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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone ever turned up to a meet and for one reason or other not wanted to play?

What excuse did you give? And was you honest or told a little fib? X

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yes and yes..

there was zero connection and I knew the other was thinking the very same.

was easier all round..

plus I made it to my favourite shop before closing for a new t shirt.

win win really.

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish


"Has anyone ever turned up to a meet and for one reason or other not wanted to play?

What excuse did you give? And was you honest or told a little fib? X "

I was completely honest when the 2 guys who showed up for a 3some thought it would be a good idea to bring along a 3rd guy without my knowledge...they knew exactly how pissed off I was before I sent them marching...you should have heard the excuses as to why they didn't inform me or ask if I would be interested in it.That is the first time in 2 years of swinging that I have turned someone away

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Yep a few times. I was honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankfully I've never had to myself, but heard some stories off people saying just going to the car and not coming back lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only ever arrange meets on a "no strings" basis, sometimes we will play on the first meet but we will never guarantee that, therefore we never feel guilty for not playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We only ever arrange meets on a "no strings" basis, sometimes we will play on the first meet but we will never guarantee that, therefore we never feel guilty for not playing."

Thats how we do it.....always the best way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt you'll have many single guys saying the same lol

But luckily for me, all my meets have been great with mutual clicking.

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By *ush girlWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Always best for a no strings first I think that way no ones feelings get hurt.

If ye don't like someone then you don't like em - just say there's no connection & no I'll feelings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some of our friends told us thay have a word , like if she ask for ice in her orange he know its a no go if all at bar drinking , lol and the baby sitters just been called away we have to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some of our friends told us thay have a word , like if she ask for ice in her orange he know its a no go if all at bar drinking , lol and the baby sitters just been called away we have to go."

Ah.. secret code lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some of our friends told us thay have a word , like if she ask for ice in her orange he know its a no go if all at bar drinking , lol and the baby sitters just been called away we have to go.

Ah.. secret code lol"
yes i think there is one ,, lol xxx lots do the ice thing ,,, xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say chatting doesn't guarantee a meet, and meeting doesn't guarantee playing. If they dont like that then bye bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We (2 gents) were supposedely meeting a couple. 10 minutes before we were due to arrive the guy called to say he was at a friends house, that we should knock on the door and the lady would take us straight upstairs to the bedroom. I had reservations on hearing this as I know, it just isnt my style. So we knocked on the door, the lady opend the door in her suspenders and stockings pissed as a fart. We stood in the hallway as she beckoned us to go upstairs. Unfortunately I had forgotten my condoms in the car, so we returned, started the engine, and got away from there as quickly as we could.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i get turned away all the time lol get use to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well i get turned away all the time lol get use to it"
you dont xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only happened once to me. Went to meet a couple socially in a pub. He was a lovely guy but she spent the entire time texting a single guy they play with. She was even reading out what they were texting each other. In the end I just got up and said something like 'you are obviously busy so I'll leave you to it', and left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thankfully I've never had to myself, but heard some stories off people saying just going to the car and not coming back lol x"

haha that old chestnut had that a few times lol Im always honest me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the ice thing happens to me and i leave, the door closes and i hear the sighs of relief from inside as i peer through the letter box, i find a crisp packet, poo in it, wipe my arse on the door handle and set fire to the packet. Knock on the door, hide behind a car, and when they stamp on the packet i run down the street shouting "WEIRDO'S" then when i get home i block them. !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a lady a few years ago, paid for a room, only to find she'd not had a bath/shower for months. She stunk. I was gone. Didnt go near it...dirty sod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When the ice thing happens to me and i leave, the door closes and i hear the sighs of relief from inside as i peer through the letter box, i find a crisp packet, poo in it, wipe my arse on the door handle and set fire to the packet. Knock on the door, hide behind a car, and when they stamp on the packet i run down the street shouting "WEIRDO'S" then when i get home i block them. ! "
never i hope you dont do that ,, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes happened to me, arrived at a meet to find absolutely nothing resembling the Profile Pics, so I told them they were misleading Folk and left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever turned up to a meet and for one reason or other not wanted to play?

What excuse did you give? And was you honest or told a little fib? X "

Never!!

My first meets are always social in a public place with no possibility of playing.

That way we both get to see each other and from their decide whether we'll take it further or not.

Personally I can't imagine turning up "blind" to meet someone for sex!

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