FabSwingers.com forum: How old

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How old is the oldest picture on your profile ?

How old is the latest picture on your profile ?

Who will admit to having pictures that are 3, 4, 5, or more years old.

Is this misrepresentation ?

Our own _iew is that if there are some "current" pictures, others that are 1 or 2 years old are not so bad, but we have seen pictures on here that I know were taken 5 or more years ago, some in my house when people stayed or came to a party others because I remember them putting them on thier profile all those years ago.

What is acceptable ?

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By *icksfocusMan
over a year ago

Pontefract

all my pics are no older than 6 months when they are 6 months old i take them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my oldest pic is 3 months and new pics last month ive know people having pics that are 10 years old lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My oldest is about a year and a half ago, newest, a few weeks.

I think its a little unfair when the pic you see, and the person you meet are about 10 years apart!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always ask to see them on cam before i meet and if they look nothing like the pic i block them and move on

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By *oiledbunnyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

my pics 2 years old now...i dont have any newer ones that are any good. so what should i do! I take rubbish pics....i need to meet up with someone that owns a camera.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well me boobs havent aged really so mis representation there.

And have a mugshot up to put off anyone looking ...

Which was taken last week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without checking I think my oldest is 11 months and my newest is about 3 or 4 weeks?

I'm off to check now to see how close I was....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think you ve got to be fairly current or people will be disapointed when u meet..

the more genuine u r .. the better..the outcome- hopefully!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"my pics 2 years old now...i dont have any newer ones that are any good. so what should i do! I take rubbish pics....i need to meet up with someone that owns a camera."

What should I do ? personally if I wasn't in a position to update my pics I would put the old ones on my profile and a note in there to say how old they are and perhaps a comment about how realistic a _iew they were of me now, that way nobody could accuse you of doing anything untoward. Sometimes old pictures are better than no pictures and some people just don't seem to age (bastards

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It has to be personal choice and my post is about what people think not about chastising anyone.

Perhaps you could get any friend to take a pic on your mobile when your out shopping, Sasha took loads of pics on her phone the other day when we were out and about visiting Stratford upon Avon, pics dont have to be "fab style"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just about bang on! Let's hear it for my amazing feats of memory....

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I update ours quite a bit,

latest face pics are 2 months old body pics are about the same,although im the same size and shape as I was when we first joined

I would have thought the most important thing is that you look like your pics and they're not years out of date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They should be up to date to stop problems occuring when meeting.

I once had a party and a single guy who was on our msn site wanted to get an invite.He sent me pics and he seemed the type people would like. (most bieng mates) We had been chatting on msn site about a year so everyone sort of knew him...

The day of the party came and so did he...

Nothing like his pics..if they were his? and the poor guy had a miserable time.

Because he hadnt been up front , people didnt trust him to play.

sad really

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

It has'nt happened yet but I would just have to laugh at anyone that turned up looking 10 years out of date

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"It has'nt happened yet but I would just have to laugh at anyone that turned up looking 10 years out of date

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its happened to me when i was single!!! and it wasnt funny....ya minx...i never thought my ass would get through a small window...but it did!!..I should write a book lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just checked our own pictures, Sasha's newest pic is a week old her oldest 5 months.

My newest pic is about a month old and my oldest is 6 years old but on that one you cant really see my face and my body shape is the same now as it was then, the rest of my own pics are no around 5-6 months old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8yo and 7 months respectively.

The two oldest ones do not look that old when compared with my newer ones IMHO.

Hence I do not believe I am deceiving anyone by having them there.

Besides, I have always been truthful about my age and look etc., as I believe I have nothing to hide!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"It has'nt happened yet but I would just have to laugh at anyone that turned up looking 10 years out of date

its happened to me when i was single!!! and it wasnt funny....ya minx...i never thought my ass would get through a small window...but it did!!..I should write a book lol

PMSL I can see you trying to get put of a small window,I think I would just point,laugh and say you have to be fecking joking don't ya?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"It has'nt happened yet but I would just have to laugh at anyone that turned up looking 10 years out of date

its happened to me when i was single!!! and it wasnt funny....ya minx...i never thought my ass would get through a small window...but it did!!..I should write a book lol

PMSL I can see you trying to get put of a small window,I think I would just point,laugh and say you have to be fecking joking don't ya?

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well i was new to this swinging malarky, and naive ...i learnt quickly though

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"It has'nt happened yet but I would just have to laugh at anyone that turned up looking 10 years out of date

its happened to me when i was single!!! and it wasnt funny....ya minx...i never thought my ass would get through a small window...but it did!!..I should write a book lol

PMSL I can see you trying to get put of a small window,I think I would just point,laugh and say you have to be fecking joking don't ya?

