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Very bad experinace at a club

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By *aysmit OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall

Last year I was at a West Midlands swinging club when a guy made a nasy comment about my cock size to his wife and 4 other couples who they was with Im not hung but not small but it made me feel terrible hope nonody else experces what I did male or female xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry that happened to you mate.

but gotta ask if this happened last year what made you post this now??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of a delayed reaction

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By *aysmit OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall

I only joined this site 2 weeks ago also put me off swinging x

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Sorry to hear that. That is a really shitty thing to do to another human being. Try not to let it knock your confidence, try again at a different club and I'm sure you'll have a great time. After a few good visits youll forget the bad experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about it. The guy proved what a big cock he is with childish comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been swinging for about 2 years and we think size does not matter... It's personality that matters more in the swinging world. And of course the usual hygiene etc.. But don't let it affect you mate... Xx

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By *aysmit OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall

Thank you all xx

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

He was probably using you to make himself feel better...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry

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By *reedyGirlVWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

Says more about him than you! What a douche!

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Unfortunately there are arseholes in every walk of life.

Sticks and stones and that jazz, don't let him put your off the clubs, let it hang free and show everyone your damn proud of it. Lol. Good luck.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Last year I was at a West Midlands swinging club when a guy made a nasy comment about my cock size to his wife and 4 other couples who they was with Im not hung but not small but it made me feel terrible hope nonody else experces what I did male or female xx "
Sadly quite a few people make nasty comments about various things in life . Ijust ignore words as they do not hurt . Why worry about what others think.?.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I hope you replied,

'Verily sir, whilst thee may perceive me to have a small cock, you, sir, are a gigantic cunt.'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope you replied,

'Verily sir, whilst thee may perceive me to have a small cock, you, sir, are a gigantic cunt.' "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope you replied,

'Verily sir, whilst thee may perceive me to have a small cock, you, sir, are a gigantic cunt.' "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't allow it to become a big problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will never be the biggest member of any club either but I couldn't care less.

If you're naturally self conscious then perhaps a swinging club is not the best place to hang out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U wanna see these sad fukers when your cocks bigger than there's and there wifes staring at u and he drags her away and u dont see them again !

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By *imherukCouple
over a year ago

fun town

damn I would of loved to have been there that day with the mrs. id love a room full of couples and hung guys to ridicule my pathetic cock

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By *esperatewifeWoman
over a year ago

Spalding

If its any consolation clubs can be horrible places, I have left in tears the last few times so don't go any more xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a pic of it next to a sky remote but shove your balls down as far as possible to make it look bigger. Also tie a piece of string or squeeze it really tight to make it bulge & turn a funny colour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in Chams and an old guys started making rude comments about tattoos in the smoking area, I'm covered in them.

I politely said he was entitled to his opinion.

Is rudeness got me chatting to a very sexy lady who asked me if I was ok. Who I ended up having lots of fun with

So I can't complain

Just ignore it. You have people like that in all walks of life. There insecure about themselves so have to belittle other people to make themselves feel better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was in Chams and an old guys started making rude comments about tattoos in the smoking area, I'm covered in them.

I politely said he was entitled to his opinion.

Is rudeness got me chatting to a very sexy lady who asked me if I was ok. Who I ended up having lots of fun with

So I can't complain

Just ignore it. You have people like that in all walks of life. There insecure about themselves so have to belittle other people to make themselves feel better"

I've witnessed some down right despicable behaviour at some clubs of people slagging others off. A good friend was made to feel low because larger lady started calling him fat and ugly. I've also been slagged off and attacked at a party so I wouldn't say it just happens at clubs.

My advice don't let it bother you, easier said than done I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U wanna see these sad fukers when your cocks bigger than there's and there wifes staring at u and he drags her away and u dont see them again !"

Because all a woman would want is a big cock? There's usually a few spare bellends of various sizes trailing around clubs.

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"Last year I was at a West Midlands swinging club when a guy made a nasy comment about my cock size to his wife and 4 other couples who they was with Im not hung but not small but it made me feel terrible hope nonody else experces what I did male or female xx "

School bully syndrome. He was with a gang of his mates and you were a vulnerable single...He thought he could show off how big he was by ridiculing you, knowing that there's only one of you and 10 of them.

