FabSwingers.com forum: Paying!!!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

we have just received a mail about a gangbang we are having on sunday asking how much it would cost him to join us at our hotel room for some fun~!!!!

Bless his little cotton socks it defo looks like he has been taken for a ride somewhere!!

Our reply was we have booked the hotel off our own backs before anyone contacted us . there is no charge or costs to be covered as this is something we are arranging for us to enjoy.

It is quite obvious such things are being set up to make money.

In a situation like ours where we have set it up ourselves we never expect or ask for anything. If we are arranging a specific meet in a hotel we have been asked to share costs before whcih we have happily done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you got the wrong end of the stick and he was asking you to pay for his petrol money to the hotel???? No? Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe you got the wrong end of the stick and he was asking you to pay for his petrol money to the hotel???? No? Lol.

hahahahhaa fuck. We feel so bad now for knocking him back lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopes it goes well for ya xx

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By *ancsMan
over a year ago

_ancs

Ive chatted with a couple on here for a week or so,then we tried to arrange a meet in a hotel in mancs....trouble was when i spoke with the bloke he said "we charge" men to meet and play with his wife!....I fully understand a couple expecting those they meet to contribute to hotels but I was left in no doubt that I was paying for a service ......no thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If I even implied that nicky would have her stilletto sticking out the back of my head.

If we was gonna book a hotel specifically for meeting someone cause neither of us could accom a sharing of the costs is fine.

But we have arranged a gangbang for nicky. no other person was involved in our decision so why should people coming to fulfill what we want have to pay anything towards the cost.

It drives me mad

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By *ancsMan
over a year ago

_ancs

Id say its pure and simple.......they are only on here as a business venture and not the real reason.....adult no strings fun - Ive even had offers from ladies who will meet me........for a fee! - these seem to delete theyre profile after a few days tho

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By *averiMan
over a year ago

Swindon to bristol

"we have just received a mail about a gangbang we are having on sunday asking how much it would cost him to join us at our hotel room for some fun~!!!!

Bless his little cotton socks it defo looks like he has been taken for a ride somewhere!!

Our reply was we have booked the hotel off our own backs before anyone contacted us . there is no charge or costs to be covered as this is something we are arranging for us to enjoy.

It is quite obvious such things are being set up to make money.

I attended a little event recently and was met at the hotel room door by a bloke asking for £50....now its not really the money its the principle....I declined and hastened to the bar before returning home unfulfilled!lol

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By *arker.Man
over a year ago

Rugby

"we have just received a mail about a gangbang we are having on sunday asking how much it would cost him to join us at our hotel room for some fun~!!!!

Bless his little cotton socks it defo looks like he has been taken for a ride somewhere!!

Our reply was we have booked the hotel off our own backs before anyone contacted us . there is no charge or costs to be covered as this is something we are arranging for us to enjoy.

It is quite obvious such things are being set up to make money.

If someone had demanded £50 just like that i would have reported them to the hotel management.

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By *ancsMan
over a year ago

_ancs

if someone tells us on here that they are charging to meet and play are we meant to report them to fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutelty, charging for sex is not permitted on this site, there is a differnece between charging for sex and a contribution to expenses but contributions have to be reasonable not profit making and when your click on the report button there is an option to click "charging excessively for events or meets"

I personally would say "if in doubt report them and let Admin decide" Admin may have had other complaints about the person(s) and have a good idea what is profit making comercial events and what is a fair contribution to costs incurred

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Id say its pure and simple.......they are only on here as a business venture and not the real reason.....adult no strings fun - Ive even had offers from ladies who will meet me........for a fee! - these seem to delete theyre profile after a few days tho"

Or they were pushed by Admin if they were reported.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bless him. I am guessin some people would do. There are some proper organised events though and I know that they do charge.

we just find that too many men get there and then find at that moment a gangbang isnt for them. So we are now quite harsh when we send out invites and we put that their will be other men and cum, so if they are not happy with that can they realise that now. Not on the day.

Good luck with your gang bang. Being a greedy girl is fun. :D

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"bless him. I am guessin some people would do. There are some proper organised events though and I know that they do charge.

Good luck with your gang bang. Being a greedy girl is fun. :D

Katie. x"

We have made it 100% clear there will be cock eberywhere and loads of cum lol

Fingers crossed it all goes well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we have just received a mail about a gangbang we are having on sunday asking how much it would cost him to join us at our hotel room for some fun~!!!!

Bless his little cotton socks it defo looks like he has been taken for a ride somewhere!!

