statements you keep making..

do I personally think that you "get it"... nope, sorry..... it will always be more than just a flowery worded profile, its an attitude, its a willingness to learn and grow

sharped dress man "gets it" .... View "gets it"....

maybe it is time to look at others and see what they do, how they act...

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By *eviousLiasonsCouple
over a year ago

Travelling

Single blokes.... minority??? Just out of curiosity.... put on your profile "Looking for a single guy tonight" and see how "minority" your replies are lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" WE AIN'T ALL GAGGING FOR A SHAG and will bend over and let any Tom, Dick or Sally pump us.

"

we aren't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" WE AIN'T ALL GAGGING FOR A SHAG and will bend over and let any Tom, Dick or Sally pump us.

we aren't? "

My sentiments exactly, I was last night, thank you Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" WE AIN'T ALL GAGGING FOR A SHAG and will bend over and let any Tom, Dick or Sally pump us.

we aren't? "

Dear Erotica,

Im a tom with a dick....

Love Sally xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i just read a nice profile statement where this female feels sorry for genuine guys because some guys spoil it here for genuine blokes looking to have fun.

i dont think i could less agree with her statement. but also there are couples and females here too that i feel arent genuine. single blokes are minority here and i read more people claim single blokes are time wasters.

for example to what I wrote above.... Do I think that you "get it" as such?

with what you written in the past,

the advice you were given,

the need to ask then the same question again,

and then the statements you keep making..

do I personally think that you "get it"... nope, sorry..... it will always be more than just a flowery worded profile, its an attitude, its a willingness to learn and grow

sharped dress man "gets it" .... View "gets it"....

maybe it is time to look at others and see what they do, how they act..."
for heaven sake man this is a forum. im just posting messages to create discussion. if you dont like it dont comment. if seems to me we always criticise all my posts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tee hee!! Single blokes are a minority?!! Erm...I hate to break it to you...!! "
i mean genuine single blokes are minority. yes there are more blokes here but its seem people say alot of them are not genuine and timewasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tee hee!! Single blokes are a minority?!! Erm...I hate to break it to you...!! i mean genuine single blokes are minority. yes there are more blokes here but its seem people say alot of them are not genuine and timewasters"

Why are you so worried about what others say / think? Are you not able to form your own opinion??

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By *eviousLiasonsCouple
over a year ago

Travelling


"Tee hee!! Single blokes are a minority?!! Erm...I hate to break it to you...!! i mean genuine single blokes are minority. yes there are more blokes here but its seem people say alot of them are not genuine and timewasters"

How on earth can you quantify that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tee hee!! Single blokes are a minority?!! Erm...I hate to break it to you...!! i mean genuine single blokes are minority. yes there are more blokes here but its seem people say alot of them are not genuine and timewasters"

Do they?!!

I only meet single men, I'm on several sites, some "specialist" in three years not met a timewasting fake bloke yet!

Oooh single blokes get my vote!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"for heaven sake man this is a forum. im just posting messages to create discussion. if you dont like it dont comment. if seems to me we always criticise all my posts."

I'll tell you what then... if you are going to "create a discussion" then rather than just putting out statements that don't make sense, have something to back up what you are claiming.......

so let me ask you this... what evidence can you provide, if any, to back up what you are saying?????? then people might take you seriously...

you are awfully quick to pull out the "oh woe is me....victim" card.... because you haven't provided any evidence to support what you said....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single blokes are part of the minority?! What facts are you basing this on?!"

On the WELL KNOWN FACT that on every single sex-related sites there are WAY MORE couples and single ladies than single guys.

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow

I have one of them ticket thingies, like they use in waitrose (or wherever).

Take a number single guys.

(thinks: better get some extra rolls of paper)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"for heaven sake man this is a forum. im just posting messages to create discussion. if you dont like it dont comment. if seems to me we always criticise all my posts.

I'll tell you what then... if you are going to "create a discussion" then rather than just putting out statements that don't make sense, have something to back up what you are claiming.......

so let me ask you this... what evidence can you provide, if any, to back up what you are saying?????? then people might take you seriously...

you are awfully quick to pull out the "oh woe is me....victim" card.... because you haven't provided any evidence to support what you said....

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move on mate i dont have time for people like you.what evidence are you referring to i was only saying what i read here that there are too many timewasters who people generally claim to be single blokes. dont feel i need to justify such statement.

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

your wasting time posting about this over and over again.

so who makes the rules hear then? do you have to shag four times a week to be a swinger or do you have to have a meet once a week. now I do know people may arrange a meet and then not turn up this thankful is a minority as I am led to believe.

we have been called time-wasters because we have kids and can not drop everything the night before. now forgive me but if we do not have a meet for a month or two at a time that is our business and we will not be made feel like we should have an active account if we are not planning on meeting at the time.

now this is not just at you but at the few people who have messaged us also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

c'mon folks give the guy a chance he did explain that his statement was slighly typoed wrong.

He meant to say that only a minority of the vast amount of single guys here are actually genuine, and I have to agree with that, I can say that on a pro-rata basis (based on the fewer numbers) we find more single fem profiles to be those of timewasters or fakes.

The genuine single guys on here that make an effort with getting to know people, making a profile and turning up for meets are well worth trolling through the dross, the same can be said for couples and females, the genuine ones are great the idiots are idots.

Ignore the idiots and have lots of fun with the genuine people no matter what thier status.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"c'mon folks give the guy a chance he did explain that his statement was slighly typoed wrong.

He meant to say that only a minority of the vast amount of single guys here are actually genuine, and I have to agree with that, I can say that on a pro-rata basis (based on the fewer numbers) we find more single fem profiles to be those of timewasters or fakes.

The genuine single guys on here that make an effort with getting to know people, making a profile and turning up for meets are well worth trolling through the dross, the same can be said for couples and females, the genuine ones are great the idiots are idots.

Ignore the idiots and have lots of fun with the genuine people no matter what thier status. "
exactly my point. thanks for your comments.

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