Shame that these kind of scum can't be reported and banned from clubs but it's a sad reality that in the swinging world couples are precious and "can do no wrong" and single guys are 10 a penny and some couples think that they are "disposable".

It's been a year, I hope you've let time heal the wound and can move on from this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't this a copy of that oriental dudes thread a few weeks ago?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you hear that nasty comment

Were you in a relaxed or were you standing to attention? As we all know the size of a relaxed penis is completely different. So making a judgement comment when someone is flaccid is completely wrong.

Also the vaginal opening only has stimulating nerve endings on the first 3" of wall. Anything above a 4" penis in length won't hit any nerve endings that a 3" Hasn't already ttouched.

Many women Don't like too long a penis as they don't like the pain of their cervix being battered and bruised, chances are even having a 12" penis your unlikely to be able to insert the whole length into a woman anyway, so where's the benefit?

I have a 6"-7" penis and I've been told I'm a 'comfortable size'. My natural curve helps me around the corner to touch the g spot.

I can cope with being Mr average, Mr modest and Mr comfortable. As opposed to Mr unusable, And Mr painful.

Obviously some woman prefer bigger but that's something they have gotten used to over time. Sometimes, having kids desensitises the vaginal walls.

If you know how to keep the ladies happy then your perfectly sized

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

I always think you can't help the way you were born but you choose they way you act

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I can cope with being Mr average, Mr modest and Mr comfortable. As opposed to Mr unusable, And Mr painful.

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Funny you say "I can cope with being Mr average" right after claiming to be 2 inches bigger than average.

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By *andy andy69Man
over a year ago

worksop ish

similar happened at a well known sheffield club when girl i was with. her bj technique was criticised ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember, the great thing about the swinging community is that you will meet people of all shapes and sizes. Both my partner and I believe passing horrible judgements like that have no place in this world, even more so in a club. Hope it doesn't impact you going forward. Best of luck

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By *ngie1962Couple
over a year ago

Bedford


"Last year I was at a West Midlands swinging club when a guy made a nasy comment about my cock size to his wife and 4 other couples who they was with Im not hung but not small but it made me feel terrible hope nonody else experces what I did male or female xx "
happenened to me Friday couple made a comment about me in front of hubby which they didn't realise at the time he just turned round and said you had better leave or else that's my wife you're talking about

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By *andy andy69Man
over a year ago

worksop ish

really angie

but yr gorgeous ????probably jealousy

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By *ngie1962Couple
over a year ago

Bedford

Thank you I'm glad I didn't hear what they said but it still hurts especially when it's said in front of others at the club

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By *andy andy69Man
over a year ago

worksop ish

am sure ....

u might of pop one on the nose lol

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By *ngie1962Couple
over a year ago

Bedford

I wouldn't but hubby would have but didn't want to cause a scene in club and spoil the night

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By *andy andy69Man
over a year ago

worksop ish

exactly.

in sheffield it was a regular who said the girlx technique was rubbish. when i spoke to manager he said hmmmm she gets away with what she wants ...... never been back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last year I was at a West Midlands swinging club when a guy made a nasy comment about my cock size to his wife and 4 other couples who they was with Im not hung but not small but it made me feel terrible hope nonody else experces what I did male or female xx

School bully syndrome. He was with a gang of his mates and you were a vulnerable single...He thought he could show off how big he was by ridiculing you, knowing that there's only one of you and 10 of them.

Shame that these kind of scum can't be reported and banned from clubs but it's a sad reality that in the swinging world couples are precious and "can do no wrong" and single guys are 10 a penny and some couples think that they are "disposable".

It's been a year, I hope you've let time heal the wound and can move on from this."

I'm slightly offended by the way it sound like your saying all couples are the same. Many people defend single guys in here, especially when they are tarred with the same brush, I think it's only fair not to tar all couples with the same brush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He did say some couples not all couples.

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

My definition of bullying is putting someone down to make yourself feel better and this fits firmly within that definition. It's his problem not yours.

You can't do anything about what the good lord gave you but at the same time i am sure that most people would change something about their physical appearance if they could.

Was at a club recently where a guy with a micro cock got into the hot tub. I am sure that everyone noticed but no one said anything and engaged with him as much as any one else. Try and find nice people to socialise with at clubs and show them that you are a decent guy. If it has knocked your confidence too much accept that clubs might not be for you and maybe try socials. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He was probably using you to make himself feel better...

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Think we hit the nail on the head here

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