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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What makes you state no black/white/asian etc on your profile?

Is it down to a bad sexual experience in the past, beliefs or something else?

A friend of mine tells me (ridiculously) that he could never be with an oriental chick as he once shared a house with a woman from Taiwan and lists her tatty dressing gown as one reason why he could never be with someone from that part of the world! I have shown him many pictures of Oriental women but he continues to say no, unless they look quite westernised. He has dated several women of Indian descent, however, so is not completely bigoted.

Personally, nationality/ethnicity plays no part in who I find attractive. If they are pretty, they're pretty!

Just wondering about the views of others.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Personally I don't understand any of it.

Surely, once the lights go down, even a bbc is just a bc?

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well my fb likes a bbc but my bbw fwb would like a mmf with a tv so all in all I'm pretty pc!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as mj said, it doesn't matter if your black or white,

eeeeehehhh

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm a well known equal opportunity shagger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find light eyes blue or green attractive and blonde or light brown hair...

So my preference is mostly based on that... The rest is I find the colour contrast a turn off x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can I have 50p every time the word 'preference' is used?

I'll use the funds for some sun cream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a well known equal opportunity shagger "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about the face for me. However dark hair, muscles and tattoos is the general type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes you state no black/white/asian etc on your profile?

Is it down to a bad sexual experience in the past, beliefs or something else?

A friend of mine tells me (ridiculously) that he could never be with an oriental chick as he once shared a house with a woman from Taiwan and lists her tatty dressing gown as one reason why he could never be with someone from that part of the world! I have shown him many pictures of Oriental women but he continues to say no, unless they look quite westernised. He has dated several women of Indian descent, however, so is not completely bigoted.

Personally, nationality/ethnicity plays no part in who I find attractive. If they are pretty, they're pretty!

Just wondering about the views of others."

I do not understand his logic - one because I generally find oriental women more attractive than most other ethnicities but also because, y'know, an item of clothing.

Personally for me it comes down to personal chemistry first and foremost.

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By *rednkatieCouple
over a year ago

orlando

we really truly never think of color dont make any sense to limit your self because of a color of skin.. with that being said i am not attracted to women with over sized fake breast..he he...

Fred

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By *itTVlondonTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I avoid certain ethnicities cos I've been brainwashed into believing they have small cocks. What's more, I have found it to be true! Am I'm glad to say, on the other hand, that some ethnicities have very big boys Yummy! So I will continue to NOT see some and see some

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Race or ethnicity or skin colour is not one of my criteria for a sexual partner.

I hanker after my meet from a person from Pitcairn Island.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only 50p so far. Can't even get own brand stuff for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any particular taste when it comes to black/white/asian/whatever so I don't really get it.

That said, there are people with specific names I think I'd struggle to have sex with because I associate that name with someone else who it would make me vomit to think of naked, so who am I to suggest they're odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as mj said, it doesn't matter if your black or white,

eeeeehehhh"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll bump,

More answers please!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure why anyone has to justify their choices on a sex site!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure why anyone has to justify their choices on a sex site!!!!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not sure why anyone has to justify their choices on a sex site!!!!"

Isn't it human nature to ask questions? No one's forcing anyone to answer

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By *ove121LustCouple
over a year ago

LaLa Land

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By *ove121LustCouple
over a year ago

LaLa Land


"I'm a well known equal opportunity shagger "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is weird though. Some of the women should just have a sign hanging around the neck saying "No Coloureds" if they're at a swingers club. It's a sex site but you are still being picky. It's amusing. "Not racist but..." "I can't be racist my mates are black"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure why anyone has to justify their choices on a sex site!!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is weird though. Some of the women should just have a sign hanging around the neck saying "No Coloureds" if they're at a swingers club. It's a sex site but you are still being picky. It's amusing. "

Coloured is rather outdated and not very PC.

As for being picky, do you think because women are on a sex site, that we should just drop our knickers and open our legs for anyone? I'd rather go without sex than fuck anybody and everybody.

- Kitty x

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I don't choose my playmates by their skin colour or ethnicity I choose them by if I like them as a person or not

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

This is a free world. Everyone should have the right to choose what ever he or she likes. Just because you don't want to offend some part of society.you have to compromise.. . that is crass

Yes there are some racist element hiding under banner of preference and choice.we shouldn't tarred genuine people with the same brush.

