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Bisexual Men/Women - Would you have a relationship with a member of your own sex?

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By *lutmeup500 OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

I would class myself as bisexual as I equally love sex with men and women

But would you date a member of your own sex?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Yes, and I have done in the past too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally prefer women or transmen as my preference for sex and relationships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I have no interest in women one on one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't no tbh I like looking at other women but never eexperienced one n vagina pics make me cringe

Ive tryed flirting but im more relaxed with men so I just dunno where I stand on this subject x

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I would not rule it out, but at the moment no I wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried once but never since have i felt inclined to make it more than just sex,x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

No, I just like a bit of cock fun occasionally and generally go to the sauna to fulfill that need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you're be hard pressed to find a genuine straight guy on here tbh.

Just saying.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

For me it would have to be a woman or ts woman (post op preferred) for a relationship/life partner

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By *isdirtygirlCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

I don't find men attractive but do enjoy playing with a cock when in a threesum with Molly.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No, I couldn't have a long term relationship with a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would class myself as bisexual as I equally love sex with men and women

But would you date a member of your own sex?"

No I wouldn't. I like to play with women but could never date one..

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

Have dated both, though never long term with a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be much more likely to have a relationship with a woman than a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well yes, of course. And I have done in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never say never.

It's more about the who than the what for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know this will sound bad but I don't think I could have a relationship with a women as they are too emotional and complex

I know I know.. Hang head in shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very good question.

I do not feel emotionally attached to the same sex - but if I found a guy who I was comfortable with who is also bi, then I'd love to see what happened.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

I think its great how we are all bisexual but so many varied preferences when it comes to relationships its amazing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did up until 6 yrs ago, had a full on 8 yr relationship (pretty much sexless!!) but I wouldn't anymore..just lost all interest believe it or not and found I preferred relationships and sex with girls..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh yes! I adore the female form probably more than the male one but couldn't leave my man for a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and I have. Had both boyfriends and girlfriends. Greedy bugger lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No don't think I could as not a keen fan of masculine traits

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

We have found out most guy,s are bi if just orally in a 3some i have a girl friend i see a couple of time,s a year we have a night in a hotel we both get the urge for a bit of girl on girl fun. But normally it,s bi fun with another couple

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

No I wouldn't want to date/ have a proper long term relationship with another woman.

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By *anDare70Man
over a year ago

kirkby

I can have a very good sexual relationship with another guy but doesn't work past that even though I might care a lot about them.

So no I wouldn't have a full relationship with any guy I've met yet.

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By *damandeve4funCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Remember that you don't have to be equally attracted to both sexes to be bi. If you even fantasise about your own gender, you are not straight. If you even fantasise about the opposite gender, you are not gay. Being bi is just an attraction, whether sexual or emotional, to both sexes.

In saying that, while neither of us would rule out a same-sex relationship because sexuality changes over time, we are both far more attracted to the opposite sex while thoroughly enjoying experimenting with both from time to time.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Another women, hell yes.

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

The Bi thing with MrH is just sexual so definatly not interested in any type of relationship.

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By *ustBigBoyMan
over a year ago

Farnborough

I find sex to be quite simply just sex with either gender. For a relationship I usually go for the person behind the looks, and to me it doesn't matter whether they are male female or somewhere in between

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I was seeing a guy for some time and I think that I would have been happy to date him but he told me that he didn't want to see me again and that was the end of that.Played with other guys but never wanted to date them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah, i don't realy fancy guys. I just enjoy playing with cock

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

I don't think I could, I'd miss cock too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe. If the guy was astronomically hot and had the personality quirks to match, and he was into the same things as me... Maybe a relationship. Monogomy on the other hand *shakes head*

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By *azLilyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We wouldn't rule it out but we have made our commitment to each other. So it would be a lesser relationship.

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have briefly. But as much as I love the sexual dynamic & intimate friendship with a woman, I find a relationship with a man more satisfying in the long term.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

My longest relationship was with a woman. Unfortunately it was very destructive and has kind of put me off having a same sex relationship again.

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich

My dream is a live in girlfriend on the same wavelength as me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes I would

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By *callycatMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales


"I would class myself as bisexual as I equally love sex with men and women

But would you date a member of your own sex?"