Oooh I don't think that came across very well on re reading it

I would point and laugh at someone turning up 10 years out of date

Not at femmes bum going through a window

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"It has'nt happened yet but I would just have to laugh at anyone that turned up looking 10 years out of date

its happened to me when i was single!!! and it wasnt funny....ya minx...i never thought my ass would get through a small window...but it did!!..I should write a book lol

PMSL I can see you trying to get put of a small window,I think I would just point,laugh and say you have to be fecking joking don't ya?

Oooh I don't think that came across very well on re reading it

I would point and laugh at someone turning up 10 years out of date

Not at femmes bum going through a window

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oh that was funny too, trust me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 2 naughty ones of me are about 3 yrs old, since then ive lost a stone and i could see the difference in the mirror overlooking the black n white stripey bed at Chams, also people have said that my bum looks smaller.

The face one i have as private, is about 4 yrs and no-one has said it doesnt look like me.

Personally i think had i lost a lot of weight or gained alot, i would change the pictures and I would like some more recent ones but as yet (though i had some but deleted the email by mistake when i was doing some IT work

)ive none suitable for here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lisas pics are all fresh, Marts pics are up to a couple of years old, although he hasn't changed other than having different hair lengths.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The oldest pic on my profile is about 6 months old, the newest one, em 2 weeks old, something like that. I am a picaholic, for once in my life I can have pics of me with underwear on and post them and not feel, oh god look at my fat arse and my overhang etc, I feel confident and sexy cos im a big girl, hence I have the bug for taking pics

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

My oldest pic is about 4 years old and I'm 20% bigger than that, so I probably ought to remove it, morally.

But as the shirt still fits, how misleading is it?

If I felt my pics had become unrepresentative, I'd do something about it, but age isn't a factor in that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kates were taken couple of months ago in Heartbeat country and some of mine too. My oldest pic is 2yrs ago, the one with the icecream taken in Spain.

I haven't changed in 2yrs, other than now got a part grey goatee

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

The oldest one of mine is about 3 years and the newest about 3 weeks.

They still look like me - if I thought they didn;t, I'd remove them. I always verify by cam anyway so if they didn't look like me, then someone would have said so by now.

*Her*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have pics of various ages. But they are in private which gives a download date and a pretty good idea of when they were taken. Can't see a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we like to take pics all the time and make sure our ad is updated with them . we cant see the point in having old ones on as if your gonna meet up you will feel pretty stupid looking not so well as you did on them pics lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oldest...9 months

Newest...1 week

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

oldest a year

the rest.. less than 3 months

newest yesterday

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

My England pants are from 1966

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oldest, maybe a year tops, newest probably a month or so (I'd just come back from holiday, I had a tan!).

I guess its harder for the subject of the picture to accept that they've changed with older pics. Kinda like when you see someone you havent seen for years and they're bigger whilst they might not have noticed so much (as they see themselves everyday).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My oldest pic is probably a couple of years old now... but its set as my avatar which i dont see it as a true likeness of myself, that snot what an avatar is.

All my other pics are less than a month old

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

oldest 2 years, newest about 3 weeks

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

November last year are the public ones

The private ones are all this year

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

most of my pics area bout a year old now but to be honest i dont think i have changed that much since putting them up - 1 or 2 more piercings maybe

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By *h_errotic_onesCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth, Pokesdown

Ours must be at least a year old. Some were taken last December before going to Libertines.

We need to get some more done, we do have some from meets (if we ever remember to get the camera out), but would have to ask permission from them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 months or less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 2 and a half years oldest to around 4 months newest,though theres no real difference.

Trace does have her hair straightened from time to time but that only lasts for a few days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally dont care about how old my pics are on my profile as i tend to be on the chat room anyhow showing all. but perhaps for me meeting other peops...yeah i would prefer to see em on cam first....they say the camera never lies...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, they're all fairly recent on your profile anyway (and very nice they are too

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And you're a lady who has such lovely varied interests too. You're alright in my book! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oldest pics are 6 months old, newest ones were taken 2 days ago.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

Oldest 1 April 2009, latest ones about 6 weeks

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By *ederick30Man
over a year ago

aylesford

I've got a couple on here from about 2 years ago and a few that are quite recent, if you care to look slightly above and to the left of this post...3 weeks ago

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I have one I think which is about 3 years ago and was one of the first pics I put on. Always send a recent face pic of me when arranging to meet so they can see the current me,and if I send a body pic it is always a recent one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my pics are taken within the last year one or two within the last month or so,the exception is one picture which is older..lets just say it was taken film..yes real film!, it still looks like me (from the rear angle) and my measurements are still the same as they were when it was taken...still 32" waist.

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By *ounglad87Man
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

hmmm, my oldest is about 15 months ago and my latest is from a few weeks ago.

i think it's a little bit devious to leave ones on from years ago, especially if certain aspects have changed!

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