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"Is it wrong to enjoy bare sex with strangers" Why are you asking strangers? You know the risks, your body, your choice, get on with it if its your thing! | |||
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"I guess it's another taboo, a risk that makes sex a little more thrilling. I play safe personally, however to make sex thrilling I'd probably have sex on cliff edge or something..... " So why not have bareback sex on the cliff edge lol | |||
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"This has been debated to death on previous threads. Do a forum search and you'll see what I mean... For me though, it's an absolute no no. But each to their own." I have seen posts before but they seem to turn quickly into a slanging match so stop reading when that starts. Everyone has their own _iews on things and so far all who have commented have done it in a nice polite way | |||
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"I guess it's another taboo, a risk that makes sex a little more thrilling. I play safe personally, however to make sex thrilling I'd probably have sex on cliff edge or something..... So why not have bareback sex on the cliff edge lol" While blindfolded and balancing on one leg? | |||
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"I guess it's another taboo, a risk that makes sex a little more thrilling. I play safe personally, however to make sex thrilling I'd probably have sex on cliff edge or something..... So why not have bareback sex on the cliff edge lol X While blindfolded and balancing on one leg?" Woah Woah Woah that's a bit over the top | |||
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"I guess it's another taboo, a risk that makes sex a little more thrilling. I play safe personally, however to make sex thrilling I'd probably have sex on cliff edge or something..... So why not have bareback sex on the cliff edge lol X While blindfolded and balancing on one leg? Woah Woah Woah that's a bit over the top " As long as its not over the edge... | |||
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"We don't swap because of the fear of contracting something even with contraception, worry of breakages. However, we are looking for the day when you can buy a mobile test unit that would show a result in seconds. Then the flood gates would be wide open. lol ?? But for now, It's a fantasy that we come close to doing, especially after a few drink and getting carried away and high on sex emotions. " How close have u come | |||
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"I'd like to try and have both my holes filled and cum in at the same time with a blind fold on. ?? " That sounds great we would be happy to assist with it | |||
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"I always go bb at meets! If there's no cum, there's no point lol" Love your way of thinking | |||
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"I'd like to try and have both my holes filled and cum in at the same time with a blind fold on. ?? " I'm there! lol | |||
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"I always go bb at meets! If there's no cum, there's no point lol" Again I'm there lol | |||
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"Lots of people who smoke know the risk of cancer and other diseases but are willing to take the risk. However it's generally considered polite not to smoke in the presence of non smokers to avoid putting them at risk. If you want to take the risk of bareback sex then do it - just always be perfectly honest with the non barebackers and give them the opportunity of deciding whether they want to take the the risk of having even protected sex with you." 100% agree. We always let potential meets know that our preference is bb | |||
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"Lots of people who smoke know the risk of cancer and other diseases but are willing to take the risk. However it's generally considered polite not to smoke in the presence of non smokers to avoid putting them at risk. If you want to take the risk of bareback sex then do it - just always be perfectly honest with the non barebackers and give them the opportunity of deciding whether they want to take the the risk of having even protected sex with you." | |||
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"Is it wrong to enjoy bare sex with strangers" In terms of sexual health, yes it's wrong | |||
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"Is it wrong to enjoy bare sex with strangers" No,a big danger for a brief encounter tho, unless they are known to be safe | |||
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"I'd like to try and have both my holes filled and cum in at the same time with a blind fold on. ?? " Wow sounds good..... pick me | |||
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"I always go bb at meets! If there's no cum, there's no point lol Love your way of thinking " we also only ever play bare on meets...we know the risks but we love risky sex (no point to sex with condoms ) | |||
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"I always go bb at meets! If there's no cum, there's no point lol" | |||
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"I'd like to try and have both my holes filled and cum in at the same time with a blind fold on. ?? " Oooh yes - my big fantasy too..!!! | |||
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"I'd like to try and have both my holes filled and cum in at the same time with a blind fold on. ?? Oooh yes - my big fantasy too..!!! " | |||
