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"I like your openess and the thought sounds exciting ! But why does it matter what colour the cock is ? " Thank you for the early feedback. Actually the background of the Bull doesn't matter. It just springs off the tongue naturally because of the circles I move in. Your post is exactly why I put my post out there as I am eager to hear peoples views and find out what would work best for people. | |||
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"I like the idea of sharing a Bi man, but my bf is black and is not into black guys (it's an inter racial preference), also I am Dom, but into him getting the bull to Dom him ,...." Good to hear from you Pepper. Naturally I am going to spin things in a way that leans towards my own personal preferences lol, but as mentioned humiliation is not an essential element here. The primary goal here is to establish if an intimate private gathering of this nature could actually become a reality. | |||
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"I've had a cuck and wife giving me head together but that was a few years ago. It was awesome. Always happy to repeat. " I had my first experience like that last year and now I'm hooked lol | |||
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"Well as you know, OP, hubby and I are looking for the exact scenario you describe and it's very difficult to find guys that admit to being comfortable with such an arrangement. I'm not sure how it would translate into a group setting as it is quite a personal intense relationship between couple and "bull"" Ive totally gotta agree with this ! Its a private roll play for alot of cpls | |||
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"It's not about humiliation as I hate those messages from guys who see I am Dom, on our couple profile, but then go on to say we can both make a sissy of him .... That is not what it is about for either of us, interesting thread though" In my experience there are many levels of humiliation. I am not applying it to you but couples often tell me they are not into humiliation but are turned on when it is done subtlety and with respect. I know that sounds like a contradiction though lol. I have never gone down the road of playing a pantomime scream and should Dom. Were I to do that I would probably struggle to keep a strait face and burst out laughing. Not that I can't to that but it has to fit the couple and the mood of the occasion | |||
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"Well as you know, OP, hubby and I are looking for the exact scenario you describe and it's very difficult to find guys that admit to being comfortable with such an arrangement. I'm not sure how it would translate into a group setting as it is quite a personal intense relationship between couple and "bull"" Yes it would be something of an experiment and it is exactly why I am inclined to say that the number of Bulls should closely match the number of couples | |||
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"Well as you know, OP, hubby and I are looking for the exact scenario you describe and it's very difficult to find guys that admit to being comfortable with such an arrangement. I'm not sure how it would translate into a group setting as it is quite a personal intense relationship between couple and "bull" Yes it would be something of an experiment and it is exactly why I am inclined to say that the number of Bulls should closely match the number of couples" Would be interested to see how many "bulls" (i wish there was another word to use!) Would put their names forward | |||
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"Agreed, to be honest we have trouble playing in certain clubs playing in front of others, because what we have is so intimate between us. Well, should I say that I have more trouble than he does as he is a bit of a performer .... I think an intimate scenario means more pressure to play and I am not sure about that, unless we have already established a relationship with the person we are meeting. I have swapped to our couples profile to respond here, s it seems to make more sense. " Interesting, that is one of the reasons for my post. I had been chatting with a cuckold couple for some time and arranged to meet them at an event. I finally got them to a room and the cuckold was fluffing me as I got ready to fuck his wife. Other guys kept coming into the room so both me and the cuckold would stop, we didn't feel comfortable as we didn't know how people would react. Basically it ruined the flow of things. | |||
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"Well as you know, OP, hubby and I are looking for the exact scenario you describe and it's very difficult to find guys that admit to being comfortable with such an arrangement. I'm not sure how it would translate into a group setting as it is quite a personal intense relationship between couple and "bull" Yes it would be something of an experiment and it is exactly why I am inclined to say that the number of Bulls should closely match the number of couples Would be interested to see how many "bulls" (i wish there was another word to use!) Would put their names forward " A bit like BBC we are stuck with what we are stuck with lol. With a bit of luck I will get a few private contacts. Although so far one guy has been quite open with is a good sign | |||
