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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

can any good fabsters help

anal sex is a little pain full can anyone help with tips or suggestions to help relax or is there a cream etc which helps to relax the muscles a bit

thanks

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

have a few good orgasms before trying it - makes you nice and relaxed

take it slowly and at your pace as yo are the one feeling the pain. Lube can help (although i am not a fan as i find it goes in too quick lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

You can get lube especially for anal that slightly numbs the area

Ann Summers do one or look online and theres loads

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks were off to ann summers fantstic

new someone would know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we include anal alot in our play and its never painfull, infact S can cum from it, BUT we find pleanty of lube Ann Summers (botty lube) no joke that is the name, and you dont just go for it, whilst enjoying some oral sex loosen up the anus with fingers, 1 first then gently 2, then 3 in nice circular inn out motions, the go for it lol S really enjoys it hard once she is ready for it, also toys can help if you look at our profile pic

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

A block of lard and a good robust stick to bite down on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy a smaller strap-on and next time give your hubby some poppers before you assault him with it

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"A block of lard and a good robust stick to bite down on "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Option one: If it hurts, don't do it.

Option two: Find a guy with a small cock.

I'm not a great fan of anal sex, fact is that hole wasn't designed for it. I know which hole I prefer everytime!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Mouths wer'nt meant for cock either but I bet you rarely turn a BJ down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mouths wer'nt meant for cock either but I bet you rarely turn a BJ down "

Give that girl a gold star

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots and lots of foreplay, lube, and maybe try some poppers

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

It may not be a problem with relaxing.... it might just be your farmer giles getting in the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm. Anal. Where dya get poppers from ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh it shouldn't hurt, if they moan I find a gag useful!

Lube, gentle stretching with fingers, navigator etc relax and enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Main thing to remember is to be relaxed, and ease it in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best way is to find the right partner for it. It is all about patience and technique and how much he turned you on.

However you should be able to relax and trust him fully which isn't easy especially after a (few) bad experience(s). He must turn you on fully, a good and long and deep rimming may help a lot!

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By *ara_and_MJCouple
over a year ago

rochdale

I'm only little (Sara speaking) & i find anal can be tender if i haven't prepared properly.

I use a butt plug that i put in whilst getting dressed/made up so that when i am ready for fun i'm well lubed & my anus is relaxed.

Mind you, i like going out with a butt plug in as it gives me a nice sexy wiggle!

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

Half a ppound of butter was good enough for these two back in the '70's

Marlon Brando, Maria Schneider

Last Tango In Paris, by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A block of lard and a good robust stick to bite down on "

Surely it's dripping this close to Christmas ! ooooo a doo bull hen tender!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can any good fabsters help

anal sex is a little pain full can anyone help with tips or suggestions to help relax or is there a cream etc which helps to relax the muscles a bit

thanks"

No - fuck off works well for me

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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

if you can have them and dont mind them you can have a whiff of poppers ( bit like laughing gas) and just take edge of and relax everywhere, plenty of lube .... before i get jumped on thats my choice though can manage without once in im fine :O

Poppers are sold as room odoursers in most sex shops, but if on any medication for BP or using viagra DO NOT use them and remeber to be careful as diliate blood vessels so ensure who ever doing it is gentle.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I’d still recommend taking a course of haemorrhoid suppositories first…. as the most common reason for actual ‘pain’ during anal is internal piles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mouths wer'nt meant for cock either but I bet you rarely turn a BJ down "

Excellent!

We'll remember that one.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d still recommend taking a course of haemorrhoid suppositories first…. as the most common reason for actual ‘pain’ during anal is internal piles."

Also a good idea to use Prep H after anal as well.

Helps to stop your ring ending up looking like a sucked orange!

XXXX

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mouths wer'nt meant for cock either but I bet you rarely turn a BJ down "

PMSL

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