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"I bare back Sometimes. I love being cummed in. It's so intimate. " We both really enjoy it too | |||
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"If you like Russian roulette game.good luck to you." Nothing like Russian roulette really, is it? Think about the odds.......... | |||
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"If you like Russian roulette game.good luck to you. Nothing like Russian roulette really, is it? Think about the odds.......... " I think the comparison stands up though, you never know which barrel has the bullet. Where it falls down is that you can't go off and get checked regularly for bullets to the brain | |||
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"Entirely up to those involved. Although I think anyone who does on a regular basis probably has a responsibility to make prospective partners aware, so that they can make an informed decision regarding their own health before deciding to play with them. Why ? Surely both party's have responsibility in negotiating sex.. But then that's only my opinion, ymmv. " | |||
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"If you like Russian roulette game.good luck to you. Nothing like Russian roulette really, is it? Think about the odds.......... I think the comparison stands up though, you never know which barrel has the bullet. Where it falls down is that you can't go off and get checked regularly for bullets to the brain " Maybe it's just the gambler in me thinking odds only. But hey like I said earlier up, it's not for us but if someone wishes to indulge and they've weighed up the risks to themselves and others, who am I to judge how someone else chooses to play if it has no bearing on my life. | |||
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"Is it wrong to enjoy bare sex with strangers Why are you asking strangers? You know the risks, your body, your choice, get on with it if its your thing! " | |||
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"I guess it's another taboo, a risk that makes sex a little more thrilling. I play safe personally, however to make sex thrilling I'd probably have sex on cliff edge or something..... " At least on a cliff edge the others involve would push back harder | |||
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"This has been debated to death on previous threads. Do a forum search and you'll see what I mean... For me though, it's an absolute no no. But each to their own." BB forums are the best because it points out who is more likely to have an S T D and before people shoot us down I said "more likely" | |||
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"If you like Russian roulette game.good luck to you. Nothing like Russian roulette really, is it? Think about the odds.......... I think the comparison stands up though, you never know which barrel has the bullet. Where it falls down is that you can't go off and get checked regularly for bullets to the brain Maybe it's just the gambler in me thinking odds only. But hey like I said earlier up, it's not for us but if someone wishes to indulge and they've weighed up the risks to themselves and others, who am I to judge how someone else chooses to play if it has no bearing on my life." That's pretty much my way of thinking too. | |||
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" BB forums are the best because it points out who is more likely to have an S T D and before people shoot us down I said "more likely"" How does it point out those that are 'more likely'? The person that has had BB with a limited number of playmates is more likely to have contracted something compared to someone who has played "safely" with many many others on what basis? Toys have been covered, hands cleansed, oral covered etc. even if they have not played BB - does the risk not increase the more often you do something - multiplied by the measures put in place, at some point those that put measures in place but play much more frequently will be a more likely risk than the infrequent BB player won't they? | |||
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"People can slate bare backers all they want. It's a personal choice. This is a swingers site. How can anybody be judgmental on here? We are all here to meet strangers for all different kinds of sex. Bare back is just another kink in an endless list. I've done it, and I will again. It feels a lot better without a condom and there is nothing hotter than coming inside a woman and then watching it ooze out of her. Preferably while she sucks you clean." There's nothing *wrong* with it, I just wish people would be more honest with potential meets about it, so that we can make an informed decision about sleeping with that person. | |||
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"People can slate bare backers all they want. It's a personal choice. This is a swingers site. How can anybody be judgmental on here? We are all here to meet strangers for all different kinds of sex. Bare back is just another kink in an endless list. I've done it, and I will again. It feels a lot better without a condom and there is nothing hotter than coming inside a woman and then watching it ooze out of her. Preferably while she sucks you clean. There's nothing *wrong* with it, I just wish people would be more honest with potential meets about it, so that we can make an informed decision about sleeping with that person." | |||
