FabSwingers.com forum: first meet up.female in (period). Doubt or accept the fact?

By *ieutenant OP Man
over a year ago

london

My female friends were discussing time waster excuses when they meet up with other couples.What stand out as number one fat fib is (women menstrual period)

in most cases second meet up never happen due to trust .

To be honest I think some may be genuine excuses. As for me I won't doubt any female telling me her period just started during a meet.

Some of my friends argue every female suppose to know her circle. Some argue in rear circumstances some female don't know. It can happen anytime. In fact l kept quiet because I don't know anything regarding (female circle)

What is your opinion on this?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"My female friends were discussing time waster excuses when they meet up with other couples.What stand out as number one fat fib is (women menstrual period)

in most cases second meet up never happen due to trust .

To be honest I think some may be genuine excuses. As for me I won't doubt any female telling me her period just started during a meet.

What is your opinion on this? "

What's a females circle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women's cycles can vary greatly month to month,mine can be 28 days or 31..mother nature can't be helped

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Oh cycle!!! Haha.. I get it now!

Op I am on the depo injection which has been for the last 4 years and has pretty much stopped my periods altogether. However I do get the odd random day or two when I bleed a bit so it can't be helped or predicted.

To be honest If I wanted to cancel a meet I would just say and not use my period as an excuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some women is can be all over the place and very unpredictable. Basically you have no way of knowing... That's why it's such a great excuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah some people aren't regular. Mine used to be every 6-8 weeks, now they're every month (4 weeks) but idk how long they're going to be. Mine can last anything from 3 to 8 days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some women's cycles can vary greatly month to month,mine can be 28 days or 31..mother nature can't be helped

Your 33 women. Sort it out, cant be that hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine hasn't been regular for years I only know roughly when and can be a right pain to arrange a meet as some men think its an excuse not to meet or that I'm messing them about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be like clockwork... or mother nature can throw me a curve ball and chuck an extra few days in here and there..

So no we arent always regular x

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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You can still meet, there is plenty that you can do it even if you don't have penetrative sex.

I would explain but still meet... Just have fun other ways if it was a play meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the coil I was at times on for a wk plus then off a wk then back on again. Although I did have a good spell were I had nothing for ages so I literally never knew. Back on pill now so pretty regular although can be out by a few days.

If I didn't wanna meet someone I would just say, I have a social while I was on & my god I really wished it hadn't been my time of the month as it was killing me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine were up the wall....id bleed heavily for 10-12 days, have 2 weeks off then start again....

The pill I was on recently was meant to stop all bleeding....it didn't...id bleed whenever mother nature saw fit, usually when I have a weekend free and plans to go and be naughty

Currently having a few months off... Not looking forward to having them back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My window can be a few days either side of my due day. That could mean a whole week where I may be unavailable. I try to steer clear as any penetration can bring on my bleed as I have no uterus and endometriosis. It's great being called a timewaster for something I have no control over. Last January I bled twice in a month,it's my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some women's cycles can vary greatly month to month,mine can be 28 days or 31..mother nature can't be helped

Your 33 women. Sort it out, cant be that hard

Sorry..I will have a word with my ovaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would always give someone the benefit of the doubt. After all real life has a habit of slapping you in the face.

At least you can arrange your meet for a different time of the month next time around as you will have a rough idea of when it might happen again. Although as already pointed out, like a train its rarely in time!

If after a second time is was cancelled, for whatever reason, then I would take the hint! Although why arrange to meet in the first place?

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

"IIn fact I kept quiet because I don't know anything regarding (female circle)

What is your opinion on this?

What's a females circle? "

Haha this is so funny.. What is the female circle?

I have pulled this card once or twice, I dont know my "circle" (

) dates because I am irregular. Last month I actually didnt have a period so I couldnt arrange anything due to worrying about it starting on a meet.

I don't think anyone can say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My female friends were discussing time waster excuses when they meet up with other couples.What stand out as number one fat fib is (women menstrual period)

in most cases second meet up never happen due to trust .

To be honest I think some may be genuine excuses. As for me I won't doubt any female telling me her period just started during a meet.

What is your opinion on this?

What's a females circle? "
....similar to crop circles I imagine. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My female friends were discussing time waster excuses when they meet up with other couples.What stand out as number one fat fib is (women menstrual period)

in most cases second meet up never happen due to trust .