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset


"What makes you state no black/white/asian etc on your profile?

Is it down to a bad sexual experience in the past, beliefs or something else?

A friend of mine tells me (ridiculously) that he could never be with an oriental chick as he once shared a house with a woman from Taiwan and lists her tatty dressing gown as one reason why he could never be with someone from that part of the world! I have shown him many pictures of Oriental women but he continues to say no, unless they look quite westernised. He has dated several women of Indian descent, however, so is not completely bigoted.

Personally, nationality/ethnicity plays no part in who I find attractive. If they are pretty, they're pretty!

Just wondering about the views of others."

So you consider him bigoted because his choices don't match yours, sex with others is very influenced by what works for you in your mind, why shouldn't you put in your profile no blacks or asians or do you believe if you are swingers you are not allowed to exclude people you are not interested in, it's about personal choice, there always seems to be someone waiting on the sidelines looking for the opportunity to point and call you racist or bigoted, we don't want to play with black or asians .... our choice, if that doesn't suit you, move on, no amount of name calling will suddenly make us change our preferences (50p in the kitty)

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By *aulnorthumberlandMan
over a year ago

Blyth


"Not sure why anyone has to justify their choices on a sex site!!!!

Isn't it human nature to ask questions? No one's forcing anyone to answer "
if you don't like the answer don't ask the question.I think its ridiculous that people put NO WHITES in caps and yet people feel the need to apologise if they put no black or Asian.

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

Does it make a difference on which race you are? If your not interested then all you have to say is no thanks?

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

Also annoys me then people say "not their cup of tea". Wtf lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a thing for oriental ladies :o

One of my mates says I have yellow fever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't choose over skin colour or faith but I've not been black, and black is currently on my hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(50p in the kitty) "

Thanks - a bit more and I can a afford the good stuff

My sun cream reference was a bit of a dig about those who say it's something to do with contrasting colour.

I tan quickly and go very dark even in our pitiful sun, but am pasty white all winter. Are tanned people avoided in the summer by those repulsed by contrast?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that many black girls on this site to begin with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it make a difference on which race you are? If your not interested then all you have to say is no thanks? "

That'd be far too easy - why miss a chance to try and offend?!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Our meets have been with black or Asian guys so far but no colour is off limits, just a slight leaning from the both of us in that direction.

Avoided the 50 pence contribution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is weird though. Some of the women should just have a sign hanging around the neck saying "No Coloureds" if they're at a swingers club. It's a sex site but you are still being picky. It's amusing. "Not racist but..." "I can't be racist my mates are black" "

Being picky?? It's my choice to be picky about who I have sex with. I'm not a prostitute. I don't have to have sex with just anyone. Jeez.

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By *ay4youMan
over a year ago

Walthamstow

I see beauty in every race and every ethnic background I could never just limit my self to one that would be stupid but I guess that's just me

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"I'm a well known equal opportunity shagger "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our meets have been with black or Asian guys so far but no colour is off limits, just a slight leaning from the both of us in that direction.

Avoided the 50 pence contribution."

Come on that's a preferential leaning and and you know it

I do have a slight preference for dark hair and dark skin myself - oh damn

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Our meets have been with black or Asian guys so far but no colour is off limits, just a slight leaning from the both of us in that direction.

Avoided the 50 pence contribution.

Come on that's a preferential leaning and and you know it

That's what we said, lol.

I do have a slight preference for dark hair and dark skin myself - oh damn "

Exactly! Just not exclusive/excluding which is totally different. No probs with those that do though it's their bodies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sexually attracted to Black/Asian women.

And neither is my dad who is also Black.

I can look at a Black or Asian women and recognise that they are attractive, If I find them attractive.

But it's not sexual attraction.

There is a difference between "attraction" and "sexual attraction/desire".

Imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is the term "a friend of mine" actually you? smh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is the term "a friend of mine" actually you? smh "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is the term "a friend of mine" actually you? smh

"

Haha, no it's not me. I love everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never looked at anyone and used race as a defining factor in finding them unattractive. Listening to people speak oh yes lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see beauty in every race and every ethnic background I could never just limit my self to one that would be stupid but I guess that's just me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see beauty in every race and every ethnic background I could never just limit my self to one that would be stupid but I guess that's just me "

If someone said the same about gender to you would you agree?