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"People can slate bare backers all they want. It's a personal choice. This is a swingers site. How can anybody be judgmental on here? We are all here to meet strangers for all different kinds of sex. Bare back is just another kink in an endless list. I've done it, and I will again. It feels a lot better without a condom and there is nothing hotter than coming inside a woman and then watching it ooze out of her. Preferably while she sucks you clean. There's nothing *wrong* with it, I just wish people would be more honest with potential meets about it, so that we can make an informed decision about sleeping with that person." The people i have done it with have always made it clear from the start that it was their wish. Then once meeting them socially we would discuss it and come to an agreement over it. There is a couple I join on a regular basis and their kink is for me to have sex with her alone and then once I leave they have sex together immediately. I just cater for their kink. | |||
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"People can slate bare backers all they want. It's a personal choice. This is a swingers site. How can anybody be judgmental on here? We are all here to meet strangers for all different kinds of sex. Bare back is just another kink in an endless list. I've done it, and I will again. It feels a lot better without a condom and there is nothing hotter than coming inside a woman and then watching it ooze out of her. Preferably while she sucks you clean. There's nothing *wrong* with it, I just wish people would be more honest with potential meets about it, so that we can make an informed decision about sleeping with that person." Too much rabid judgementalism and vilification for there to be openness and honesty at that level - it makes people lie to get what they want. It's just the way it is. | |||
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"I don't think anything between consenting adults is wrong As adult we know the risks its upto the individual if we want to take them All sex carries risk some just higher than others " Very well made point | |||
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" There are quite a few people who list safesex as a requirement but when it comes to the crunch really want your bare cock inside them. lets face it, sex with skin contact is very different to a condom. " You're right, some of us much prefer the feel of condoms. | |||
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" You're right, some of us much prefer the feel of condoms." Fascinating. | |||
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" There are quite a few people who list safesex as a requirement but when it comes to the crunch really want your bare cock inside them. lets face it, sex with skin contact is very different to a condom. You're right, some of us much prefer the feel of condoms." Mmmm....... well I dunno about that , each to their own and all that , but there's no way we prefer the feel of condoms . So we certainly won't be using them with each other any time soon . As for meets on here , we will continue to use them but purely for safety , not because we prefer the feel | |||
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" There are quite a few people who list safesex as a requirement but when it comes to the crunch really want your bare cock inside them. lets face it, sex with skin contact is very different to a condom. You're right, some of us much prefer the feel of condoms. Mmmm....... well I dunno about that , each to their own and all that , but there's no way we prefer the feel of condoms . So we certainly won't be using them with each other any time soon . As for meets on here , we will continue to use them but purely for safety , not because we prefer the feel " It's great to live in a world where everyone can have different preferences. Incompatible? Just don't have sex. What bothers me is when people bareback casually and don't let me know if I ask. That's just dishonest and not really fair. | |||
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" There are quite a few people who list safesex as a requirement but when it comes to the crunch really want your bare cock inside them. lets face it, sex with skin contact is very different to a condom. You're right, some of us much prefer the feel of condoms. Mmmm....... well I dunno about that , each to their own and all that , but there's no way we prefer the feel of condoms . So we certainly won't be using them with each other any time soon . As for meets on here , we will continue to use them but purely for safety , not because we prefer the feel It's great to live in a world where everyone can have different preferences. Incompatible? Just don't have sex. What bothers me is when people bareback casually and don't let me know if I ask. That's just dishonest and not really fair." May I ask - is your preference for the feel of of condoms from a penchant for latex / rubber? | |||
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" May I ask - is your preference for the feel of of condoms from a penchant for latex / rubber? " I enjoy the feel of the condoms. I also find the idea of condoms sexy - protecting your partners health and caring for them etc. I don't watch bareback porn for the same reason - I can't find it sexy anymore when I'm so radical about sexual health and consent issues. I do enjoy latex as well, but that's totally different. I enjoy heavy rubber clothing which is nothing like the thin and barely-there feel of condoms. | |||
