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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just why is it that men come on these sites and create a profile pretending to be women. They load a pic most prob of an ex g/f and then go after the bi women on here saying they are also bi. I have had this so many times. Usually catch them out on first chat on msn. Women when they chat like to general chit chat first about everyday stuff, whereas the guys pretending to be women go straight into the sex talk. When I start to suspect I ask them to cam....then u get usual excuses of, cam isnt working blah blah blah. So then you say, well let me ring you for just a quick hello to verify you are actually female, this is followed by more excuses. So they are then hastily blocked and deleted. I think this is just another way of getting there kicks but I do find it deceitful that they play these games. Has anyone else had this sort of experience

Jan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are worse then fake couples, when only the man plays, with the excuses; she tried it once but didn't like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just why is it that men come on these sites and create a profile pretending to be women. They load a pic most prob of an ex g/f and then go after the bi women on here saying they are also bi. I have had this so many times. Usually catch them out on first chat on msn. Women when they chat like to general chit chat first about everyday stuff, whereas the guys pretending to be women go straight into the sex talk. When I start to suspect I ask them to cam....then u get usual excuses of, cam isnt working blah blah blah. So then you say, well let me ring you for just a quick hello to verify you are actually female, this is followed by more excuses. So they are then hastily blocked and deleted. I think this is just another way of getting there kicks but I do find it deceitful that they play these games. Has anyone else had this sort of experience

Jan"

Thanks for the tip on how women like to chat generally first, I'm off to create a single bi fem profile now. ;D

W

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just why is it that men come on these sites and create a profile pretending to be women. They load a pic most prob of an ex g/f and then go after the bi women on here saying they are also bi. I have had this so many times. Usually catch them out on first chat on msn. Women when they chat like to general chit chat first about everyday stuff, whereas the guys pretending to be women go straight into the sex talk. When I start to suspect I ask them to cam....then u get usual excuses of, cam isnt working blah blah blah. So then you say, well let me ring you for just a quick hello to verify you are actually female, this is followed by more excuses. So they are then hastily blocked and deleted. I think this is just another way of getting there kicks but I do find it deceitful that they play these games. Has anyone else had this sort of experience

Jan

Thanks for the tip on how women like to chat generally first, I'm off to create a single bi fem profile now. ;D

W "

haha love it. dont forget to ask em about their kids and the family dog...lmao

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They are worse then fake couples, when only the man plays, with the excuses; she tried it once but didn't like it.

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yeah i have cum across that a couple of times. its all sad really because it just makes you cautious about gen people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy pretending to be a couple who wanted to cam alone cause apparently partner had gone out so after telling him i would wait till all three of us could cam surprise surprise he logged off never to be heard of again!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of those annoying things that will always happen.

Easiest way to spot them is if they haven't been verified and joined a long time ago, or at the first signs of excuses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always ask for cam...that gets rid of em

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By *orkduoCouple
over a year ago

york

does our heads in too ,have had loads n your right you can tell after first chat on msn.i even had 1 on another site copy n paste all my pics on this site ,saying he was a model n all that crap!!reported him n he got kicked off the site.x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah its all very silly really coz if they wana see me naked and doing stuff all they have to do is go on fab chat room and am constantly got my tits out. so why all the pretense. unless they just get off on pretending to be female seducing a female. well hey, i dont mind roleplay at times. so all this just confuses me. I suppose being a blonde thats quite an easy thing to do...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes - met this problem a lot - but more so on other sites which is why I have now left them...

The first time, I really got caught - and to be honest it hurt -

So now I'm just plain brutal about it and don't reveal too much of myself until I've talked on the phone to them!

But I hate having to do that - makes me feel like a hard bitch when I don't want to, and I'm sure that I may have passed up on at least one genuine woman, just cause she was to shy to be able to respond, even after a lot of patient coaxing.

It's the one thing that makes me want to give all this up, and is the reason that sometimes I don't look in for ages.

I just don't understand it - why do some sad guys do it? It just ends up painting all guys in the same way - which to be honest is why I've given up on them in general - it only takes a few "bad apples" to make you look elsewhere...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had it so many times! Even had a guy who had some sort of video of a woman who he pretended was himself, only found out when he put his cam on in msn and it was us from few nights before showing!! Agree with the comment about check for verifications and if they been member for ages and got none its a big no no for us now. Just don't see the point in it as they can never meet cs they aren't actually female so why do it??! Rant over!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well the guy pretending to be a woman was from our home town Liverpool Dont think i can put profile name. Anyhow they were on msn last night. I had deleted them on Patricks msn and forgot they were on mine. So straight away it was....put yer cam on, show me your female. I replied that i had no need to prove anything as i had verifications and that it was them that needed to prove. I said I know your a man. Told them if they admitted it then I would put the cam on regardless. So sure enuf he admitted he was a guy. So keeping to my word I switched my cam on and showed him my dog....lol. Then duly blocked and deleted haha!!!

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By *pecializedMan
over a year ago

newcastle/northumberland

i dont get it or am i being thick but why would a man pretend to be a woman..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well it took me a while to figure this one out. Specially when I stipulate am bi, so still like both sexes. Well the ones I have encountered like to hear everything in details as they pretend to be feme, suppose this is how they get their rocks off....who knows what goes on in a guys mind, it is always governed by something else pmsl

and i wouldnt say you men are thick, just not much brain matter haha!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever we get the, "I'm the male half of a couple .....bla bla bla" line, we always reply, "Oh that's fine, just message us when the female half is present as well"

That's usually the last you hear of them lol

Such as life !

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By *pecializedMan
over a year ago

newcastle/northumberland

hey hey easy tiger,

men's minds are mine fields, but i don't understand spending time getting to know someone knowing full well when they find out who you really are they will run for the hills

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why hun is there a nice secluded spot up in those hills that makes them run to....surely they dont run away from you but to you....ahhhh

just thought i would be nice to yer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would be surprised theres some wierdos out there..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i spoke to a guy the other day who has a fake cpls profile....i asked why, he said u get more interested !! but i still dont understand why guys do that , cuz dont they gat caught out when it actually comes to meeting ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i spoke to a guy the other day who has a fake cpls profile....i asked why, he said u get more interested !! but i still dont understand why guys do that , cuz dont they gat caught out when it actually comes to meeting ?? "

I guess it comes down to getting access to peoples private pics, maybe even more beyond on msn, add to that the thrill of naughty talk via messages and msn, I imagine it gives great fiddle material, I suppose some consider it better to get such fodder than try to get a meet as a single guy.

W

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i spoke to a guy the other day who has a fake cpls profile....i asked why, he said u get more interested !! but i still dont understand why guys do that , cuz dont they gat caught out when it actually comes to meeting ??

I guess it comes down to getting access to peoples private pics, maybe even more beyond on msn, add to that the thrill of naughty talk via messages and msn, I imagine it gives great fiddle material, I suppose some consider it better to get such fodder than try to get a meet as a single guy.

W "

because they are mingers???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep we have had that, freaked us out a bit but we cottoned on and had a bit of fun with him (brought him down a peg or two)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wish i was a guy 4 a day..so i could have a cock an wank lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"wish i was a guy 4 a day..so i could have a cock an wank lol xx"

Me too Stunna lol

Id have to have a fuck while I had a cock as well though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

now on the subject of having a cock. If I had one I wish it was the size of some guy from this site. I have seen him on Fab chat and it is sooooooo big. He can even suck it himself. Well I fell in love big style. The only guy who could give me anal and oral at the same time....bring it on

and oh yeah you wana see him play air guitar on it......twang that thing

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By *uriousplumpgirlWoman
over a year ago

Inverclyde/paisley

something similar happened to me, but it wasn't on any swingers site, it was just on yahoo, and i just stated on my profile I was looking for female friends, wasn't anything dodgy, it was because I was new to the area.

Anyway, after speaking to this " female ", I was talking to another person, there was male, and after a few weeks of talking, to the two different people, the male slipped up, and started talking about personal things that I only said to this trusted "female persona ", to say that I was astonished and shocked was just an understatement, he started stalking me, threatening me with a lot of violence, and because he then knew my address, it got really bad that I had to phone the police on him, that soon put a stop to it all.

But I am very suspicious of a lot of "females" who have dodgy photographs, like fancy model type pictures, which men tend to use from the internet.

so let that story be a lesson to everyone, please do get, visual and verbal verification, if possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i once had a guy many moons ago pretending to be a female and he even had the cheeky to put the cam on and there he was sat in a bra, no head of course just the top half of body in a bra, sorry but you've have to be pretty damn thick if you cant tell the difference between a woman and a man in a bra lol

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

I pretend to be male all the time, yet no one believes me. Can't please them all.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"I pretend to be male all the time, yet no one believes me. Can't please them all."

Well with that body.................

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I pretend to be male all the time, yet no one believes me. Can't please them all."
Lol you poor man, I do feel sorry for those of you who are genuine, you sometimes get a raw deal.

