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Winks then no reply?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How can someone wink you but then don't reply to your first message? Just very confusing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this alot very annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Maybe it was an accidental wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can it be accidental? You're asked if you are sure you want to wink?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"How can it be accidental? You're asked if you are sure you want to wink?"

Not on the desktop site it isn't,I've just sent you an proper accidental friends invite that you can delete and a wink to see if it asked if I wanted to send

It just sent it without asking

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I've been winked at but then my message has been ignored.I just assume that they didn't like what I had to say or had lost all interest in me.People can be fickle and there's no real harm done is there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As is said a lot of couple & single fem's get loads of mail each day!!!

And maybe the reply gets overlooked!!

How about if we get a WINK there's an option to send a WINK MESSAGE so they know it's from someone they winked & it sits at the top of the list till read or deleted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a couple - it may have been the man that winked - and when you message, the woman may be reading it - looks at the profile - and no attraction there (or vice versa of course)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happens to us sometimes too. I just assume its that whoever winked us either changed their mind or had too much interest from others to move forward with us....but yeah, it is a bit confusing.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This happens to us sometimes too. I just assume its that whoever winked us either changed their mind or had too much interest from others to move forward with us....but yeah, it is a bit confusing.

-Courtney"

Could be they just see the pics 1st & wink on auto!!

Then see they might not fit what you want!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This happens to us sometimes too. I just assume its that whoever winked us either changed their mind or had too much interest from others to move forward with us....but yeah, it is a bit confusing.

-Courtney

Could be they just see the pics 1st & wink on auto!!

Then see they might not fit what you want!!"

Very True!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can it be accidental? You're asked if you are sure you want to wink?

Not on the desktop site it isn't,I've just sent you an proper accidental friends invite that you can delete and a wink to see if it asked if I wanted to send

It just sent it without asking "

Oh my appologies...but how harsh to block us, hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I've been winked, then nothing!. Really gets ya hopes up, so disappointing.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"How can it be accidental? You're asked if you are sure you want to wink?

Not on the desktop site it isn't,I've just sent you an proper accidental friends invite that you can delete and a wink to see if it asked if I wanted to send

It just sent it without asking

Oh my appologies...but how harsh to block us, hahaha"

That's because I sent an accidental friends invite no other reason x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can it be accidental? You're asked if you are sure you want to wink?

Not on the desktop site it isn't,I've just sent you an proper accidental friends invite that you can delete and a wink to see if it asked if I wanted to send

It just sent it without asking

Oh my appologies...but how harsh to block us, hahaha

That's because I sent an accidental friends invite no other reason x"

Hahahaah...like i said harsh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had similar. Received a wink two days ago so sent message saying 'thanks and happy to say hi' etc. As you do. Our msg was read but no reply. We thought no problem, they're clearly not that interested. Then got a friend request today from the same profile but still no reply to our earlier msg. We messaged again saying we were confused by the friend request. Then they blocked us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can someone wink you but then don't reply to your first message? Just very confusing... "
Because your message didn't appeal to them. Sometimes i may wink at a guy who looks good, then he doesn't read my profile and sends me a rotten message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I winked you but don't expect getting a reply !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get loads of winks from blokes with no public profile and half a line of badly spelled gibberish. We often wink back, hoping this will lead to a well worded message and some good pics. Alas this is very rare, hence often not replying.

Sometimes you juts have to get past a sense of entitlement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's happened to me aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been winked at then blocked before I can even send a message! What's that all about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You gents would be better served improving profiles etc than whining in the forums..just saying like

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