FabSwingers.com forum: Found Out

By *s_4_u OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Has any family member or freind ever found out about your swinging lifestyle ? What was there reaction?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they haven't. If they did, they'd probably think I'd lost my fucking mind and try to have me Sectioned as a danger to myself!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its no big deal ... lol my mum and dad was swingers years ago .... and i would sit on the step see them was car keys in there day ..... my auties are too now in 70s still have toy boys thay say it keep them young ,, and thay look 50s . My family all know and say if we are happy it our life and up to us. been married over 25 years and very happy i get to do all things that make me happy and have fun lifes far to short. jo xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has any family member or freind ever found out about your swinging lifestyle ? What was there reaction?

My friends yes, I told them years ago. They don't give a fuck as we are friends and thats the most important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm honest, if my parents were still alive, I wouldn't want them to know we were swinging. I don't think my mom could have taken the news. They are both gone now, so I don't really care if anyone found out now.

Kate still has her mom, but she is quite broad minded and I don't think she'd be too surprised.

We're not really bothered what friends and neighbours think. Kate used to be an Ann Summers rep, and her car number plate is D17LDO, so we're pretty sure they wouldn't be too surprised.

Anyway, it's not illegal is it?

So fuck 'em all, it's great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only 2 friends know and they are fine about it. one i think actually gets off knowing that i have this secret life

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

My mum soon cottoned on that there was something happy happeneing in my life.

I was honest with her as she asked and I know how bad a lier I am.

She was fine with it and both parents now know and are both fine with it.

To be honest a large amount of my family know. No one thinks me disgusting for it and they all know how much a saviour finding swinging has been for me.

I am proud of what I do and people close to me are aware of it.

Its my life and my choice.

Only bit my parents dont know is that I am bi. That would take some explaining and dont want them making remarks about that in general life. Am sure they would take it ok but havent mentioned it.

Am just a very open and honest person to those that know me well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My brother knows,him and his wife contacted us on another site,i didnt realise it was them untill they sent face pics lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My brother knows,him and his wife contacted us on another site,i didnt realise it was them untill they sent face pics lol"

LOL, weren't you tempted to say nothing to them?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My brother knows,him and his wife contacted us on another site,i didnt realise it was them untill they sent face pics lol

LOL, weren't you tempted to say nothing to them?!"

I had to tell him it was us,they kept emailing us asking to meet...

He was mortified lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My brother knows,him and his wife contacted us on another site,i didnt realise it was them untill they sent face pics lol

LOL, weren't you tempted to say nothing to them?!

I had to tell him it was us,they kept emailing us asking to meet...

He was mortified lol"

{GULP} and did you swear each other to secrecy?!

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

"My brother knows,him and his wife contacted us on another site,i didnt realise it was them untill they sent face pics lol"

Lol that is funny. Rather you than me.... I'm not sure how it would go down if my sister contacted me.

"Keep it in the family" definitely doesn't apply to swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone where i work knows what i do they all think its great and love hearing what i been up to even managed to get 1 of girls to go kestrals she loved it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only reason it is a secret with us is because of the children. Kids can be really nasty and it would make their lives hell to be taunted and teased at school. I think if we didn't have kids then we wouldn't care who knew.

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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

My mum very young at heart, and we more like siblings than mother daughter, she knows where we go, and not nessicarily the details of what we do, she baby sits half the time.

Her partner ( not my dad) had lived in germany and knows alot of what goes on and they find some things quite facinating in a normal non pervy way !!

My real dad doesnt know BUTTTTTTTT after what i accidentally found in his closet once when getting something he stands no grounds to judge if he did know LOL

No need to lie,in our case, as do a close band of mates know we go OUT and not to a conventinal place, i have no shame most are intrigued big time .....

I understand some peoples desires not to say anything, and if any inkling of anyone shooting mouth off we could laugh it off and make them look total muppets.

My teenage daughter doesnt know and will NOT know, neither does my son, nor do we play at home, we go out to a social club regularly thats all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My brother knows,him and his wife contacted us on another site,i didnt realise it was them untill they sent face pics lol

Lol that is funny. Rather you than me.... I'm not sure how it would go down if my sister contacted me.

"Keep it in the family" definitely doesn't apply to swinging."
you not seen some of the other threads then,does apply too some lol

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By *anba2Couple
over a year ago

burbage

Would be mortified if my kids found out. Find myself being unusually quiet if ever the subject is talked about amongst my friends! Have told a couple of friends that I have had a couple of threesomes when d*unk...but not said the word "swinging"! Think some peole would be quite judgmental....

Suki

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My brother knows,him and his wife contacted us on another site,i didnt realise it was them untill they sent face pics lol

LOL, weren't you tempted to say nothing to them?!

I had to tell him it was us,they kept emailing us asking to meet...

He was mortified lol"

Best story ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes meet my freind wife on here blooby hell didnt realise till i meet her

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

I have told friends they are not surprised. I told my mum she said I wouldn't be abel to do that but glad we are enjoying it. then she started saying she wished her and my dad had more sex and things got a bit strange lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my friends know and so does my brother and sister as they babysit when going to a club it doesnt bother me what people think as it is my life and something i enjoy doing

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By *ig bird brightWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

i have always been open about that i swing most of the people in my life no, friends and all off my family, and my mums my safe person i call and let her no where i am and if i,m ok when i meet either socially or for fun... she just wishes that she could still do it but she's married to a prude now so no chance..... she often sits with me any looks at profiles etc and ask if she finds them hot lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol how good to have an open relationship with your mom like that ! You are very lucky fortunate to be able to talk with your mom like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both my adult children know, that's not to say I'm in their face about, just as I don't enquire too much into their sex lives, my youngest doesn't and I never play at home because of him. xxx

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By *ig bird brightWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

"Lol how good to have an open relationship with your mom like that ! You are very lucky fortunate to be able to talk with your mom like that

i no i,m really lucky have always been very open with her and always been able to share anythink

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