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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we have a free house tonite! we can accomadate too,were willing to travel as well and were just had so many messages from single men an couples giving us the run around? what do these ppl want?~

Beginning to think this site is now dwindling badly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're inviting them to your home you're in control. If they can't accept that then they're not worth your time.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I don't do last minute meets, so perhaps some people would prefer a bit more notice and chance to get to know you beforehand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phew .... After trying to read your whole profile we are exhausted !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As said before, maybe they'd rather get to know you a little more before they turn up at your doorstep.But ( as long as it is ) your profile is good with great pics so im sure something will crop up, Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

were expereinced and no exactly what we want as we have the balls to to do private meets! we've given ppl plenty of time even days ago! even spoke to a bloke over the phone and it was all sorted for tonite then decides to pull out....oh and guess what that bloke as put a meet back on...so answer me that~?.....timewaisters galore!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"were expereinced and no exactly what we want as we have the balls to to do private meets! we've given ppl plenty of time even days ago! even spoke to a bloke over the phone and it was all sorted for tonite then decides to pull out....oh and guess what that bloke as put a meet back on...so answer me that~?.....timewaisters galore!!"

Seems like there's a lot on here :/ we were stood up recently too

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

In all my time on the site, I have never met a time waster - one guy told me on the morning of a social that he wouldn't be free, but that wasn't time wasting, thats just life - things crop up more important than a meet with a stranger from a web site.

Perhaps look at your selection criteria if you are finding a lot of people like that - as you are the only constant.

For what its worth, the couples I have met and played with - I've always had a social somewhere neutral first - for my own safety, and would never meet at someones house first off.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

What we do is a "social with the hope of play" so a social in a pub near our house, which is low pressure, but if everything clicks then you are nice and close to a place you can play. Maybe that would help your success. It could be a bit intimidating for your potential play mates to come directly to your house the first time they meet you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

tbh we havent the time for socials as we can do that with vanilla friends!

when we have a free house and were genuine swingers who r full swap who have alot of veris to proove otherwise i cant really see whats the hold up? it down to having experience to meet us but why is single men prepared to meet?~...we dont tarr every single man with the same brush but most single men are willing to come in a drop of a hat without asking anything about us!

Were a couple an would like to messaged as couple not ...'' your mrs looks well fit''...wtf??

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Its funny isnt it.... Single guys get a hard time for not having much on there profile... Couples/fems get a hard time for having to much!!!!

So ted, what exactly DO people want?

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"Its funny isnt it.... Single guys get a hard time for not having much on there profile... Couples/fems get a hard time for having to much!!!!

So ted, what exactly DO people want?"

Btw... I have absolutely no idea who 'Ted' is... I think it should say....yes

Haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its funny isnt it.... Single guys get a hard time for not having much on there profile... Couples/fems get a hard time for having to much!!!!

So ted, what exactly DO people want?"

You've just hit the nail on the head there hun thank god someones got a brain xx

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"In all my time on the site, I have never met a time waster - one guy told me on the morning of a social that he wouldn't be free, but that wasn't time wasting, thats just life - things crop up more important than a meet with a stranger from a web site.

Perhaps look at your selection criteria if you are finding a lot of people like that - as you are the only constant.

For what its worth, the couples I have met and played with - I've always had a social somewhere neutral first - for my own safety, and would never meet at someones house first off. "

Ive never met one either... Coz they messed me about before meeting them haha

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"Its funny isnt it.... Single guys get a hard time for not having much on there profile... Couples/fems get a hard time for having to much!!!!

So ted, what exactly DO people want?

You've just hit the nail on the head there hun thank god someones got a brain xx"

Please dont think its any easier for single fems... Coz trust me it isnt... Well unless you will just meet anything.

Ive wondered just recently why i bother looking? Im pretty careful about who i arrange meets with any tend to go with just verified people but have had a few let downs with them to, and they are the ones who have asked me!!

I think there are many more fantasists than real folk lol

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Right now...I want a bacon sandwich.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"Right now...I want a bacon sandwich."

That sounds sooooooooo good!!!!

But... Ive no bacon and ive had my bread allowance for today!!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right now...I want a bacon sandwich.

That sounds sooooooooo good!!!!

But... Ive no bacon and ive had my bread allowance for today!!! Lol"

So? be a devil, grab that bacon.......lay it on that soft pillow of fluffy white thick sliced, loads of brown sauce.......you know it makes sense

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its funny isnt it.... Single guys get a hard time for not having much on there profile... Couples/fems get a hard time for having to much!!!!

So ted, what exactly DO people want?

You've just hit the nail on the head there hun thank god someones got a brain xx

Please dont think its any easier for single fems... Coz trust me it isnt... Well unless you will just meet anything.

Ive wondered just recently why i bother looking? Im pretty careful about who i arrange meets with any tend to go with just verified people but have had a few let downs with them to, and they are the ones who have asked me!!

I think there are many more fantasists than real folk lol"

you have just summed it up there hun spot on! more fantasists than real folk like ourselves x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's always tomorrow.........

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London


"Phew .... After trying to read your whole profile we are exhausted ! "

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"Right now...I want a bacon sandwich.

That sounds sooooooooo good!!!!

But... Ive no bacon and ive had my bread allowance for today!!! Lol

So? be a devil, grab that bacon.......lay it on that soft pillow of fluffy white thick sliced, loads of brown sauce.......you know it makes sense"

No!!!!! I will not do it.. Im going to be strong!!!

And just eat the cheese savourys instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am watching slow train thru afrika on itv1+1

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You have to make the most of life as you never know whats rd the corner? why wait another day..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it works for you, fair play. Fill ya boots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if this has been said but from reading your profile you sound like you want a drop of the hat meet.

