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We don,t want to be called waster,s

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By *aneandpaul OP   Couple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Hi we put a message on to meet yesterday got so many people wanting to meet us it,s impossible to get back to them all.

Think were we went wrong we should have taken the message off when we went out to meet our new friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry about it. If you're a single fem or couple you're going to get tons of messages regardless.

If you do change your mind though, it's easy enough to remove your message. Probably just worth baring in mind for next time

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By *aneandpaul OP   Couple
over a year ago

cleveleys

thanks for the message

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Answer their messages and maybe meet with them another time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi we put a message on to meet yesterday got so many people wanting to meet us it,s impossible to get back to them all.

Think were we went wrong we should have taken the message off when we went out to meet our new friend "

Yes you probably should have , but you live and learn

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

Don't fret

It's a lesson learned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you hadn't actually arranged to meet those others that messaged you, you're not timewasters.

Although as you yourselves say, might pay to take down the meet advertisement next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi we put a message on to meet yesterday got so many people wanting to meet us it,s impossible to get back to them all.

Think were we went wrong we should have taken the message off when we went out to meet our new friend "
bloody timewasters! I have to find out on here? Tut tut no shame some couples!

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Sometimes people post a 'sorted for tonight...thanks for all the messages' status thing... I guess that's one way of telling everyone at once what the situation is

You weren't time wasting though, so don't worry

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"If you hadn't actually arranged to meet those others that messaged you, you're not timewasters.

Although as you yourselves say, might pay to take down the meet advertisement next time."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just post a status update that you all fixed up and that everyone for their interest,remove the meet request. That's all you can realistly do.

What winds me up is members who post a meet today then stay offline for the next 24hrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot if the people who will of messaged you will not have even bothered to read your profile. Its the nature of fab. Can't see how you can be labelled a time waster. You haven't agreed to meet them only put a meet request up. If they think your a waster then that's their problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Alot if the people who will of messaged you will not have even bothered to read your profile. Its the nature of fab. Can't see how you can be labelled a time waster. You haven't agreed to meet them only put a meet request up. If they think your a waster then that's their problem."

Sadly some will say your a time waster because you decided to meet someone better suited to your needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah i usually take mine down within 10 mins of putting it up ever since one guy i didn't reply to accused me attention seeking by putting it up (i hadn't replied to him).

I know it's mainly down to them not understanding how people have choices and don't have to fuck everyone who messages them, but still does your head in.

I agree if you didn't arrange a meet then you wasted nobodies time, and the meets who think you are time wasters are impatient or don't understand how things work for other people so probably best avoided anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not time wasting.

but I wish that when people put up such messages on a frequent basis that theyd at least take a note of the potential meets...have a look at the profiles and possibly see about future meets.

I dont think anyone, especially females,women should really need to post a meet up that frequently...even worse when they complain they get too much mail but post up consistent meets...

baffling really lol...maybe some get off on the attention..

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