Or body weight?

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

If it has a heartbeat we will fuck it or get fucked by it. Simples. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"once the lights go down, even a bbc is just a bc"

Haha brilliant line,

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Like most I don't have a particular race or skin colour or whatever that I always go for or that I won't go near. When I think about it though, I have to admit that I find more caucasian women attractive than I do black, asian etc. When I'm physically or sexually attracted to a person, that's it, I'm attracted to them regardless of race / origin etc. But that attraction does happen more frequently for me among caucasian women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see beauty in every race and every ethnic background I could never just limit my self to one that would be stupid but I guess that's just me "

I would never limit myself to just one but there are some nationalities I just do not find attractive so I can't honestly say its not an issue for me, if I don't find features certain nationalities posses attractive I can't help or change that

I have never had sex with anyone of my own nationality simply because I don't find mediterranean men sexually appealing

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Some of the best sex I have ever had,has been totally anonymous,with people that could have been any nationality,any age (adult)etc.Usually dark room situations..I realise everyone can't do this,so

when it comes down to 'preferences', like others, my choices narrow based on experience etc. Too dark,too light, too fat,too thin,too old,too young, too camp,too rough,too smart,too scruffy,too posh,too working class etc...

That is why blindfolded scenarios work well for me.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"It is weird though. Some of the women should just have a sign hanging around the neck saying "No Coloureds" if they're at a swingers club. It's a sex site but you are still being picky. It's amusing. "Not racist but..." "I can't be racist my mates are black" "

You're a racist if you dont find black men attractive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is weird though. Some of the women should just have a sign hanging around the neck saying "No Coloureds" if they're at a swingers club. It's a sex site but you are still being picky. It's amusing. "Not racist but..." "I can't be racist my mates are black"

You're a racist if you dont find black men attractive?"

Yep and your a homophobe if you refuse to bat for the other team too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is weird though. Some of the women should just have a sign hanging around the neck saying "No Coloureds" if they're at a swingers club. It's a sex site but you are still being picky. It's amusing. "Not racist but..." "I can't be racist my mates are black"

You're a racist if you dont find black men attractive?

Yep and your a homophobe if you refuse to bat for the other team too"

Fuck me...I'm a racist homophobe

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"It is weird though. Some of the women should just have a sign hanging around the neck saying "No Coloureds" if they're at a swingers club. It's a sex site but you are still being picky. It's amusing. "Not racist but..." "I can't be racist my mates are black"

You're a racist if you dont find black men attractive?

Yep and your a homophobe if you refuse to bat for the other team too"

Ah got ya!

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"It is weird though. Some of the women should just have a sign hanging around the neck saying "No Coloureds" if they're at a swingers club. It's a sex site but you are still being picky. It's amusing. "Not racist but..." "I can't be racist my mates are black"

You're a racist if you dont find black men attractive?

Yep and your a homophobe if you refuse to bat for the other team too

Fuck me...I'm a racist homophobe "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is weird though. Some of the women should just have a sign hanging around the neck saying "No Coloureds" if they're at a swingers club. It's a sex site but you are still being picky. It's amusing. "Not racist but..." "I can't be racist my mates are black"

You're a racist if you dont find black men attractive?

Yep and your a homophobe if you refuse to bat for the other team too

Fuck me...I'm a racist homophobe "

Well that's naughty we'll have to find a way to punish you :p

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

No hope for me then, I find bi black men very attractive. Just about to get in the shower with one now ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is weird though. Some of the women should just have a sign hanging around the neck saying "No Coloureds" if they're at a swingers club. It's a sex site but you are still being picky. It's amusing. "Not racist but..." "I can't be racist my mates are black"

You're a racist if you dont find black men attractive?

Yep and your a homophobe if you refuse to bat for the other team too

Fuck me...I'm a racist homophobe

Well that's naughty we'll have to find a way to punish you :p"

That's tricky...i don't take punishment well...I'm not one to relinquish control easily

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