That's not going to suit many people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just up the road from you and would have been interested with notice. However your profile is confusing. Your all about the couples or single fems. Think you only mention males near the very end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am watching slow train thru afrika on itv1+1 "

lol shag.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

tbh we've had a meets an events up since tuesday to travel..then we've had our teenage daughter so off foe the nite so changed the meets to ' our place'..tbh it wont make any difference as we have been prepared to travel all week with no joy! we dont expect anyone to drop there hat for us but we' rather give the opportunity for some people who cant meet at there place to meet us at ours if that makes any sense!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"tbh we've had a meets an events up since tuesday to travel..then we've had our teenage daughter so off foe the nite so changed the meets to ' our place'..tbh it wont make any difference as we have been prepared to travel all week with no joy! we dont expect anyone to drop there hat for us but we' rather give the opportunity for some people who cant meet at there place to meet us at ours if that makes any sense!"

Perfect sense to me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am watching slow train thru afrika on itv1+1

lol shag. "
lol good show tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why we just go to clubs so much easier than this online stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am watching slow train thru afrika on itv1+1

lol shag. lol good show tho "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"tbh we've had a meets an events up since tuesday to travel..then we've had our teenage daughter so off foe the nite so changed the meets to ' our place'..tbh it wont make any difference as we have been prepared to travel all week with no joy! we dont expect anyone to drop there hat for us but we' rather give the opportunity for some people who cant meet at there place to meet us at ours if that makes any sense!"

I'm making a massive assumption here..

But I'm guessing you **might** be coming across to people as too pushy.

I'm getting those sorts of vibes reading this thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's why we just go to clubs so much easier than this online stuff "

i hear wat u saying guys? but we've been to swinging clubs for many years and its been mainly a social because there r not alot of full swap people...were sick of going to clubs drinking all nite chatting to everyone then nothing happens! we dont expect anything but when u go week after week you have to question yourselves?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"tbh we've had a meets an events up since tuesday to travel..then we've had our teenage daughter so off foe the nite so changed the meets to ' our place'..tbh it wont make any difference as we have been prepared to travel all week with no joy! we dont expect anyone to drop there hat for us but we' rather give the opportunity for some people who cant meet at there place to meet us at ours if that makes any sense!

I'm making a massive assumption here..

But I'm guessing you **might** be coming across to people as too pushy.

I'm getting those sorts of vibes reading this thread."

you have totally got us wrong hun! were the most genuine down to earth cpl u could wish to meet! we hate pushy people so were not going to be pushy with other folks! just because we say it how it is doesn't make us pushy??

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By *oasted cheese sandwichMan
over a year ago

Nearby


"Right now...I want a bacon sandwich.

That sounds sooooooooo good!!!!

But... Ive no bacon and ive had my bread allowance for today!!! Lol

So? be a devil, grab that bacon.......lay it on that soft pillow of fluffy white thick sliced, loads of brown sauce.......you know it makes sense"

Don't forget brown sauce

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's why we just go to clubs so much easier than this online stuff

i hear wat u saying guys? but we've been to swinging clubs for many years and its been mainly a social because there r not alot of full swap people...were sick of going to clubs drinking all nite chatting to everyone then nothing happens! we dont expect anything but when u go week after week you have to question yourselves? "

I hear what your saying I really do lol, we are lucky that we have met some decent compatible people who we do repeat meets with go to clubs with and so on, but it's always nice to meet new people but we don't always get what we want when we want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to clubs and find a real person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's why we just go to clubs so much easier than this online stuff

i hear wat u saying guys? but we've been to swinging clubs for many years and its been mainly a social because there r not alot of full swap people...were sick of going to clubs drinking all nite chatting to everyone then nothing happens! we dont expect anything but when u go week after week you have to question yourselves?

I hear what your saying I really do lol, we are lucky that we have met some decent compatible people who we do repeat meets with go to clubs with and so on, but it's always nice to meet new people but we don't always get what we want when we want"

We hear what your saying..but...we like to meet new people! know u dont always get what you want but we've been advertising for meets for weeks with more than enough notice.

its just when your giving people so many options for instance..ie..were prepared to travel..and also giving folks the opportunity to meet at ours as some folks cant play at there house for family reasons...So its not like were pushy at all? but you expect with so many options available from us you'd expect someone genuine enough to want a good time..not alot to ask on a swinging site is it really? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agree with this couple, it's more like friends reunited than a swinger site some people are lucky to get one night a mth to do as they please. people should show up!

and if someone offers you into thier home, you suspect the worst? Wow no wonder fab is getting a rep! Ffs site supporters?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"agree with this couple, it's more like friends reunited than a swinger site some people are lucky to get one night a mth to do as they please. people should show up!

and if someone offers you into thier home, you suspect the worst? Wow no wonder fab is getting a rep! Ffs site supporters? "

well said hun

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

It might be a controversial thing to say, but is the problem too many non-swingers on here?

Too many, "I'm not a swinger, I'm just a..... ". Too many fakes, wannabes , cheats etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It might be a controversial thing to say, but is the problem too many non-swingers on here?

Too many, "I'm not a swinger, I'm just a..... ". Too many fakes, wannabes , cheats etc."

Glad u said it hun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people don't want to meet you it's hardly the site's fault...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are very much like the op .

This is our third time on fab , and this time we have pretty much done away with trying to arrange meets in advance .

We go dogging , but with a difference . We often just meet people from fab at the location , have fun , and love this way of playing .

Tonight we met 3 guys from fab , and had a brilliant night .

On weds night , 4 guys and a couple from from fab .

It works for us , and never a bad night .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Phew .... After trying to read your whole profile we are exhausted ! "

Did you actually read it all?

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