Yes...and I do. I love women too but I can't imagine life without him now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At first I didn't think I would. Two years in and I think I would have liked to but I would probably have gone full time as Rachael if so.

I'm married to a woman and I intend to stay that way though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remember that you don't have to be equally attracted to both sexes to be bi. If you even fantasise about your own gender, you are not straight. If you even fantasise about the opposite gender, you are not gay. Being bi is just an attraction, whether sexual or emotional, to both sexes."

Totally disagree with this. I don't believe fantasising about something makes you bisexual at all. I've had sex with a woman in a MFF, enjoyed it, but I'm straight, because I have no interest in meeting a woman one on one.

Also, I've fantasised about all kind of things that I probably wouldn't do in real life. I once fantasised about robbing a bank, it doesn't make me a bank robber.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I wouldn't. My interest in males is purely for the sexual kink and pleasure that my mood occasionally calls for. I'm still heterosexual when it comes to relationships, but that doesn't mean I won't meet and play with bisexual couples or bi males individually if the chemistry's right.

I've done some crazy things in my time anyways haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remember that you don't have to be equally attracted to both sexes to be bi. If you even fantasise about your own gender, you are not straight. If you even fantasise about the opposite gender, you are not gay. Being bi is just an attraction, whether sexual or emotional, to both sexes.

Totally disagree with this. I don't believe fantasising about something makes you bisexual at all. I've had sex with a woman in a MFF, enjoyed it, but I'm straight, because I have no interest in meeting a woman one on one.

Also, I've fantasised about all kind of things that I probably wouldn't do in real life. I once fantasised about robbing a bank, it doesn't make me a bank robber. "

Women that have sex with women are straight.

Men that have sex with men are straight.

They are only bi if they go on a date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not sure if i would have a relationship but would certainly have regular sex!

Although me and relationships aren't a success story!

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By *damandeve4funCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Remember that you don't have to be equally attracted to both sexes to be bi. If you even fantasise about your own gender, you are not straight. If you even fantasise about the opposite gender, you are not gay. Being bi is just an attraction, whether sexual or emotional, to both sexes.

Totally disagree with this. I don't believe fantasising about something makes you bisexual at all. I've had sex with a woman in a MFF, enjoyed it, but I'm straight, because I have no interest in meeting a woman one on one.

Also, I've fantasised about all kind of things that I probably wouldn't do in real life. I once fantasised about robbing a bank, it doesn't make me a bank robber. "

You are disagreeing with the dictionary and scientific definition. Your sexuality is defined by attraction, not actions. Indeed, a woman who has been with a woman and enjoyed it is obviously not straight. Being bi has nothing to do with whether or not you would want to be with people one to one.

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

I would happily x

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By *ature married manMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

Yes I'd love to .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remember that you don't have to be equally attracted to both sexes to be bi. If you even fantasise about your own gender, you are not straight. If you even fantasise about the opposite gender, you are not gay. Being bi is just an attraction, whether sexual or emotional, to both sexes.

Totally disagree with this. I don't believe fantasising about something makes you bisexual at all. I've had sex with a woman in a MFF, enjoyed it, but I'm straight, because I have no interest in meeting a woman one on one.

Also, I've fantasised about all kind of things that I probably wouldn't do in real life. I once fantasised about robbing a bank, it doesn't make me a bank robber.

You are disagreeing with the dictionary and scientific definition. Your sexuality is defined by attraction, not actions. Indeed, a woman who has been with a woman and enjoyed it is obviously not straight. Being bi has nothing to do with whether or not you would want to be with people one to one."

I will continue to believe sexuality is more fluid and less rigid than yours or the "dictionary and scientific definition". I am not sexually attracted to women, ergo I am straight. If I have been with a woman and enjoyed it, in a particular situation, at a point in time, it doesn't change that fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would class myself as bisexual as I equally love sex with men and women

But would you date a member of your own sex?"
yes and have done too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No...it'd get about as far as a bromance for me but dating & holding hands while looking into another blokes eyes? Naaaaah mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never say never but not right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and I have had several girlfriends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had only same-sex relationships for the past 20 years - only another woman can share the love that I want...

