FabSwingers.com forum: Why do men get obsessed with the size of their cock?

By *ere-for-my-convenience OP Woman
over a year ago

West Midlands

I mean really!

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Heard it all soooooo many times

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

It could have something to do with so many profiles asking for VWE

It can make some men insecure so they become cock obsessed

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

"I mean really!

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I would advise you to change the title to Why do SOME men etc etc as I certainly don't and I do not know anyone who does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It could have something to do with so many profiles asking for VWE

It can make some men insecure so they become cock obsessed"

And maybe watching to much porn

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By *ere-for-my-convenience OP Woman
over a year ago

West Midlands

Very true

But not all profiles ask for VWE

And in all honesty a woman's vagina basically is able to accommodate most sizes from the miniscule to the bloody eye watering

So if anything, for me personally, sexual techniques are far more important

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

9/10 cock threads are started by chaps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not really an issue for me, it is what it is and its not going to change now, any ladys wanting big then pass me by

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over a year ago

"It could have something to do with so many profiles asking for VWE

It can make some men insecure so they become cock obsessed

And maybe watching to much porn

That too

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By *ere-for-my-convenience OP Woman
over a year ago

West Midlands

"I mean really!

Face

Bovvered

Yawn

Heard it all soooooo many times

Haha

Discuss please

I would advise you to change the title to Why do SOME men etc etc as I certainly don't and I do not know anyone who does"

Oh ok

Some men

But I know loads of men who bang on about the size of the cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its not really an issue for me, it is what it is and its not going to change now, any ladys wanting big then pass me by"

Same as me, I just have a normal penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly I don't care about my cock I know I'm not the biggest out there but I know how to use it. As long as I get hard make people happy with it im happy too

Those who are self obsessed with it need to fix up and just get on with things they've got a cock that works great start using your brain first then put your tool to work not the other way around..

The mind is the greatest sexual organ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*don't care about cock size lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know why, never paid attention to that kinda conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather have a big one to be honest

But everyone to there own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very true

But not all profiles ask for VWE

And in all honesty a woman's vagina basically is able to accommodate most sizes from the miniscule to the bloody eye watering

So if anything, for me personally, sexual techniques are far more important "

*whispers* I need technique and size. I just like big guys, how they look and how they feel. I think i forgot to ask for it on my profile though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most fabbed male pics on here are the stupidly large scary cocks.

Okay, everything being equal, this strongly suggests that a larger cock is what is desired most.

Thankfully I know for most ladies that's bullshit and they'd usually prefer to have someone that makes them smile, feel sexy and relaxed, with hands, tongue, cock and a bag of toys to make a couple of hours pass and feel desired, content, revitalised, worn-out and happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer big but only cos I love sexual pain if it ain't bouncing off my cervix n Makin me scream. ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer big but only cos I love sexual pain if it ain't bouncing off my cervix n Makin me scream. ......

That's fair enough!

If you love it big, take it big

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By *anDare70Man
over a year ago

kirkby

It's a pretty big thing (sorry) in the gay/bi world too so guess it's something in the male psyche more than something women put on us.

I suppose the closest thing for women is their bust size though a big bust makes more sense as a biological attractant if we're thinking Of fertility etc

Men would love a bra size equivalent for their cocks and I bet a fortune could be made with padded boxers or shorts with a lift.

I like small boobs and the smallest cock I've pleasured is 2" which was really quite fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean really!

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Discuss please

I don't believe they are.. And if they are I think it's because some people can be really rude and harsh to them on here, telling them they have pencil dicks or ugly cock etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men do get really hung up on it, and it frustrates me as it's far from the be all and end all. I lost a good play partner because he decided his cock wasn't big enough for swinging. He wasn't the biggest I'd been with but he never failed to please as he was one of few that would spend time on other things like oral...and not just oral for him! Think there are a few that seem to think sex is just the penetrative bit when it's so much more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer big but only cos I love sexual pain if it ain't bouncing off my cervix n Makin me scream. ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men do get really hung up on it, and it frustrates me as it's far from the be all and end all. I lost a good play partner because he decided his cock wasn't big enough for swinging. He wasn't the biggest I'd been with but he never failed to please as he was one of few that would spend time on other things like oral...and not just oral for him! Think there are a few that seem to think sex is just the penetrative bit when it's so much more"

