FabSwingers.com forum: jealous over meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm putting this out here as I need to just see if I'm the only one whose getting these lovely people who get the hump as you haven't met them but have met other people?!?

So they get the grump.

Why?!?!?!?!?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My god

U wanna try being a bloke on here !

Women are the jealous race

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope....no one I chat to is like that. I haven't got time for all that crap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I've had it before. In his anger he told me he hopes I get raped too

strange, strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I've had it before. In his anger he told me he hopes I get raped too

strange, strange."

What a sad sad person he must be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup. Even when you've had no intention of meeting these folk, apparently being nice to people is "leading them on".

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I get the ones who are twisted that I might have played out last night but not with them - even though the person I plays out with I have known for months not just two days.........you know the ones - send you two messages and think you will do them right here -,right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we dont but we used to chat to some that saw there arse cos we met someone to play before we played with them - blimey our people to see list is quite long but still of on one night we happen to click with someone we just met or chatted to and we can all meet up we do - there isnt an order - hopefully we will all get our turn with the others - Sx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are quite a few like that . Sarcastic messages when you get verifications. Sod them. They obviously having met you yet for a reason. Plus there are loads of yummy people on here that would get my attention first. Worst ones are the ones you have met that just assume you can drop everything and meet them again. Erm nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're trying to pressure you into meeting them, i find this creepy and would block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are usually pleased I met someone else instead of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealously is a funny one one here. I get twinges of it occasional. But I make sure it never gets the better of me and remember what fab is all about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's sometimes a case of me first,not so much jealousy. There are things we have to take into consideration when meeting that not everyone thinks about.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm dreadful at encouraging ladies I have sex with to have sex with other people.... No jealousy here!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yup. Even when you've had no intention of meeting these folk, apparently being nice to people is "leading them on". "

We eventually put a line in our profile that says a friendly message doesn't mean we'll meet.

Men complain that their messages don't get answered but it can be very difficult to respond to a friendly message with one that's equally friendly without giving the "wrong" impression. I dunno, you're damned if you do and damned if you don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just think I couldn't get jealous in a swinging capacity. Far too laid back and low maintenance for that. Have had a few comments, even at socials where just talking to another person, they're just a bit embarrassing aren't they.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always said, I dont care who meets who..before or after me

of course I also think people who are on 'friend' list etc, should do more to meet each other if thats the basic idea of being friends...I hate seeing a 'friend' continually posting up for a meet.....

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I'm very clear with folk that my meet time is limited, and its a long haul to actually meet.

I've had a few people ask why I have met x y or z and won't meet them... and my reply is its nothing to do with them who I meet. If they really push it, they get blocked.

I've also had the accusation of being a timewaster because I refused to meet when it suited them, but had wasted their time chatting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't quite understand why any one on here, a sex site, would be jealous of basically strangers! Now partners you can understand if one was slightly insecure about being on here or even a long term fb but any one else????

Just how i see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm very clear with folk that my meet time is limited, and its a long haul to actually meet.

I've had a few people ask why I have met x y or z and won't meet them... and my reply is its nothing to do with them who I meet. If they really push it, they get blocked.

I've also had the accusation of being a timewaster because I refused to meet when it suited them, but had wasted their time chatting!"

exactly

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By *o_added_sugarWoman
over a year ago

A club not so many miles away

And not forgetting the ones who you have already met you once, think it's their god given right to be able to 'have another go' when ever it suits them and get the huff if you don't actually want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is one of the reasons I don't display my verifications, because I got endless "you said you weren't meeting but you met so and so" messages. Aargh, get a life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gues it depends if you have decided before hand you gonna meet but then they keep displaying veris but never meet you lol. I gues that's a way to make some jealous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm very clear with folk that my meet time is limited, and its a long haul to actually meet.

I've had a few people ask why I have met x y or z and won't meet them... and my reply is its nothing to do with them who I meet. If they really push it, they get blocked.

I've also had the accusation of being a timewaster because I refused to meet when it suited them, but had wasted their time chatting!"

2 o'clock..south pier...dont be late or am reporting u.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"I gues it depends if you have decided before hand you gonna meet but then they keep displaying veris but never meet you lol. I gues that's a way to make some jealous

There are loads of people I'd love to meet that I chat to... but time, distance and commitments make it difficult.

Meeting and displaying other veris is not about making them jealous - thats kinda f'd up and childish in my view, its about using the site the way that works for me - and thats to meet people when it suits.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"I'm very clear with folk that my meet time is limited, and its a long haul to actually meet.

I've had a few people ask why I have met x y or z and won't meet them... and my reply is its nothing to do with them who I meet. If they really push it, they get blocked.

I've also had the accusation of being a timewaster because I refused to meet when it suited them, but had wasted their time chatting!

2 o'clock..south pier...dont be late or am reporting u."

Its now 2.23 - I was there at 2pm, where the hell were you, ya timewasting sod???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always said, I dont care who meets who..before or after me

I've told you already......you're too far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I gues it depends if you have decided before hand you gonna meet but then they keep displaying veris but never meet you lol. I gues that's a way to make some jealous

jealous of not getting a shag? ..

I prefer it more of being a measure of ones time being wasted..

I've defriended quite a few lately...just on the premise they dont appear to want to meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm very clear with folk that my meet time is limited, and its a long haul to actually meet.