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" May I ask - is your preference for the feel of of condoms from a penchant for latex / rubber? I enjoy the feel of the condoms. I also find the idea of condoms sexy - protecting your partners health and caring for them etc. I don't watch bareback porn for the same reason - I can't find it sexy anymore when I'm so radical about sexual health and consent issues. I do enjoy latex as well, but that's totally different. I enjoy heavy rubber clothing which is nothing like the thin and barely-there feel of condoms." Must admit i like the feel of condoms too especially those new real feel ones durex do like you say feels barely there but reassuring that it is. | |||
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" May I ask - is your preference for the feel of of condoms from a penchant for latex / rubber? I enjoy the feel of the condoms. I also find the idea of condoms sexy - protecting your partners health and caring for them etc. I don't watch bareback porn for the same reason - I can't find it sexy anymore when I'm so radical about sexual health and consent issues. I do enjoy latex as well, but that's totally different. I enjoy heavy rubber clothing which is nothing like the thin and barely-there feel of condoms." Thank you for the insight. | |||
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"Is it wrong to enjoy bare sex with strangers" Depends on the bear. | |||
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"I love the idea and to be soaked in cum. But it's just not an option these days. " Well,protected sex and removal of condom at shooting point seems to be the call of the day here over those wonderful boobs lol | |||
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"People can slate bare backers all they want. It's a personal choice. This is a swingers site. How can anybody be judgmental on here? We are all here to meet strangers for all different kinds of sex. Bare back is just another kink in an endless list. I've done it, and I will again. It feels a lot better without a condom and there is nothing hotter than coming inside a woman and then watching it ooze out of her. Preferably while she sucks you clean. There's nothing *wrong* with it, I just wish people would be more honest with potential meets about it, so that we can make an informed decision about sleeping with that person." | |||
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"If you like Russian roulette game.good luck to you. Nothing like Russian roulette really, is it? Think about the odds.......... I think the comparison stands up though, you never know which barrel has the bullet. Where it falls down is that you can't go off and get checked regularly for bullets to the brain " Actually if you spin the barrel the weight of the bullet means it will always be at the bottom so there is no chance of getting shot. The people who own handguns and play Russian Roulette know this and know they can't get shot, it's basically a trick to freak people out. Of course if you didn't spin the barrel before pulling the trigger, then the bullet is one place closer than last time... Anyway, not meaning to hijack the thread. But we do love it when someone compares BB to Russian Roulette and then someone argues it's not and the whole debate starts again. Wouldn't it be great to reply we don't do bareback but we do play Russian Roulette coz it's safer, then pull out a .38 and spin it. Most of what will posted on here has been said before, apart from our clever bit about RR, but to answer the OPs question, if you post you want BB, and get a reply from a BB couple who want to meet you, it's all consensual, everyone's choice. The BB people will meet with each other, there is no point in those who always Glove Up getting upset about other peoples choices. | |||
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"Point of care tests available for home use now but check on sensitivity and specificity Some detect HIV antigen 2 weeks post exposure, others only HIV antibody after 3 months exposure. Choose wisely or safe sex only" I guess we need a multiprong test kit HIV Chlamydia Herpes Gonnorrhea Syphillis Take your samples together, have a drink, all clear, start playing Or use a condom | |||
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"Loving all those with safe sex listed who are saying they love BB meets, or only go bare. Thanks for the honesty. " | |||
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"This has been debated to death on previous threads. Do a forum search and you'll see what I mean... For me though, it's an absolute no no. But each to their own. BB forums are the best because it points out who is more likely to have an S T D and before people shoot us down I said "more likely"" | |||
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"Loving all those with safe sex listed who are saying they love BB meets, or only go bare. Thanks for the honesty. " That's why you protect yourself as best as you can and why you're responsible for your own sexual health. Just because someone has "safe sex" in their profile doesn't mean that they do. | |||
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"Is it wrong to enjoy bare sex with strangers" Definately not!! I wish more couples were like you!! | |||
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"Is it wrong to enjoy bare sex with strangers" yeah pretty much | |||
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"No worse than crossing the road without looking. " ....and lots of sensible people do that? | |||
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"No worse than crossing the road without looking. ....and lots of sensible people do that?" I think that was his point! | |||
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"We love it" Shame you guys are so far away ?? | |||
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