To be honest I think some may be genuine excuses. As for me I won't doubt any female telling me her period just started during a meet.

What is your opinion on this?

What's a females circle? "
....similar to crop circles I imagine. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My female friends were discussing time waster excuses when they meet up with other couples.What stand out as number one fat fib is (women menstrual period)

in most cases second meet up never happen due to trust .

To be honest I think some may be genuine excuses. As for me I won't doubt any female telling me her period just started during a meet.

What is your opinion on this?

What's a females circle? "
....similar to crop circles I imagine. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some woman have not so regular cycles, and a bit later in life going through her change it can be up to three times a month like i was

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My female friends were discussing time waster excuses when they meet up with other couples.What stand out as number one fat fib is (women menstrual period)

in most cases second meet up never happen due to trust .

To be honest I think some may be genuine excuses. As for me I won't doubt any female telling me her period just started during a meet.

What is your opinion on this? "

Sounds like some of your friends are either massively ignorant or talking out their arse.

As the responses here have proven, it's a long way from a rare occurrence and can play complete havoc with meets and life in general. J has a coil removed last year and the doc said it wold take about a year for her body to settle down again but things are still all over the place.

We've never cancelled a meet because of it as there is a lot you can do without penetration but we always call the other couple and give them the option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can still meet, there is plenty that you can do it even if you don't have penetrative sex.

I would explain but still meet... Just have fun other ways if it was a play meet. "
depends who I was meeting and how I was feeling but have still.met people when on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had four periods at irregularr times during the last six months of last year, last one in November, and none yet this year. That's pretty normal for me over the last three years, so it could happen anytime, and i have no way of knowing until it happens. So if we were give that as a reason not to meet I would never say she should have known!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women can have a medical condition (PCOS), which can give them irregular periods or none at all. Marking them on a calendar and arranging meets in between won't correlate if they are irregular!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Cycles... Can ya ride Tandem?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My periods have been irregular for a couple of years now. I have a coil in which should stop them but sometimes I still bleed. When I do it is completely random and without warning.

If I am due to meet, out of manners I tell the guy. If it's an issue for him we rearrange, if not meeting is fine.

If I don't want to meet someone I just say.

I guess there's no definitive answer. It's a good excuse for a lot of women, if they need one.

Ifs also a good one for a guy to pick on as an excuse too. If someone accused me of using it as an excuse I would be pissed at them and probably not rearrange.

I guess if she never tries to rearrange it was an excuse.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

am i having deja vu... or have you asked this question before making exactly the same allegations......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On of my ex's cycle was very regular and consistent, but my more recent ex wasn't. All woman are different and we need to treat them as such.

One of my fab friends has been having a terrible time with periods/contraception as the pill/injection can affect hormones so much, but again; it affects woman differently.

Ladies can still play if they are on, just maybe not penetrative sex.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i knew i wasn't going mental.....

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/363848

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cycle is totally fucked so I never have a clue. If I cancelled on someone citing periods as the reason, it would be the truth. If I just didn't want to meet them anymore, I'd tell them I didn't want to meet them anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah some people aren't regular. Mine used to be every 6-8 weeks, now they're every month (4 weeks) but idk how long they're going to be. Mine can last anything from 3 to 8 days."

Never trust anything that can bleed for a week and not die :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many women don't have a regular cycle, I definitely don't and sometimes they can catch you off guard even if you do have a regular cycle.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Op I am on the depo injection which has been for the last 4 years and has pretty much stopped my periods altogether. However I do get the odd random day or two when I bleed a bit so it can't be helped or predicted.

To be honest If I wanted to cancel a meet I would just say and not use my period as an excuse. "

I'm the same, except I have the coil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My window can be a few days either side of my due day. That could mean a whole week where I may be unavailable. I try to steer clear as any penetration can bring on my bleed as I have no uterus and endometriosis. It's great being called a timewaster for something I have no control over. Last January I bled twice in a month,it's my age

Not wanting to sound dim but how can you have a period without a uterus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some women can have a medical condition (PCOS), which can give them irregular periods or none at all. Marking them on a calendar and arranging meets in between won't correlate if they are irregular!

This is me (fatbird)

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By *ieutenant OP Man
over a year ago

london

Sorry folks. cycle not (circle). Some Men are hopeless when it comes to women body clock.e.g me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My period has come a week early i just noticed, i blame this topic for giving it ideas.