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"Agreed, to be honest we have trouble playing in certain clubs playing in front of others, because what we have is so intimate between us. Well, should I say that I have more trouble than he does as he is a bit of a performer .... I think an intimate scenario means more pressure to play and I am not sure about that, unless we have already established a relationship with the person we are meeting. I have swapped to our couples profile to respond here, s it seems to make more sense. Interesting, that is one of the reasons for my post. I had been chatting with a cuckold couple for some time and arranged to meet them at an event. I finally got them to a room and the cuckold was fluffing me as I got ready to fuck his wife. Other guys kept coming into the room so both me and the cuckold would stop, we didn't feel comfortable as we didn't know how people would react. Basically it ruined the flow of things." this is one of the reasons we have almost given up on going to clubs to be honest | |||
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"Now wouldn't that be nice.........Apparently there are quite a few Black guys out there happy to have their cock sucked by couples but not willing to take the next step and be open about it on here. I was one of those and can understand the reluctance. That said I have now come to the point where quite frankly I have little to no concern over how people want to judge or categories me. Although I have absolutely no interest in meeting single guys or single TVs. In the context of cuckolding., be it with or without the element of humiliating the male-cuckold. Not only do I like the idea of having both the lady and the male sucking my cock.....I absolutely love it. I've seen the light lol I chat to cuckold couple regularly both here and elsewhere. So wouldn't it be nice to put the two together. A nice intimate gathering of a three to six couples and a similar number of Bulls happy to be orally serviced by couples without feeling self conscious, worrying that their secret will get out or about being judged. I'm not talking about commercial events and I am most certainly not talking about gangbangs. I personally find them lacking in intimacy and they bore me silly in most instances so please don't ask. So guys if you are happy to be a part of a discreet network of Bulls that like to be sucked by couples please get in touch. The same also applies to couples that might be interested in intimate gatherings of this nature. Naturally each and every Bull and couples extra requirements for discretion will be respected and there is no need to respond publicly in this forum. However I will repeat two things. 1) This is not a commercial venture. 2) Any requests by couples for me to put together a group of guys for a single couple multiple Bull gangbang will get a cold response from me or simply be ignored. So this is me putting out feelers, eager for feedback and ideas and hoping that my instincts are right" . Have done this a few times in Cap d Agde . Your scenario will probably work better as with only five or six couples there will be less men who are not selected but attempt to push in regardless .Are you only after black bulls or do you accept white bulls as well? | |||
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"I would love to Cap d Agde one of these days. No the Bulls don't need to be black. The preferences of the couples involved would be taken into account. So the backgroud of the Bull would simply be one of the things taken into account when paring people up. The reverse would also be true and Bulls also have their preferences. Ideally it would be couples and Bulls matched equally but one always has to make a little bit of an allowance. I think aiming f. or no more than one or two extra guys is just the right balance." . Hi . Good pictures . You would do well in Cap d Agde with all those continental couples . You are probably a dream ticket for some of them , especially in the clubs . | |||
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"It's not about humiliation as I hate those messages from guys who see I am Dom, on our couple profile, but then go on to say we can both make a sissy of him .... That is not what it is about for either of us, interesting thread though In my experience there are many levels of humiliation. I am not applying it to you but couples often tell me they are not into humiliation but are turned on when it is done subtlety and with respect. I know that sounds like a contradiction though lol. I have never gone down the road of playing a pantomime scream and should Dom. Were I to do that I would probably struggle to keep a strait face and burst out laughing. Not that I can't to that but it has to fit the couple and the mood of the occasion" I know we are not into any form of humiliation, having been on the scene for four years, have experienced a lot of what is out there and the potential. The relationship between myself and my partner is the most important for me .... trouble for us is I very rarely play with white guys and he only plays with white guys. Not sure if the so called 'bull' is for me .... | |||
