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how did you couples become swingers together?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

come on people let's hear some stories of how you and your partners became swingers?

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

We talked about it for years. My OH said "let's go to Cupids for your birthday (2014 ). We went before we joined FAB (quite glad about that as could only see club reviews as non-members and the vast majority are positive).

We had a play with another couple in the couples room on our third visit and had our first actual meet (MFM) the next day.

The rest is history.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

oo sounds good! :p who made the first initial suggestion about it? was it a shock to the other person?

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By *earlyNipsCouple
over a year ago

St Neots

I (M) discovered mojoupgrade. For those who are unfamiliar, on mojoupgrade you have a big ol' list of sex questions from the very vanilla (do you like French kissing?) to the very extreme(do you like scat?), and you have four options to pick: "Yes I do", "no I don't", "not my thing but I'd do it for the other person", and "we already do this". You fill it in honestly and send it to your partner to do the same. Once complete, it'll only show you the answers you've both selected "yes" to, so if you want to do water sports, say, and your SO doesn't then she will have no idea if you clicked yes or not.

So we both filled this out, and it showed we both liked the idea of swinging, which was interesting to say the least. This led on to many conversations about it and then led to visiting our first club in August last year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we met on here as singles about four and a half years ago - after a couple of years decided to add in more fun - had some meets at home and some in clubs - love it all

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By *ngel delight 69Woman
over a year ago

Torquay

God only wish I could find a man like thatxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

alcohol, sex talk, more alcohol, more sex talk..

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By *ipswingCouple
over a year ago

portrush

had a friend staying ...i asked sweetlady could he join us... and discovered, that we all enjoyed...

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"I (M) discovered mojoupgrade. For those who are unfamiliar, on mojoupgrade you have a big ol' list of sex questions from the very vanilla (do you like French kissing?) to the very extreme(do you like scat?), and you have four options to pick: "Yes I do", "no I don't", "not my thing but I'd do it for the other person", and "we already do this". You fill it in honestly and send it to your partner to do the same. Once complete, it'll only show you the answers you've both selected "yes" to, so if you want to do water sports, say, and your SO doesn't then she will have no idea if you clicked yes or not.

So we both filled this out, and it showed we both liked the idea of swinging, which was interesting to say the least. This led on to many conversations about it and then led to visiting our first club in August last year. "

That's fucking genius, that website!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watched a programme on TV about nudists this in turn with google ended up at swinging sites. After a few vodkas we went to local club to look then she got really into it and we've been doin it now and again ever since

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've just looked at that as well haha! who'd have thought about that website!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"come on people let's hear some stories of how you and your partners became swingers? "

We met at a club.. both swung as singles and had done for a while.. And we just kinda ended up inseparable...

I now struggle to play as a single as I find the dynamics of couples play so much different and more exciting and intense than just meeting for sex as a single x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I (M) discovered mojoupgrade. For those who are unfamiliar, on mojoupgrade you have a big ol' list of sex questions from the very vanilla (do you like French kissing?) to the very extreme(do you like scat?), and you have four options to pick: "Yes I do", "no I don't", "not my thing but I'd do it for the other person", and "we already do this". You fill it in honestly and send it to your partner to do the same. Once complete, it'll only show you the answers you've both selected "yes" to, so if you want to do water sports, say, and your SO doesn't then she will have no idea if you clicked yes or not.

So we both filled this out, and it showed we both liked the idea of swinging, which was interesting to say the least. This led on to many conversations about it and then led to visiting our first club in August last year. "

Brilliant idea! Just gotta find myself a partner first !

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

We used to meet up in a layby as I was married at the time. One day while we were playing a guy appeared at the window and started wanking. We did this a few times, then one day we decided to wind the window down and it sort of went from there..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here as singles and never looked back

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

I know I'm not a couple

Never have been

But I'm telling you anyway

I joined sites like this after my husband had an affair and we mutually agreed I would kick him out

Lol

I had 3 children living at home

Didn't need or want a boyfriend because I didn't want them seeing a stream of uncles

But I needed cock

So this is how I came to be annoying you Lot lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D*unken threesome with a female friend

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

We started on night we had 2 other couple friends round for dinner.My hubby is very good at poker having won a lot of competitions and been on tv playing 3 times and one of the other guys wanted to learn the game. Sowe all sat down for a game and with a lot of drink involved we ended up playing strip poker which then when you were naked progressed to dares.