Men are fun for sex but I could never live with one again!

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"I would class myself as bisexual as I equally love sex with men and women

But would you date a member of your own sex?"

Yes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all.

I am very very straight although i did try sex with another woman but i hated it and it made me cringe when i remembered it at first.

I like men and infact i don't even have female friends as i far prefer men for social stuff and only men for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love a secret sexy relationship with a woman but I love cock too much to turn my back on it. Although I have been known to enjoy it from behind lol xx

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


"Remember that you don't have to be equally attracted to both sexes to be bi. If you even fantasise about your own gender, you are not straight. If you even fantasise about the opposite gender, you are not gay. Being bi is just an attraction, whether sexual or emotional, to both sexes.

Totally disagree with this. I don't believe fantasising about something makes you bisexual at all. I've had sex with a woman in a MFF, enjoyed it, but I'm straight, because I have no interest in meeting a woman one on one.

Also, I've fantasised about all kind of things that I probably wouldn't do in real life. I once fantasised about robbing a bank, it doesn't make me a bank robber.

You are disagreeing with the dictionary and scientific definition. Your sexuality is defined by attraction, not actions. Indeed, a woman who has been with a woman and enjoyed it is obviously not straight. Being bi has nothing to do with whether or not you would want to be with people one to one.

I will continue to believe sexuality is more fluid and less rigid than yours or the "dictionary and scientific definition". I am not sexually attracted to women, ergo I am straight. If I have been with a woman and enjoyed it, in a particular situation, at a point in time, it doesn't change that fact. "

I agree. Sexuality is a spectrum that runs from 100% one way to equal 50:50 interest in men and women, and everything in between. Just insisting on slapping the label "BI!" on anyone who isn't at 100% is very reductive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bisexual and have had relationships with both men and women. But as I class myself as "emotionally separate" from other people. I have not been in a relationship for a while and do not see myself ever being in one again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we are both bi and both had relationships with our own sex.

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By *eamanguyMan
over a year ago

Altinkum-Turkey

yes i am bi and love the bisex couples and bi womans to....

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Yes and I have done.

The ones with women have been more successful, if I'm honest

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

Yes if we both clicked n wanted a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the person you connect with not their sex...of course I would and have in past

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

At the moment I don't feel like I want a one to one relationship with a woman.

Although I would be open to a poly relationship, depending on the person.

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

Until a few years ago would not have crossed my mind,but I now have a trans partner and am very happy

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By *ablo42Man
over a year ago

middlewich

I totally love sex with men and women and can totally fancy both but I could only ever date a woman.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

I would only consider a relationship with another woman; same wavelength an' all

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By *eamanguyMan
over a year ago

Altinkum-Turkey

yes still looking but they ust be hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

I have a girl friend we meet every other month just for a bit of girl on girl fun when we both get the urge been bi since school days Been lucky in life my husband has a bi side like me like,s a bit of m on m fun but not all the time.

He,s been with us for a 3some but my girl friend,s husband as no idea about her bi side

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

I can't see why not . Its the person, not the gender that I am attracted to. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would class myself as bisexual as I equally love sex with men and women

But would you date a member of your own sex?"

6 months ago we would both have said absolutely not, but now it is something both of us would consider if we were single.

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By *arbarella PartiesWoman
over a year ago

oxford


"I would class myself as bisexual as I equally love sex with men and women

But would you date a member of your own sex?"

I had a "Girlfriend" for two years not long after I got married. My husband was aware and gave his full consent as he has no problem with my lets say appetite for female company.

It was a lovely experience but not one I would repeat simply because it did have its moments... Women are far more complex and emotional than men and at times I found that exhausting.

An experience I'm so very glad I had though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would class myself as bisexual as I equally love sex with men and women

But would you date a member of your own sex?"
Yes, have had long standing relationships with other women.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (fem) was in a relationship with my girlfriend for over 15 years until she got married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Men are pricks.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

A transvestite, no. A male-to-female transsexual who doesn't intend having the full reassignment op, possibly.

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By *lassyandadventurousMan
over a year ago

England and Wales

No im straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you're be hard pressed to find a genuine straight guy on here tbh.

Just saying. "

I find them... And Mr is not even remotely curious

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