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"Now wouldn't that be nice.........Apparently there are quite a few Black guys out there happy to have their cock sucked by couples but not willing to take the next step and be open about it on here. I was one of those and can understand the reluctance. That said I have now come to the point where quite frankly I have little to no concern over how people want to judge or categories me. Although I have absolutely no interest in meeting single guys or single TVs. In the context of cuckolding., be it with or without the element of humiliating the male-cuckold. Not only do I like the idea of having both the lady and the male sucking my cock.....I absolutely love it. I've seen the light lol I chat to cuckold couple regularly both here and elsewhere. So wouldn't it be nice to put the two together. A nice intimate gathering of a three to six couples and a similar number of Bulls happy to be orally serviced by couples without feeling self conscious, worrying that their secret will get out or about being judged. I'm not talking about commercial events and I am most certainly not talking about gangbangs. I personally find them lacking in intimacy and they bore me silly in most instances so please don't ask. So guys if you are happy to be a part of a discreet network of Bulls that like to be sucked by couples please get in touch. The same also applies to couples that might be interested in intimate gatherings of this nature. Naturally each and every Bull and couples extra requirements for discretion will be respected and there is no need to respond publicly in this forum. However I will repeat two things. 1) This is not a commercial venture. 2) Any requests by couples for me to put together a group of guys for a single couple multiple Bull gangbang will get a cold response from me or simply be ignored. So this is me putting out feelers, eager for feedback and ideas and hoping that my instincts are right" We love to share bbc to suck on , come visit us x | |||
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"We feel strange about doing anything bi male in a club although we have done on a couple of occasions. We've not done much in the way of cuckold fun either although Ginger's threatening to take me along caged to watch as she has her fun. The idea is a good one and something that could be a lot of fun with the right people and venues" Well I am certainly feeling encouraged by the responses that I have been getting. Both here and with the private emails that I have been getting. If only this site had some kind of voting feature. I have lots of idea but want to go in a direction that suits the needs of most. Perhaps I will set up a mailing list | |||
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"Bravo for your honesty and such an interesting thread. It is something we have talked about long and hard, whether it will remain a fantasy or not remains to be seen. Personally i cannot see myself being a cuckold, its not in my DNA i suppose but i would love to share a Dom black guy with my OH, i find the whole scenario highly erotic. " We should all go on our journey in a direction and at a pace that suits us. Sometimes we take unexpected turns but it should always be our own choice. The version of me from three years ago would not have believed I would ever get to where I am now lol | |||
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"So glad you are getting a good response to your admirably honest post! As you know ( we have chatted) we are very much into this, and I think it's a natural progression for many cuckold couples.I have no interest sexually whatsoever in men outside of a cuckolding scenario. But the thrill of being told to suck or clean the bull's cock and to know that my wife is enjoying watching is very intense. To be part of a group where all the cuckolds were expected to serve would be heaven!" I can think of a Bull verification process that you would probably quite like then lol | |||
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"Sometime is great to see the wife telling the cuck to clean and suck the bulls cock " Have ye done this with any of your meets? J | |||
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"So glad you are getting a good response to your admirably honest post! As you know ( we have chatted) we are very much into this, and I think it's a natural progression for many cuckold couples.I have no interest sexually whatsoever in men outside of a cuckolding scenario. But the thrill of being told to suck or clean the bull's cock and to know that my wife is enjoying watching is very intense. To be part of a group where all the cuckolds were expected to serve would be heaven!" And thank you for your open and honest ost. Hope it happens for ye soon. J | |||
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"Sometime is great to see the wife telling the cuck to clean and suck the bulls cock Have ye done this with any of your meets? J" Hi, although I have had some great cuckolding experiences with couples. I have not yet met a couple were enough things are in place for me to realistically consider the bareback route with them. So for now I find inventive ways to get around it | |||
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"Very open and respectful post , and a great insight into your thoughts x" My thanks to you x | |||
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"I like the idea of sharing a Bi man, but my bf is black and is not into black guys (it's an inter racial preference), also I am Dom, but into him getting the bull to Dom him ,...." Ive Done this before | |||
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"Maybe this is the year for me to go lol. Can you recommend the best times to go?" . Busy times are in July and August but they are also the most expensive . Any time between May and September should be Ok | |||
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"It’s very difficult to find a term to describe this. The only one I have come up with is “contextually bi”. I absolutely adore the dynamic of threesome sex, where I join a couple and we meet each other’s needs. The energy crackles in the room, and the look of absolute wonder and excitement on a guys face when he loves the sight of you entering his wife for the first time is beautiful, as is the connection between them and the love she has for him when he can allow and enjoy this. I have enjoyed, over the years all sorts of variations o this, from a full “cuck” set up, to threesome and tagging. The “bull” has to be reliable, respectful, very had “perform well” (and repeatedly), and above all, know when to leave so the couple can cuddle and enjoy the afterglow and the deep intimacy that this kind of play brings for them; but it is a very occasional joy for me (sadly) as it is so had (forgive the pun) to set up. Some couples ask for Bi men, and I am not Bi – for me Bisexual means that I am attracted sexually and romantically to men, and I am not. Overall it is about the eroticism of a meeting with a lovely couple, and with permission I do enjoy them both, and I adore having both a wife and her hubby enjoy sucking and feeling my cock. And in that energy and buzz, I can take things further, if the mood and communication and desire are right – with the guy cleaning, or serving, or sucking me while she watches – it often has a deeply arousing effect on a woman watching her hubby pleasure the cock that has just entered her. There are all sorts of deeply pleasurable things that can flow naturally from this set up. When I say this, some will say “you are dishonest, as this is Bisexual”, but it isn’t. and then couples indicate what they want and I reply, they say “but your profile says you are straight?” and may even get upset with me because of it. Added to that, I am not black, and my cock is average size – “bull” is a role, not a physical description. That said when you – finally – find the right couple, it is absolutely the most heavenly, deeply erotic meet that one can have. " Great post | |||
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"It’s very difficult to find a term to describe this. The only one I have come up with is “contextually bi”. I absolutely adore the dynamic of threesome sex, where I join a couple and we meet each other’s needs. The energy crackles in the room, and the look of absolute wonder and excitement on a guys face when he loves the sight of you entering his wife for the first time is beautiful, as is the connection between them and the love she has for him when he can allow and enjoy this. I have enjoyed, over the years all sorts of variations o this, from a full “cuck” set up, to threesome and tagging. The “bull” has to be reliable, respectful, very had “perform well” (and repeatedly), and above all, know when to leave so the couple can cuddle and enjoy the afterglow and the deep intimacy that this kind of play brings for them; but it is a very occasional joy for me (sadly) as it is so had (forgive the pun) to set up. Some couples ask for Bi men, and I am not Bi – for me Bisexual means that I am attracted sexually and romantically to men, and I am not. Overall it is about the eroticism of a meeting with a lovely couple, and with permission I do enjoy them both, and I adore having both a wife and her hubby enjoy sucking and feeling my cock. And in that energy and buzz, I can take things further, if the mood and communication and desire are right – with the guy cleaning, or serving, or sucking me while she watches – it often has a deeply arousing effect on a woman watching her hubby pleasure the cock that has just entered her. There are all sorts of deeply pleasurable things that can flow naturally from this set up. When I say this, some will say “you are dishonest, as this is Bisexual”, but it isn’t. and then couples indicate what they want and I reply, they say “but your profile says you are straight?” and may even get upset with me because of it. Added to that, I am not black, and my cock is average size – “bull” is a role, not a physical description. That said when you – finally – find the right couple, it is absolutely the most heavenly, deeply erotic meet that one can have. Great post" we love how honest you are.. we have met bi blk guys before in private.. hubby only like black guy tbh white guys do nothing for him..so for us all the bulls would need to be black .(just our preference) | |||
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