We enjoyed so much me and the hubby have been swinging ever since

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Met on here and from our first meet everything clicked .... could not imagine anything else now .... moving in together next month, including merging families

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By *ustrousLoversCouple
over a year ago

Crosskeys

NYE party with vanilla friends, got a bit carried away, realised we both loved it and a few years later here we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met on here and from our first meet everything clicked .... could not imagine anything else now .... moving in together next month, including merging families "

Fair play. Wish you all the best.

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By *ane_andrew69Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

Had talked about it as bedroom talk for a few years.

Then one day we were in park and I was playing with her and a guy sat opposite and started to watch. I told Jane and she seemed to just get even more excited so I exposed her completely to him and she loved it. He ended up joining us and that's how it all began

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By *ench and StripeCouple
over a year ago

Stenalees

Knew Elle was bi almost from the day we met. Once over the initial new cpl nerves realised we where both adventurous. Had discussed the idea a little then had a few d*unken 4somes with old friends. Cut forward about 8 years and we where free from so obligations keeping us vanilla. So decided to get out and find some new playmates.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We first met when we were both in the process of divorcing our exes. When talking about our past lives it became obvious we both very keen on sexual variety, so he suggested we visit a swinger club to see what it was like. We had only been having sex together for a few weeks at that stage. We both loved clubbing and have been swinging regularly ever since. Not long after we moved in together and later married. Started off our relationship by swinging from almost the start; it works for us, lots of fun sex without deceit or jealousy.

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

We spoke about it for a short while and after much discussion regarding our boundaries we decided to give this lifestyle a go. -Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's what happened to me with my ex wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London


"I (M) discovered mojoupgrade. For those who are unfamiliar, on mojoupgrade you have a big ol' list of sex questions from the very vanilla (do you like French kissing?) to the very extreme(do you like scat?), and you have four options to pick: "Yes I do", "no I don't", "not my thing but I'd do it for the other person", and "we already do this". You fill it in honestly and send it to your partner to do the same. Once complete, it'll only show you the answers you've both selected "yes" to, so if you want to do water sports, say, and your SO doesn't then she will have no idea if you clicked yes or not.

So we both filled this out, and it showed we both liked the idea of swinging, which was interesting to say the least. This led on to many conversations about it and then led to visiting our first club in August last year. "

Surely if you didn't receive answers which you knew you replied to then you know your partner didn't agree

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Me and Kim were shooting movies years before we started swinging, we always thought swingers were these weirdo's who thru their keys in a bowl etc.

Once we were corrupted into swinging we ain't looked back since lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started doing this with my ex husband

Basically we started meeting other couples to get sex as we didn't have sex together

Probably not the reply that's expect but that's how it was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I (M) discovered mojoupgrade. For those who are unfamiliar, on mojoupgrade you have a big ol' list of sex questions from the very vanilla (do you like French kissing?) to the very extreme(do you like scat?), and you have four options to pick: "Yes I do", "no I don't", "not my thing but I'd do it for the other person", and "we already do this". You fill it in honestly and send it to your partner to do the same. Once complete, it'll only show you the answers you've both selected "yes" to, so if you want to do water sports, say, and your SO doesn't then she will have no idea if you clicked yes or not.

So we both filled this out, and it showed we both liked the idea of swinging, which was interesting to say the least. This led on to many conversations about it and then led to visiting our first club in August last year.

Brilliant idea! Just gotta find myself a partner first ! "

What she said lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had heart failure and we thought it best that my wife began hotwifing rather than get sexual pleasure behind my back. Plus I'd always enjoyed cuckold porn and stories of her dalliance.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

We got married very young i was 17 Paul 19 it started with reading girly magazines in bed the stories and letter,s turned us both on lot,s of pillow talk told Paul not to push me i would when it felt right. Just wanted to see what another cock felt like

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