Aw i think this is menopause starting proper...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My period has come a week early i just noticed, i blame this topic for giving it ideas.

Aw i think this is menopause starting proper..."
time for adult diapers?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be predictable to the day, but am all over the place lately. Had to postpone yesterday's meet to tomorrow. It does happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My period has come a week early i just noticed, i blame this topic for giving it ideas.

Aw i think this is menopause starting proper... time for adult diapers?!

Yep it is time, i used them before this week anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On of my ex's cycle was very regular and consistent, but my more recent ex wasn't. All woman are different and we need to treat them as such.

One of my fab friends has been having a terrible time with periods/contraception as the pill/injection can affect hormones so much, but again; it affects woman differently.

Ladies can still play if they are on, just maybe not penetrative sex."

Oh my god, a sinngle man with the right head screwed on!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To add my two cents, it took me 6 years to find out which pill works for me, and I'm as regular as clockwork now, right down to the fact that I actually start bleeding on a Monday... but as another lady posted, it's a good excuse, but also likely to be a genuine reason too

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

if im close enough to someone i can work out there monthly cycle as long as there predictable

so have bought what they needed or reminded them about it when ive been going shopping and asked if they needed any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On of my ex's cycle was very regular and consistent, but my more recent ex wasn't. All woman are different and we need to treat them as such.

One of my fab friends has been having a terrible time with periods/contraception as the pill/injection can affect hormones so much, but again; it affects woman differently.

Ladies can still play if they are on, just maybe not penetrative sex."

Yay

. What a man. If I could vote for a good answer this would have it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this has happend to me on our last few meets and a visit to a club.

We all played i just didnt let anyone play with me.

But i am a giver and really dont mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not wanting to sound dim but how can you have a period without a uterus"

I'm glad you asked that , I've been reading all the thread to see if there was anyone else thinking that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I no all you women r gonna hate me but I've not had a period in ten years

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

In my experience I think it's rare for a woman to know exactly when her period is due, unless she's on the pill. The 28 day cycle isn't as much the norm as a lot think it is. For myself it's only been in the last five years that I've had a roughly four week cycle, before that it could be two, three or even up to six months in between periods. And now my roughly monthly cycle seems to have ended and this past month had three periods. The menopause is a bitch. So my answer to the OP is give women the benefit of the doubt if they cancel due to their period inconveniently starting. Also they may not want to even meet socially or have a non penetrating sex as they may just be feeling shite, bleeding isn't the only crappy thing that happens with your period.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt use my period as an excuse not to meet.

My period is all over the place. Can have one between 14days to 9 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not wanting to sound dim but how can you have a period without a uterus"

It's not a real period. These symptoms sometimes occur after an operation (ie: hysterectomy) as the body readjusts.

Even phantom period pains/cramping can occur too, especially if ovaries still intact. They still produce oestrogen for a while in some cases.

The body is a funny thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My female friends were discussing time waster excuses when they meet up with other couples.What stand out as number one fat fib is (women menstrual period)

in most cases second meet up never happen due to trust .

To be honest I think some may be genuine excuses. As for me I won't doubt any female telling me her period just started during a meet.

What is your opinion on this? "

You'll look a right dickhead not to accept it. Why even ask on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks god for beppy tampons

I'm going away today for a few days with a friend and yep. Mother Nature decides to show up.

It's happened before. I just tell the person concern and use a beppy

Just my breasts are tender so he knows to be gentle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit a silly question to have to ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not wanting to sound dim but how can you have a period without a uterus

It's not a real period. These symptoms sometimes occur after an operation (ie: hysterectomy) as the body readjusts.

Even phantom period pains/cramping can occur too, especially if ovaries still intact. They still produce oestrogen for a while in some cases.

The body is a funny thing.

Also often the cervix remains and if the woman has endometrioses there could be endometrium (uterus lining) in the cervix which will react to hormone changes and will bleed like a light period

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not wanting to sound dim but how can you have a period without a uterus

It's not a real period. These symptoms sometimes occur after an operation (ie: hysterectomy) as the body readjusts.

Even phantom period pains/cramping can occur too, especially if ovaries still intact. They still produce oestrogen for a while in some cases.

The body is a funny thing.

Also often the cervix remains and if the woman has endometrioses there could be endometrium (uterus lining) in the cervix which will react to hormone changes and will bleed like a light period

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