You are completely right, big cock is a bonus for women, it's about how you use it and how well stimulate her mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't, I have what I have and I have no intention on trying to alter it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're all VWE, there's just a large spectrum of variance...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why a lot of us girls like the black guys

As a rule most of them are pretty well hung

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why a lot of us girls like the black guys

As a rule most of them are pretty well hung "

I think that's just a myth people just believe what they hear, I think it's more to do with fantasies from watching too much porn lol

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

It's the fact that some women stipulate well endowed only. Combined with the fragile male ego, and you've got one topic that men are gunna obsess over.

Think about how insecure some of you lady's get about body image etc. now imagine there were hundreds of profiles on here with men saying a specific type of vagina was all they were interested in. You'd be constantly obsessing over wether yours was good enough or right.

Used to wish I had a bigger one, but then I realised at least it's not smaller! I feel sorry for anyone who cares that much, who knows what they are missing out on!

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

It's a body image thing, we all have parts of our body's we feel are not good enough, it seems for men the big one is cock size.

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over a year ago

"It's the fact that some women stipulate well endowed only. Combined with the fragile male ego, and you've got one topic that men are gunna obsess over.

Used to wish I had a bigger one, but then I realised at least it's not smaller! I feel sorry for anyone who cares that much, who knows what they are missing out on! "

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"This is why a lot of us girls like the black guys

As a rule most of them are pretty well hung

I think that's just a myth people just believe what they hear, I think it's more to do with fantasies from watching too much porn lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the fact that some women stipulate well endowed only. Combined with the fragile male ego, and you've got one topic that men are gunna obsess over.

Used to wish I had a bigger one, but then I realised at least it's not smaller! I feel sorry for anyone who cares that much, who knows what they are missing out on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men grow up with images from porn of massive cocks, jokes about small knobs from each other and in popular culture.

It's not really surprising some are insecure about their size.

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood

not somthing i give much thought to.not had any complaints yet so it cant be that bad lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cock is as it is. The size has never worried me. I may be bigger than some and I may be smaller than some.

I have been asked on numerous occasions how big I am. I have never measured so couldn't say. My stock answer is to let others make up their own mind.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

I think it's something you will never be satisfied with....

Would I like a bigger cock? Yes.

Would I like to be taller? Yes.

Would I like firmer abs? Yes.

Is any of that going to happen... Probs not.

No harm in wishing, we all want more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's something you will never be satisfied with....

Would I like a bigger cock? Yes.

Would I like to be taller? Yes.

Would I like firmer abs? Yes.

Is any of that going to happen... Probs not.

No harm in wishing, we all want more..."

It's the same with women..

Bigger boobs- yes

Less wobbly bits-yes

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

One thing I have found though.... Is....

Hardness is king, it's also something that can be improved by fitness and healthy living.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

"I think it's something you will never be satisfied with....

Would I like a bigger cock? Yes.

Would I like to be taller? Yes.

Would I like firmer abs? Yes.

Is any of that going to happen... Probs not.

No harm in wishing, we all want more...

It's the same with women..

Bigger boobs- yes

Less wobbly bits-yes

Let's face it we're both fucked up bey the media!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get obsessed. I am happy with my pecker

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Maybe because it is the only sexule appendage we have. When you women have boobs and pussies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"9/10 cock threads are started by chaps.

9/10 chaps threads are started by cowboys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im happy with my cock, it works dow it

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over a year ago

"One thing I have found though.... Is....

Hardness is king, it's also something that can be improved by fitness and healthy living."

Most definately agree with that statement

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

Why do women get obsessed with the size of their boobs? puberty and the sudden changes, same can be said for some men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not obsessed

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By *ts smeeeeMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Defo makes me feel insecure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Posted this before but it's relevant. Was chatting to a couple. All seemed well. They asked me my size (6 inches). I told them. End of chat. They had approached me initially as well. I'd say that's one example of why men get hang ups. Me personally whilst pissed off initially, I think sod em.

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