FabSwingers.com forum: being attracted to someone you can't have

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has anyone ever done this?? I am very much in this. Why are all the gorgeously delicious guys I see gay??

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see it all the time, there are some beautiful people out there

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i frequently see lovely men on here i know would never be attracted to me..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Story of my real life!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I know this feeling also.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy ask me out not long back, I have to admit I really like him, no I REALLY like him and in another life I will jump at the chance but in this life I just dont see it as appropriate

I do community nursing and I go into his mother who is terminal with cancer, I've been going into her for a long time now and this guy is her son who I have gotten to know really well, we get on so well, always have a laugh, have loads in common he's just a great guy

I just don't think going out with him would be right so with a heavy heart I declined his offer

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a guy ask me out not long back, I have to admit I really like him, no I REALLY like him and in another life I will jump at the chance but in this life I just dont see it as appropriate

I just don't think going out with him would be right so with a heavy heart I declined his offer

rough luck..fair dues, ladi. x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but too scared to ask. Lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a guy ask me out not long back, I have to admit I really like him, no I REALLY like him and in another life I will jump at the chance but in this life I just dont see it as appropriate

I just don't think going out with him would be right so with a heavy heart I declined his offer

If you both like each other I dont see the problem. Obviously now is not the right time, what with his mother being so close to the end of her life. After the inevitable maybe have another think.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see it all the time, there are some beautiful people out there

Agreed

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some beauties in here too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes , very much so gorgeous woman, great friends, but sadly married with children and no hope of more

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly the ones I want think they're too good for me. More fool them

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone ever done this?? I am very much in this. Why are all the gorgeously delicious guys I see gay??

Your pretty delicious yourself ; I bet there are tens of hundred of men having this conversation with themselves over you, .. Not the gay bit but .

"She'd never fancy me, she's far to hot!"

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Life sucks in a beautiful kinda way - axl rose

Why oh why =-O

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw maaan I want someone soooo bad.... maybe I just enjoy the chase though?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aysmitMan
over a year ago

walsall

Awww I adore someone on here but scared to tell them xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a cruel world fab at times.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Yes

Life sucks in a beautiful kinda way - axl rose

Why oh why =-O "

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a guy ask me out not long back, I have to admit I really like him, no I REALLY like him and in another life I will jump at the chance but in this life I just dont see it as appropriate

I just don't think going out with him would be right so with a heavy heart I declined his offer

If you both like each other I dont see the problem. Obviously now is not the right time, what with his mother being so close to the end of her life. After the inevitable maybe have another think."

Still fraught with problems.

Perhaps if they bump into each other after a period of time (past grieving).

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see it all the time, there are some beautiful people out there

Agreed

Would love to push your boundaries xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hate it when women say there feel intimidated as im a personal trainer and they have self esteem issues.

i love curvy busty women, and those are the ones who shy away the most.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *layer oneMan
over a year ago

mirfield

Nearly every women on here really x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its like forbidden fruit.

What if

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's right, almost all women on fab lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i hate it when women say there feel intimidated as im a personal trainer and they have self esteem issues.

i love curvy busty women, and those are the ones who shy away the most.

This is me!! If a guy is a personal trainer I stay clear ..I think instead of having fun he'll be thinking jeez this girl needs to get to the gym lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aysmitMan
over a year ago

walsall

See now I do love curvy women xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

We crave when we can't have them..

..but we get bored once we got them...

..and start craving and hunting new ones...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

I fancy a good friend of ours who is also married. We were on holiday together recently and I saw her in her bikini for the first time. I nearly blew my load there and then. But nothing would ever happen as it is too risky.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i hate it when women say there feel intimidated as im a personal trainer and they have self esteem issues.

i love curvy busty women, and those are the ones who shy away the most.

You can work me anytime

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very very very attracted to the woman who lives opetsit me as I found her very hot how ever her husband lives their with her and hes a boxer so I wuddnt dare ask her. x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happens to me literally every day

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fancy the princess of Cambridge , what do you think my chances are of getting a date ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i hate it when women say there feel intimidated as im a personal trainer and they have self esteem issues.

i love curvy busty women, and those are the ones who shy away the most.

Yes but sometimes people who have perfect bodies or faces often seem out of our reach

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Has anyone ever done this?? I am very much in this. Why are all the gorgeously delicious guys I see gay??

If that Willabooby calls me one more time I'm getting a restraining order.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I have been/am

I just enjoy the laughs and the friendship instead

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone ever done this?? I am very much in this. Why are all the gorgeously delicious guys I see gay??

Story of my life, on here, mainly due to distance, there's someone I'd love to meet but it's impractical

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This pretty much happens to me on a daily basis...try taking the tube through London between 8-9am

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Yep we have all been there. Unrequanted love.

You sure they are hay because only 2% of the UK male population is gay. That's about 4million people.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Story of my life too - I want someone so much but he's married - so I've been a good girl and stayed away from him - I think doing anything with him will make it worse for me

On a different note I always stay away from the personal trainer types on here - I feel like they are way out of my league!

I would think they were judging my

wobbly bits

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a personal trainer and please dont stay too far away from me.

your gorgeous

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Has anyone ever done this?? I am very much in this. Why are all the gorgeously delicious guys I see gay??

Story of my life, on here, mainly due to distance, there's someone I'd love to meet but it's impractical

Is it me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of times

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few that I know I'll never meet, and that makes me sad

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.....but I'm married to the only one that really matters so that more than makes up for it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Distance is an issue too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

If all the gorgeous hunky blokes are gay it gives us middle aged slightly overweight grumpy blokes a fighting chance

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really fancy one of my good friends. She is hot as hell and we alway flirt with each other when ever we meet up. I think she would date me but we never end up being single at the same time in our life's. so I guess we are just meant to be good friends.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

makes for some great fantasies though -

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, it happens. Usually get quite close to someone, but can never jump the final hurdle. That's life I guess.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

I have a friend up in scotland going through divorce at mo. She doenst mind be friends with benefits but doesnt want to commit to another relationship again so soon xxx I do love her but prob to far for a relationship to work so will have to be happy just being friends xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Yes. We chat every day..and meet up... But for various reasons i cant have him to myself.

Think it may be time to cut all contact

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i hate it when women say there feel intimidated as im a personal trainer and they have self esteem issues.

i love curvy busty women, and those are the ones who shy away the most.

This is me!! If a guy is a personal trainer I stay clear ..I think instead of having fun he'll be thinking jeez this girl needs to get to the gym lol "

Lol! Me too x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Not these days but yes, it did happen in quite a few occasions some while ago.

Him

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread