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Normal amount of sexual partners

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My ex told me she had slept with over 200. Turned me well on but felt bit inferior with my 11 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some would call her a slapper i would say well oiled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just fucked 29 so far lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some would call her a slapper i would say well oiled"

Such a sexist comment.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Define "normal"?

Is this a - man fucks hundreds he's a stud, woman fucks hundreds she's a slag - kinda issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My ex told me she had slept with over 200. Turned me well on but felt bit inferior with my 11 lol"

I am close or just over the 200 mark.... toria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My ex told me she had slept with over 200. Turned me well on but felt bit inferior with my 11 lol"

good on her - obviously enjoys sex - and that's great !

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By *lassyandadventurousMan
over a year ago

England and Wales

Men have a cock...they fuck women with it.

Because women are the ones being fucked they need a defence system..

Some just love being banged...dont they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's "normal"? I'm 25 & currently on four women, five men. I can't say I'm bothered!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not at all I think it's healthy if experienced as long as safe. One girl I pulled in club so inexperienced when she gave me bj in car park after literally blew into my cock. Thought it was a wind up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a key opens every lock it's a master key. If a lock is opened by every key it's a Shitty lock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all I think it's healthy if experienced as long as safe. One girl I pulled in club so inexperienced when she gave me bj in car park after literally blew into my cock. Thought it was a wind up."

ah bless lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gave up counting after the first few and that was a very long time ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm surprised she managed to keep the numbers accurate up to 200. I tried counting but lost count between 60 to 70, just lost interest at counting and memorising the numbers. Women in sex industry can easily shag over a thousand without much effort guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it really matter. Hmm maybe yes and maybe no. You might have an example of a couple who met really young and were incredibly experimental and their tally was 1 each. Or you might find someone else who was incredibly attractive and slept with lots of people but only liked missionary.

It depends on level of experience more than number of notches on the bed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I gave up counting after the first few and that was a very long time ago "

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By *ikeC2012Man
over a year ago

Peterborough


"My ex told me she had slept with over 200. Turned me well on but felt bit inferior with my 11 lol"

You've kept count?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sadly wasn't hard to do for me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowt wrong with 200. At least she enjoyed herself.

I think at last count i was somewhere around 6 female and 30 some male.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal is not the word you're looking for. I'd go with usual or average amount of sex. On here 200 could be seen as normal for a woman,11 a result for a man.

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By *angerousEyesMan
over a year ago

weston

Normal or average what is that? Just enjoy yourself numbers don't matter as long as you have fun.

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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago

East Manchester

Got to ask why it's so important to know the number of people someone has had sex with?

Is it a game, or a competition? And what's the prize?

Speaking for myself I am not keeping score and don't ask for verification, to prove anything to anyone.

I agree with the stud/slag argument if 2 people have had the same number of partners it's their affair, no one else's so, am not into being a hypocrite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go by the theory that its not how many people you have sex with, its how many people would want to have sex with you again. Quantity is no guarantee of quality

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield


"Define "normal"?

Is this a - man fucks hundreds he's a stud, woman fucks hundreds she's a slag - kinda issue?"

Hate it when people take that view male here. What's good for a guy is good for the women too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost count years ago. Life is to short not to have fun x

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By *ilberryMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

I am hoping to loose my werginity?

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"My ex told me she had slept with over 200. Turned me well on but felt bit inferior with my 11 lol"

Was that in one gangbang or the total for the day?

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham


"some would call her a slapper i would say well oiled"

You bring a misogynistic attitude like that onto a site like this?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does not matter how many as long as safe sex is practised

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By *o_added_sugarWoman
over a year ago

A club not so many miles away

Would have to say that it does become an issue if you are wanting to 'date' a person that has not been on the scene or is not a liberated adult. The number of partners you have in this instance DOES matter to them. Not so much on here but the in the vanilla world we are seen as slags! And I'm referring to male and female alike; not stereotyping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it really matter. Hmm maybe yes and maybe no. You might have an example of a couple who met really young and were incredibly experimental and their tally was 1 each. Or you might find someone else who was incredibly attractive and slept with lots of people but only liked missionary.

It depends on level of experience more than number of notches on the bed. "

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

Where's Nick Clegg when the country needs him.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I gave up counting after the first few and that was a very long time ago "

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Does not matter how many as long as safe sex is practised"

Normal for me is well into four figures.

However the one time I caught something it was from someone who had only slept with one other person.

There is no such thing as normal, there is average and there is common but 'normal' is a social construct which confines, limits and scares people.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Well I have only slept with 1....... but fucked substantially more

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By *hepisstakersCouple (FF)
over a year ago

London

lol

i think around 250 as an estimate

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By *ane_andrew69Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

Jane has been with just over 70 since she met me me and 8 before me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It only counts on the wedding night I hear, and I'm not experienced at that, at all.

Seriously though, I guess it depends - plenty of fussy people on here who have a contradictory amount of partners. Plenty of the opposite too I guess. Not one for labels, so I guess I don't worry and try to avoid certain types / people for my own reasons, as most do.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Like others I never counted..but shall we say one or two....

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

What's normal??

Incidentally I was well into triple figures between the age of 18 & 25. Then 2 long term relationships stopped that and im much more choosy since I joined fab than I was back then..

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Normal" is a crappy word to use but you could talk about average. 200 is way above average, but there are plenty of things in life where we are going to be above or below average, it might be height, IQ, earnings, years married, etc. etc.

As long as you take a Sex Positive view about the number of sexual partners and don't Slut Shame her for it, it's not a problem. People calling her a slapper etc., are Sex Negative, and who wants to sleep with someone who will try to make you feel shameful about your past history?

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

In my whole life, I'd say about 12.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't have a clue....somewhere in 3 figures....but better things to do than count...

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Its fairly recently that I stopped being able to count on fingers and toes for male and female combined.

I have been in 4 monogamous relationships (well from my side anyway) for 16 years in total since I was 16, and I'm 38, so probably not many. But for me there has to be a real connection.

I've never had a one night stand, and don't intend to either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I have only slept with 1....... but fucked substantially more "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a key opens every lock it's a master key. If a lock is opened by every key it's a Shitty lock"

What a load of fucking sexist bullshit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have a clue on the numbers

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By *layfull pairingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Ive been thinking back and started to tally up....turns out im a slag

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

My business, and would be theirs too...how many...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go by the theory that its not how many people you have sex with, its how many people would want to have sex with you again. Quantity is no guarantee of quality"

Definitely! I've had sex with nine people, out of those I'd only do it again with three, maybe four of those people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many. And that's normal for me! Nobody else is the same as me, so there's no benchmark which means anything to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up till I met my late husband it was 4 he made it 5 and stayed 5 for 19 yrs since he passed away over 7 years ago I have lost count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok night be shooting myself in the foot here, but until i joined fab 4 years ago i had only slept with 4 ladies.

Upped that number a bit since fab, but still not above 20.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Normal or average what is that? Just enjoy yourself numbers don't matter as long as you have fun."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Normal" is a crappy word to use but you could talk about average. 200 is way above average, but there are plenty of things in life where we are going to be above or below average, it might be height, IQ, earnings, years married, etc. etc.

As long as you take a Sex Positive view about the number of sexual partners and don't Slut Shame her for it, it's not a problem. People calling her a slapper etc., are Sex Negative, and who wants to sleep with someone who will try to make you feel shameful about your past history? "

your forgetting Dick size? Lol which many women of all races don't get above Average/Normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never counted but the phrase 'rather a lot' probably applies.

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