I've had a few people ask why I have met x y or z and won't meet them... and my reply is its nothing to do with them who I meet. If they really push it, they get blocked.

I've also had the accusation of being a timewaster because I refused to meet when it suited them, but had wasted their time chatting!

2 o'clock..south pier...dont be late or am reporting u.

Its now 2.23 - I was there at 2pm, where the hell were you, ya timewasting sod???

sorry I had a flat tyre, and there was no reception in timbucktoo...I'm waiting now....do u do anal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always said, I dont care who meets who..before or after me

I've told you already......you're too far away

I'd travel just for ur fanny..so shut it

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We offered one guy a meet, he said he'd try and rearrange work to do it and then never came back to us. So we went to a club instead and then got numerous messages about the AMAZING meet he'd had instead of us. Good luck to him, we haven't wasted time on him again. But had other guys message who seem to want exclusivity, not going to happen

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

sorry I had a flat tyre, and there was no reception in timbucktoo...I'm waiting now....do u do anal?"

Yeah, I even provide lube so it doesn't hurt you too much... now bend over, grab those ankles and assume the position!

I don't do jealousy with my lover - we are both open, so why on earth would I get jealous of strangers on a website?

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

"Yup. Even when you've had no intention of meeting these folk, apparently being nice to people is "leading them on".

We eventually put a line in our profile that says a friendly message doesn't mean we'll meet.

Ah man, I missed that line in your profile, probably cos of being distracted by your pics, hell fire!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And not forgetting the ones who you have already met you once, think it's their god given right to be able to 'have another go' when ever it suits them and get the huff if you don't actually want to

Couldn't agree more !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry I had a flat tyre, and there was no reception in timbucktoo...I'm waiting now....do u do anal?

Yeah, I even provide lube so it doesn't hurt you too much... now bend over, grab those ankles and assume the position!

I don't do jealousy with my lover - we are both open, so why on earth would I get jealous of strangers on a website?"

parts cheeks on this fishy coast..just hope I dont get a flying mackerel in my arse

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

"This is one of the reasons I don't display my verifications, because I got endless "you said you weren't meeting but you met so and so" messages. Aargh, get a life!"

So this is why you won't meet me?!? My apologies for being a jealous cunt and asking why you met all them other cunts and not this one...(runs off weeping to get a life because yet again Anna has shattered my dreams)...do I at least get a sympathy meet or shall I carry on weepily running?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is one of the reasons I don't display my verifications, because I got endless "you said you weren't meeting but you met so and so" messages. Aargh, get a life!"

display mine please...I want everyone jealous as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is one of the reasons I don't display my verifications, because I got endless "you said you weren't meeting but you met so and so" messages. Aargh, get a life!

she said paddy before sofia...so fuck off....unless ya fancy a mff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I gues it depends if you have decided before hand you gonna meet but then they keep displaying veris but never meet you lol. I gues that's a way to make some jealous

jealous of not getting a shag? ..

I prefer it more of being a measure of ones time being wasted..

I've defriended quite a few lately...just on the premise they dont appear to want to meet me"
Yes I would agree of being time wasted instead of the shag lol, happened to me to few times as well.

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

"This is one of the reasons I don't display my verifications, because I got endless "you said you weren't meeting but you met so and so" messages. Aargh, get a life!

she said paddy before sofia...so fuck off....unless ya fancy a mff

No problem at all, I'll quite happily fuck off away from you, now where was I....

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

"This is one of the reasons I don't display my verifications, because I got endless "you said you weren't meeting but you met so and so" messages. Aargh, get a life!

I'm still running and now sobbing Anna, not gonna be able to go much further cos I'm not fit enough for this...(where's the over dramatic, running and sobbing emoji when you need it?!)

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

"And not forgetting the ones who you have already met you once, think it's their god given right to be able to 'have another go' when ever it suits them and get the huff if you don't actually want to

Couldn't agree more !!"

These are the ones I get most trouble from. Once we've met, expect to be at their beck and call. Found myself making excuses then thought why the hell am I doing that? Puts me off meeting anyone new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is one of the reasons I don't display my verifications, because I got endless "you said you weren't meeting but you met so and so" messages. Aargh, get a life!

I'm still running and now sobbing Anna, not gonna be able to go much further cos I'm not fit enough for this...(where's the over dramatic, running and sobbing emoji when you need it?!)

Can you keep running to Newcastle with a quick pit stop somewhere to pick us up a man to play with?

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

"This is one of the reasons I don't display my verifications, because I got endless "you said you weren't meeting but you met so and so" messages. Aargh, get a life!

I'm still running and now sobbing Anna, not gonna be able to go much further cos I'm not fit enough for this...(where's the over dramatic, running and sobbing emoji when you need it?!)

Can you keep running to Newcastle with a quick pit stop somewhere to pick us up a man to play with?

I can't run 3 minutes on a treadmill Anna let alone run to somewhere that's 3 hours away in a flaming car! Jeez woman, you don't ask for much do ya!?

Play with? I just wanted to meet! I knew the 'persistently pestering her til She gives in and agrees to meet you, even if it means having to add a bloke into the equation cos she thinks you won't be enough for her but what she doesn't realise is that you'll pay the fella to sit back and have a cuppa once she's blindfolded and absolutely have your way with her and give her a bloody great time without leaving her unsatisfied as she thinks she would alone and she won't know any different' plan would eventually work! Any old man will do yes?! I know tall is a preference but anything else?

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