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what do you expect from swinging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok fully expect a few replies of.

" oh I don't expect anything, I am only here for friendship blah blah blah "

What I mean is this.

All the bullshit and nonsense that accompanies regular dating is by passed.

We not here to meet lifelong friends or find partners. Just get down to business once all the preliminaries are out of the way.

Do you have other expectations, excluding personal preferences.?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We hope to experience things that we can't make happen on our own and do that with some people that we can be quite friendly with.

I say hope because we long since gave up expecting.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

sex.......

and maybe the occasional laugh in the forums and I can't be arsed with the whole friends thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had lots of expectations when I first started I soon learned my ideal of swinging wasn't at all what it was like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe expect was the wrong word.

What would you like from swinging?

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Expected just sex meets....found luv/friendship/ shared fantasys.

Better than i thought, gave me to chance to find myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck buddy which is hard work from this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a word excitment.

Quality over quantity though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Maybe expect was the wrong word.

What would you like from swinging? "

Cake!

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

I don't swing,

I just use the website as a tool to catch the odd flash of lightning...

And then use the clubs or whatever to enhance my time with that energy source.

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

We struggle a bit with this one, we need to have a connection with the people we play with. Having said that, we would love to have a few meets where we can meet up with the right people and just play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I been here yearssssssss and I expected to find sex and a fuck buddie and some fun with couples lol. Its good to have it as a dream

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Ok fully expect a few replies of.

" oh I don't expect anything, I am only here for friendship blah blah blah "

What I mean is this.

All the bullshit and nonsense that accompanies regular dating is by passed.

We not here to meet lifelong friends or find partners. Just get down to business once all the preliminaries are out of the way.

Do you have other expectations, excluding personal preferences.? "

Fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expect to not be asked to be exclusive or be judged by the amount of men I see,or the types of men I see. I expect civility and open-mindedness. Seems my expectations are rather high for this site.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I expected my itch to be scratched. I expected some company that I could indulge myself with, utterly, than go, and forget that person .... then I met my now partner, on a meet, after chatting here for a few weeks. Now I have a best friend and a companion as well as an awesome, sexy and wonderfully caring man. Hope he does not read this ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expect to be treated with respect and not be lied to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I joined I had no expectations of getting anything at all. I got that wrong but now my earlier expectations have been fulfilled.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"I expect to be treated with respect and not be lied to. "

High expectations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To do unto others and have them do unto me.....fully met many, many times over....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have no expectations. We meet people. Try to sum them up. If we both like them, we shag them. Everyone is just like a sex toy to us. A lovely sexy friendly sex toy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Herpes

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By *rs and Mr PandoraCouple
over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH


"Expected just sex meets....found luv/friendship/ shared fantasys.

Better than i thought, gave me to chance to find myself "

Well done you xxxx

Pandora xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What we expect and get is great sexual encounters with lovely people .

What we didn't expect was so much judgement from supposedly open minded folk , who clearly don't get the concept of NSA sex . To us , there is no need for friendship , socials and the quality over quantity brigade proper get on our nerves . Like they are better than anyone else ! Pfffftttt !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What we expect and get is great sexual encounters with lovely people .

What we didn't expect was so much judgement from supposedly open minded folk , who clearly don't get the concept of NSA sex . To us , there is no need for friendship , socials and the quality over quantity brigade proper get on our nerves . Like they are better than anyone else ! Pfffftttt !"

Happy fucking

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Enjoyable sex and plenty of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting new people !

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We just expect to have some fun and enjoy ourselves (and others)

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

Amazing sexual encounters that we cant do just as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We hope to experience things that we can't make happen on our own and do that with some people that we can be quite friendly with.

I say hope because we long since gave up expecting."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New friends

New experiences

Fun

Laughs

And sexy time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had no idea what to expect! What I GOT was the best sex I've ever had, some friends who'll be friends for life, and more fun than I ever had when young! Love swinging and fab - it's perfect for me!!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

My expectation is good, exciting no strings sex with several attractive men and/or women that I can leave behind when we go home after a fun night at a club. Only very rarely are we disappointed after a night out at a club - and I think the men I play with are rarely disappointed too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sex ,sex,and more sex

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