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By *ickyfittsMan
over a year ago

newbury

Single male here pretending to be a single male. Think it's working lol, no-one's questioned it yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I pretend to be male all the time, yet no one believes me. Can't please them all."

oh Ahabs....wot a body to die for....mmmh think my christmas's have cum all at once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I pretend to be male all the time, yet no one believes me. Can't please them all."

lol I have the same problem m8

Got chatting to a couple yrs ago on another site, we met up an had some good fun. stayed in touch afterwards by sending each other dirty mail, but soon found out, it was the hubby sending me dirty mail pretending to be his wife an she had no clue! :O

Weird stuff...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I pretend to be male all the time, yet no one believes me. Can't please them all.

lol I have the same problem m8

Got chatting to a couple yrs ago on another site, we met up an had some good fun. stayed in touch afterwards by sending each other dirty mail, but soon found out, it was the hubby sending me dirty mail pretending to be his wife an she had no clue! :O

Weird stuff..."

having a ass like that i can well understand why the hubby chose to keep sending mail.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep ive had this problem myself thats why im leaving too many time wasters and weirdos ,who try and ef up a seemingly nice place for adult fun !!!or so i thot and if like me youre a genuine single male its hard enough here without fakers !!!!!

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By *eznhannahCouple
over a year ago

leeds

just wondering, but i suppose it has probably happened where 2 guys have both pretended to be women, and both got cheap thrills from each other without knowing that both were fake women lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just wondering, but i suppose it has probably happened where 2 guys have both pretended to be women, and both got cheap thrills from each other without knowing that both were fake women lol"

thats quite funny lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just wondering, but i suppose it has probably happened where 2 guys have both pretended to be women, and both got cheap thrills from each other without knowing that both were fake women lol"

Most nights in here you find the same old wo"men" chatting away to the same old wo"men" so no doubt you are right

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By *lgernonMan
over a year ago

cupar


"always ask for cam...that gets rid of em"

Dunnno - I'm meeet verified....check it out. as for cams...frankly.....even if its £6 at currys or some shit...I just cant be arsed.....just not my bag. Yah - sure there are a lot of lying fuckwits on here...but as far as possible- I think it would be cool if couples/ fems would take it ona case-by-case basis.

Yes I'm asking a lot -I know how much I;m asking...I have a couple profile on here too. Dunno...I just reckon that some couples/ singles fems miss out on some lovely gen guys by tarring the great masses of wankers with the same brush.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah know what you mean. I dont judge all single guys or couples the same. just go straight into now asking over cam. Had a bi female contact me from here and spoke on msn. Asked to see her cam, she said cool and showed me she was female. 10 minutes later i accept a request on msn from another woman, who also cammed to prove was female, only turned out to be the bi girls mother.....wow happy days....stuff of dreams lol

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By *igBunnyWoman
over a year ago

My Town

Well Well! i have just been mailed and accused of being a man, using a pic from the internet! WTF is that about. No attempt to talk and get to know me, straight away accusing me of being a man. FFS LOL

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"always ask for cam...that gets rid of em

Dunnno - I'm meeet verified....check it out. as for cams...frankly.....even if its £6 at currys or some shit...I just cant be arsed.....just not my bag. Yah - sure there are a lot of lying fuckwits on here...but as far as possible- I think it would be cool if couples/ fems would take it ona case-by-case basis.

Yes I'm asking a lot -I know how much I;m asking...I have a couple profile on here too. Dunno...I just reckon that some couples/ singles fems miss out on some lovely gen guys by tarring the great masses of wankers with the same brush."

It isn't about camfun, it is about interacting while having a chat on cam. You can get a pretty good idea if you laugh at the same things, look like their picture, can see that they are not someone you know etc, make sure they are the age more or less of what they say they are.

This is why we camchat ( literally that, not camfun) before we will consider a meet.

As one time a lad looked about 16 when he said he was 30, a man who looked like my grandad when he said he was 40, then it saves wasting time going to meet people when you know you would have no intention of playing with them.

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By *igBunnyWoman
over a year ago

My Town

Just had a apology, after sending them a pic!

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NOOOO way would i meet without seeing cam, Its for my own piece of mind, i have had to many bad experiences , which have just wasted a lot of my time. Like most on here time is precious , i dont get to much free time and wen i do , i dont wanna waste it by having some guy turn up for me to send him packing cuz he looks nothing like his pics.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Just had a apology, after sending them a pic!

LOL"

Their ploy obviously worked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a apology, after sending them a pic!

LOL"

i wouldnt of wasted yr time. would of just blocked them. x

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By *igBunnyWoman
over a year ago

My Town

i don't like being accused of something I'm not.

Some people have big mouths and might put it about I am a man.

It's funny really! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont think it matters what site you use u always get men pretending to be women. I even joined a site for gay/bi women as i was looking for a fem playmate and had several messages on there that turned out to be men - bit pointless or what?

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