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What do _you_ mean by domination?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some private chat recently got me thinking about all the different things we can mean by 'domination' in a sexual sense. In my experience, 'domination' can be as varied as sex itself. It can mean different things to different people, and different folk (on both side of the relationship) get different things out of it.

So, (out of total curiosity rather an an attempt to get a single definition!) what is the first word or image that springs to mind when you read the word:

Domination

No cheating - you decide first before reading any responses below!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My go first then - to me it makes me think of trusting someone so much that you let go and let them explore your boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a lady dressed to dominate , heels tight skirt and thick glass

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle

Total surrender...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Utter Submissive to a Guy for me. They would have your life in their hands.

A career choice!!!

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By *unguy1966Man
over a year ago

twickenham

Allowing another person to lead, doing whatever they ask, being totally obedient. Hopefully the dom has a good imagination and you get to try things you'd never experience otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watch some public disgrace porn..... that's the type that we like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

selfish

everything I've met a guy who claims to be dominant it seems to mean to him I'm just there to give him pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Power exchange.

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"Power exchange."

How can it be termed as power exchange? I think its losing power to a dominant personality rather than exchange of power

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Power exchange.

How can it be termed as power exchange? I think its losing power to a dominant personality rather than exchange of power"

Unless it's rape it's always a consensual exchange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Domination = letting me do what i want sexually, but also knowing what the guy likes sexually and pandering to that for him too and telling him to do stuff (both what he likes and what i like). Basically me in control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Power exchange.

How can it be termed as power exchange? I think its losing power to a dominant personality rather than exchange of power"

You give your power. You don't lose power. Losing power is rape and abuse. Giving power is trust.

You're exchanging that power for something else that you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boredom, It is obviously not for me

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Power exchange.

How can it be termed as power exchange? I think its losing power to a dominant personality rather than exchange of power

You give your power. You don't lose power. Losing power is rape and abuse. Giving power is trust.

You're exchanging that power for something else that you want."

This - the minute I feel I've lost that is the minute I stop. Then it starts to feel wrong & the trust is gone.

I can't explain it but it's like going from a Lioness to a Kitten & not in a good way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Power exchange.

How can it be termed as power exchange? I think its losing power to a dominant personality rather than exchange of power

You give your power. You don't lose power. Losing power is rape and abuse. Giving power is trust.

You're exchanging that power for something else that you want."

Sums it up perfectly.

To me domination means trust, freedom and fun.

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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

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There is one on the second Sunday of each month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensory exploration

A journey

it's the trust but also the acceptance of pleasure

The thrill of the persons response to your touch

It's all about the mind.

It's not even control with me. Although technically I'm the one in control it's much more about them having the freedom to completely loose control.

For me it's definitely NOT all 50 shades, or pain, humiliaton, whips, chains, dungeons and clamps. (Although to some it might be)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sensory exploration

A journey

it's the trust but also the acceptance of pleasure

The thrill of the persons response to your touch

It's all about the mind.

It's not even control with me. Although technically I'm the one in control it's much more about them having the freedom to completely loose control.

For me it's definitely NOT all 50 shades, or pain, humiliaton, whips, chains, dungeons and clamps. (Although to some it might be)

"

Mind fuck. The best fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Overrated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to trust someone enough to give them totally control over you and leaving you vunrable in every way and the dominant one from controlling your mind to them having total control over you and having no choice to obey how they touch you or make you touch others or making you do things for there pleasure aswell as your own and the dominant one respecting your boundaries and limits all about trusting someone when you become totally vulnerable in any situation now where is the dominant females in Scotland lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who tells others what to do, bossy, always has to be in control/charge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone who tells others what to do, bossy, always has to be in control/charge"

this is what sums it up for me too...

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