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Bad memories or just persistence ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have been messaged by a guy today asking if we would like to meet. He had no pics on his profile so we asked him to send us one. He did so and we realised we had said no thanks to him before. This has happened three times now. Do many single guys change their profile in hope they will not be recognised ? Ain't it a bit strange ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been messaged by a guy today asking if we would like to meet. He had no pics on his profile so we asked him to send us one. He did so and we realised we had said no thanks to him before. This has happened three times now. Do many single guys change their profile in hope they will not be recognised ? Ain't it a bit strange ?"

It isnt only single guys that change profiles, but couples and females.

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By *hristopher WalksMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Its everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you sure it was a new profile?

Would you have remembered his profile from before?

If you are a site supporter, it tells you if there has been contact previously but if not a supporter its all too easy to mail someone again without realising.

If it was a new profile, there could be any number of reasons it was made up...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We know it's not only single guys who change profiles. Just think people should remember who they have sent messages to in the past. It just seemed to us that the guy thinks he would try again hoping we would not recognise him. We are not stupid !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you sure it was a new profile?

Would you have remembered his profile from before?

If you are a site supporter, it tells you if there has been contact previously but if not a supporter its all too easy to mail someone again without realising.

It was definitely a new profile. It is only seven days old. Just recognised the picture he sent us.

If it was a new profile, there could be any number of reasons it was made up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After this happens to us several times we just block them now. Don't really like to do it but it just saves time and having to reject them again which isn't nice either but the end of the day has to be your choice.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I think my record for sending a no thanks to the same couple is 9 times... and another couple coming a close second with 7 times and then on the 8th time they asked "why" . I explained I had read their profile, looked and their photos and neither appealed to me... oh the essay I got back from that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been messaged by a guy today asking if we would like to meet. He had no pics on his profile so we asked him to send us one. He did so and we realised we had said no thanks to him before. This has happened three times now. Do many single guys change their profile in hope they will not be recognised ? Ain't it a bit strange ?

It isnt only single guys that change profiles, but couples and females."

true, ive had repeat messages from couple, and single guys, i think a lot of them just send out that much mail they forget who they have messaged

thing is they cant win because if they mail you and you say no and they block to in order not to mail you again people just post threads moaning they have been blocked when all they did was say no thanks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After this happens to us several times we just block them now. Don't really like to do it but it just saves time and having to reject them again which isn't nice either but the end of the day has to be your choice. "

That is what we do, we send a polite thanks but no thanks.. then block.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

yep as people say its across the board and for various reasons that folks change their profile .

must admit i have had the same guy ,using the SAME pics on his profile messaging me numerous times .happens every month or two and each time he joins as a site supporter lol!! i just tell him no again and block him and report to admin as find it highly suspect why anyone needs to set up new profile that often. think its just to get around being blocked . but hey ho just part and parcel of the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats happened to us,we met a guy and he was too pushy so said to him that the meet was over,he made a new profile contacted us on it,we didnt realise it was him till he gave us him email,when i told him i knew who he was and we wouldnt be meeting he got nasty,threatened allsorts and even told us where Paul worked... Not a nice person.

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