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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What sort of opening is a good one in an email to others on here?

This is for us newer ones

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

"hello" seems to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""hello" seems to work"

anything original and shows you have read a persons profile. Polite and well thought out.

starting with hello is always good though lol

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

.

And certainly not

Wanna fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And certainly not

Wanna fuck"

Would you like a fuck?

Is that better?

Spelling and punctuation sorted.

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By *ichNjudyCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

[Removed by poster at 05/06/09 09:56:29]

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By *ichNjudyCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Yes, but sorting this put grammatically as well, shouldn't that be 'Would you like to fuck?' as the fuck in this instance is a verb and not a noun.

That should get the desired result.... most likely. lol

xxxx

Ju & Rich

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"Yes, but sorting this put grammatically as well, shouldn't that be 'Would you like to fuck?' as the fuck in this instance is a verb and not a noun.

That should get the desired result.... most likely. "

add a smiley face and i reckon its perfect ! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noun, used in the same context as 'Giving you one'; with the one being the noun.

Ta.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What sort of opening is a good one in an email to others on here?

This is for us newer ones "

A top tip would be to have a good look at the profile as they seem to fall into two distinct types.

The ones to contact generally are well written, polite but to the point, realistic and do not intimidate.

The ones to avoid seem to always start with a statement in capitals about what they want and do not want. They then go onto tell you no face pic and I block you, wink and I block you, unwanted pm's and I block you in fact breathing as far as some are concerned is a blockable offence.

Another top tip is to keep your eyes glued to these forums as that will give you a pretty good feel with regard to some of the feminine stazi that prowl these pages.

What ever happens best of luck but develop a tough hide pdq as the life of a single guy in here is often very very uncomfy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use the contacts names,at least it will give the impression your message is personal and not one of a dozen copies.

Make sure you've read the profile too,not just perved the pic's.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting point on the CAPITALS and list of demands so to speak....lol

As a poster mentions, it tough being a single man on here, develop some thick skin...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BRACE YOURSELF!

This could explain why i don't have a lot of luck here.

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By *achaCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"What sort of opening is a good one in an email to others on here?

This is for us newer ones

A top tip would be to have a good look at the profile as they seem to fall into two distinct types.

The ones to contact generally are well written, polite but to the point, realistic and do not intimidate.

The ones to avoid seem to always start with a statement in capitals about what they want and do not want. They then go onto tell you no face pic and I block you, wink and I block you, unwanted pm's and I block you in fact breathing as far as some are concerned is a blockable offence.

Another top tip is to keep your eyes glued to these forums as that will give you a pretty good feel with regard to some of the feminine stazi that prowl these pages.

What ever happens best of luck but develop a tough hide pdq as the life of a single guy in here is often very very uncomfy "

one verification in over a year and you think anyone will listen to your advice?

MY advice is just be yourself and dont look for pre-scripted message.

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i tell you what does not work HEAVY CUMMER VERY VERY BIG COCK GOOD REAPETER OH SHALL I GO ON ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just be polite and have some manners yes its a swinging site but we are all human and talk to people as you would want them to talk to you dont be like all the wankers on here babe be different and let me tell you i does work xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

one verification in over a year and you think anyone will listen to your advice?

MY advice is just be yourself and dont look for pre-scripted message.

x"

Reported for being abusive, what pertinence has this comment to this thread?

Why even mention the other user, why not just answer the question as posed in the original post?

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By *achaCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"

one verification in over a year and you think anyone will listen to your advice?

MY advice is just be yourself and dont look for pre-scripted message.

x

Reported for being abusive, what pertinence has this comment to this thread?

Why even mention the other user, why not just answer the question as posed in the original post?"

ah bless ya! you doing that because we weren't interested in you and blocked you for constanly inboxing us?

lol.

x

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By *ichNjudyCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

mmmm be polite yet straight to the point.

'Now look, I don't want to beat about the bush here....... oh well actually, yes, I do'

lol

xxxxx

Ju & Rich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

one verification in over a year and you think anyone will listen to your advice?

MY advice is just be yourself and dont look for pre-scripted message.

x

Reported for being abusive, what pertinence has this comment to this thread?

Why even mention the other user, why not just answer the question as posed in the original post?"

I suspect that they rather felt that they fell into the second category with regards to the advice we offered and took it rather personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

ah bless ya! you doing that because we weren't interested in you and blocked you for constanly inboxing us?

lol.

x"

Don't be conceited enough to think that this was personal, I have reported lots of people for being abusive, and, as displayed above, not necessarily against me.

I complimented an answer you gave in the forum, I didn't want to meet you; as I tried to explain to you in simple terms yesterday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I suspect that they rather felt that they fell into the second category with regards to the advice we offered and took it rather personally.

"

I can well understand it; I complimented a post they made in the forum, they inferred that I wanted to meet them, starting using strange acronyms which I didn't understand and became abusive when I queried.

I don't know how bright they are. As you, and the rest of the forum, can probably tell from their posts here.

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By *achaCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"

...I didn't want to meet you; as I tried to explain to you in simple terms yesterday.

"

yeah, because we wanted to meet you but you declined.

boo hoo.

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

...I didn't want to meet you; as I tried to explain to you in simple terms yesterday.

yeah, because we wanted to meet you but you declined.

boo hoo.

x"

What?

Please stop this, I'd happily carry on this discussion, without hijacking somebody's thread, if you start another thread marked FAO: Greg

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By *achaCouple
over a year ago

manchester


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I don't know how bright they are. As you, and the rest of the forum, can probably tell from their posts here."

the old psycho-analyzation of someone on the internet never fails to amuse.

thanks for the laugh!

i'm outta here..

good luck

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What sort of opening is a good one in an email to others on here?

This is for us newer ones "

We forgot to say watch out for those folk with an inflated ego, if they appear "up their own arse" online there is a better than even chance they are like that in real life to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just had a msg from a single guy

can i ask you somethin

i said yes so his next msg was wanna see what i can do anally with a lynx can

now thats a good opening if ever i heard one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one verification in over a year and you think anyone will listen to your advice?

MY advice is just be yourself and dont look for pre-scripted message.

x"

Ah bless you guys.

Lets see we display one verification from an extremely well know member of the midlands swinging scene, in fact we may well see him again this evening if he is working in Chams. He simply states he has met us as a couple, we have not played and what he thought of us.

And you have a couple of webcam meets..........lol outstanding guys lol

Any real folk going to Chams this evening? See you there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just had a msg from a single guy

can i ask you somethin

i said yes so his next msg was wanna see what i can do anally with a lynx can

now thats a good opening if ever i heard one "

Scroll up and you will see he has been at this for ages, he sent similar to us and to Honeypot, just humour him and he will eventually drift away

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By *1dKingColeMan
over a year ago

east london


"

one verification in over a year and you think anyone will listen to your advice?

MY advice is just be yourself and dont look for pre-scripted message.

x

Reported for being abusive, what pertinence has this comment to this thread?

Why even mention the other user, why not just answer the question as posed in the original post?"

They/she has a 'history' of posts on a number of sites, nothing has changed here!

Measuring people by their own yard stick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they mailed me then blocked me, hehe , i thought it was amusing, funny how some people have so much time on their hands to spend it being total utter pricks

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