Our reply was we have booked the hotel off our own backs before anyone contacted us . there is no charge or costs to be covered as this is something we are arranging for us to enjoy.

It is quite obvious such things are being set up to make money.

I think it's fairly obvious from experiences like these that the single guys are being used as a money maker sometimes in these events.

Fair play to the OP. Sharing costs is one thing, "£50 to fun someone's wife is getting fairly close to paying for sex."

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

i recieved an email a while back inviting me to a gangbang. Would be six or seven blokes there and tickets were £60. The problem was the lady attending, but not organising was a regular partner of mine. She was making nothing out of the gangbang and was horrified to find out the guy arranging it was charging, she thought it was something they both wanted to do for the fun of it. Needless to say the gangbang didn't go ahead and the guy is no longer on the site.

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is about as wrong as it gets! I fully understand people chipping in to cover costs of the hotel, but thats as far as it should ever go!

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By *ertnbeckyCouple
over a year ago

oldham

nowt wrong with charging we charge

10p a lick

5p a stroke

35p a fuck

and a 45p non returnable deposit any takers?

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By *ancsMan
over a year ago

_ancs

"nowt wrong with charging we charge

10p a lick

5p a stroke

35p a fuck

and a 45p non returnable deposit any takers?

Im up for a couple of quid. . . . . and ill bring my own flask of tea

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By *asicJMan
over a year ago

B24

As single guy I'd always offer to chip in if meeting a couple at a hotel, or at least get the wine/bubbly in, but also agree that there are "couples" on this (and other) sites that use single guys as a money making opportunity.. can't mention any names here obviously, but having been stung once for £25 will be much more careful in the future....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm holding a gang bang event tomorrow night with a friend of mine and all we've asked is that the blokes provide their own condoms & anything they wish to drink. However, we think we may have been let down with venue at the last minute, so I'm gonna be stood in Leeds City Centre with 26 blokes!! Are al fresco gang bangs allowed?!

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By *asicJMan
over a year ago

B24

So long as you don't get caught

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck with your gangbang hope all goes well, I don’t think many would pay money at the door if they didn’t know that it wasn’t all ticket, or you were putting money up front to the cost of the event, asking for money at the door on the night ....I would walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the OP, its funny isn't it how the subject of money in swinging terms, is a bit of a minefield!

As a single lady who likes to attend clubs, if I attend with a man and we go in as a couple, I am saving him money, so sometimes they say, "its okay, I'll pay".

To which I reply "no, lets go halves please", as I don't like to feel indebted to them, or obliged or whatever!

I feel like its crossing a line to involve money, so firmly believe costs should be split equally, that way no favours implied, or owed, happy to play!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

..which is fine, but usually half the couple fee is more than the single lady fee AND much less than the single male fee.

So I'd be offering to pay the difference between whatever you'd have paid anyway and the couples fee.

I've saved you nothing so you're hardly indebted to me, in fact you've saved me money...

...so I owe you!

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Yeah, "sex sells", doesn't it?

Well if you are a single guy, you know what the swingers clubs sting you for, and then there are those who abuse the term "party" for another kind of pay-for-sex experience that is more akin to a free-for-all in a brothel.

No wonder the poor chap has been conditioned to expecting to pay.

I used to belong to a GB group run from a Yahoo site. It made the arrangements for couples in hotel rooms that the guys would contribute to, but that was at cost-share only. That's no different in my book to sharing the cost of a squash court with someone you are having a game with, but to sting the guys for £50 or whatever, is blatant prostitution and totally outrageous.

I feel sad for the guy in the OP who has had bad experiences that lead him into expecting to pay, and I also feel sorry for any couples where the relationship becomes one of part-time pimp and part-time prossie. Not my idea of a way forward at all, but maybe that's just me and my prejudices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"..which is fine, but usually half the couple fee is more than the single lady fee AND much less than the single male fee.

So I'd be offering to pay the difference between whatever you'd have paid anyway and the couples fee.

I've saved you nothing so you're hardly indebted to me, in fact you've saved me money...

...so I owe you!"

Just thinking of all the ways I can collect............

In all seriousness, its just the way I am wired, Very independent!

(And I would be worried thats the only reason you wanted to take me)

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

sharing costs is absolutely right. As for clubs i am a bit old fashioned and i i invited you i expect to pay. Maybe we will play or maybe not. You don't get a shag out of every 'normal date' you go on with a girl do you? But invloving money as payment, tickets, charges etc is totally wrong and takes it away from swinging and into a much murkier area. Am i rambling? Shall i shut up now?

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