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By *aturetemptress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Knutsford

Is a 30 year + too much of an age gap ?

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Hell no! Never. If there's a mutual attraction then that's all that matters.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

For me it would be ,but if you're happy to meet them then go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For what?

If your partners 12 and you are 42 i'd say a big yes it's important.

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Too much for who? Others to digest or the couple themselves?

Personally i think if the couple are happy irrespective of age then bless them both.

Obviously as long as they are both over eighteen. Lol.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Is a 30 year + too much of an age gap ?"

if the guy can get it up at 97yo then fair play to you both

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By *arkb400Man
over a year ago

manchester

You certainly look younger than your profile states. If your both having fun why not.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I think people worry too much about what other people may think. Stuff 'em I say. What's it got to do with them anyway?! You do whatever you fancy doing to be happy.

I'd love to find a woman 30+ years older than me

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

And if a 37yo guy can walk around with you on his arm, then he is a very lucky man.

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By *aturetemptress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Knutsford

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I seemed to do ok with a girl 20 years my junior last week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say I was 30 a 60 year old would be too old for me.

Do what makes you happy

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff


"For what?

If your partners 12 and you are 42 i'd say a big yes it's important."

I agree, unless it's that sort of situation why does age have to matter? I've been with guys where the age gap was bigger than that. Some people may go "Ewww" at that but older does not equal a pile of wrinkly skin and bones. Age is just a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is a 30 year + too much of an age gap ?"
most certainly not!

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By *r_and_MrsxxCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *r_and_MrsxxCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Wouldn't worry about age gap, enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the age of the person is irrelevant and if there is mutual attraction why can't you have fun together.

One of the most important things is the fact your can communicate and have a laugh together and then the rest just all fits naturally. OP from what I can see on your profile you look fabulous so just enjoy what comes your way and have fun x

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

If everyone involved is happy; why bother what others think .... Just enjoy !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not...i regularly meet a girl 27 years younger...like some have said...age is a number...its others perception of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As already said, if there's an attraction there, then who cares as long as it's legal

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By *obka3Couple
over a year ago

bournemouth

I have a friend who is 66 and is seeing a girl who is 29, she is perhaps a bit naive, nothing illegal about it but it just feels wrong to me, he has kids older and doesnt want more so this girl wont be able to have any unless she leaves and in ten years she may become his carer not his lover, when I split with my first wife I had a very brief fling with a girl of 28, I was 41, while it was great for my ego and my mates were jealous I am glad it ended, mind you if we were swing and a 28 yr old wanted to have a shag then I would force myself

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

I dont think that i would want a partner with a 30 yr age gap but for sex it doesnt matter to me

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

can not believe how many young guy,s want to meet an older couple for adult fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i reckon someone 37 is mature enough to decide they like someone 67.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"For me it would be ,but if you're happy to meet them then go for it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can not believe how many young guy,s want to meet an older couple for adult fun"

If there is an attraction why should you be put of by a mere number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 28 when I started an affair with a 48 year old lady and we're still together 20 years later. Age has nothing to do with i.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

No... just enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be for me but that's just my preference for myself

For others you do what you feel happy with

So long as your both consenting adults and happy that's all that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hell no! Never. If there's a mutual attraction then that's all that matters."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a problem at all. Many benefits of dating older women. For instance, supplies of Werthers Originals, tales of yesteryear and a free TV license if co-habiting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, yes...For you or others, then it's up to you or them

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"i reckon someone 37 is mature enough to decide they like someone 67. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally, as long as they are 10 years older than my eldest then I don't see a problem with it. however I seem to attract the older ladies at the moment

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Is a 30 year + too much of an age gap ?"

Personally for me, yes it would be.

As for others, I think whatever works for them and makes them happy.

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By *aunchy21Couple
over a year ago

dub

If there are attraction, it's all good !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its ok. I once had fun with a 57 year and I am 32

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Is a 30 year + too much of an age gap ?"

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 48 and if a 18yo female wanted to have some fun with me, I wouldn't turn her down if compatible.

If she wanted more than fun I would run a mile !

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

For sex? No.

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By *lligator3Man
over a year ago

Dundee


"Is a 30 year + too much of an age gap ?"

Not at all...oh quick question is one of them 110 years old?

Na just teasing if both consenting then it's about you two, forget the haters x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not atall im 26 and love older women

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No one else's business, as long as you two are happy that's all that matters

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By *ralpleaseMan
over a year ago

El Campello, Alicante

I would be happy as a pig in shit with a 30 to 40 year old. If its ok for men the same goes for ladies. BTW i would wear your panties if you wanted.

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By *hettoslutWoman
over a year ago

Brixton

just a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my own rule. No younger than my kids so 23. And no older than my dad so 65. Dont think it makes so much of a issue. Know a few very immature 40+ men and some yummy 28 year olds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle with meets alot because of this, I understand that's what the age range is there for but it's still frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a number

if you're attracted and feeling that connection then age doesn't matter

Enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as both people are mature enough to make their own decisions then nothing else matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no dunno why people get so caught up in age, we all grow old we all die, our lives are over in a blink in comparison to the rest of the universe

why would you care how old your partner is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is a 30 year + too much of an age gap ?"

It's clearly something you've already considered and come to the realisation that it doesn't matter, so not at all.

Personally I'm not a fan of older women, but that likely means I've yet to meet one that I fancy.

Give it a go or you'll never know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not a problem at all. Many benefits of dating older women. For instance, supplies of Werthers Originals, tales of yesteryear and a free TV license if co-habiting."

not forgetting winter heat allowance lol

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By *tmmCouple
over a year ago

harlow

Well there's nearly 40yrs between us so if 30 is too much I guess we're going to hell lol

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By *umbriaman1962Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith

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By *umbriaman1962Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith


"I have my own rule. No younger than my kids so 23. And no older than my dad so 65. Dont think it makes so much of a issue. Know a few very immature 40+ men and some yummy 28 year olds"

I find older men 40 plus talking about going with 18 year olds creepy

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By *nknownCallerMan
over a year ago

Bath

Easiest way to test if you'd fancy someone 30 years older than yourself, is to go somewhere you know there will be a concentration of people that age & see if you truly fancy any of them.

This should vastly cut down on any potential flibble-flabble.

To see if you'd fancy anyone 30 years younger, make sure you're in your very late 40s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is a 30 year + too much of an age gap ?"
asking as both people are enjoying there selves who cares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is not just a number as a lot of you have stated. It us a state of mind and if two minds connect at the same level then the nu.bers shouldn't matter.

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