FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Verifications - important or not ?

For example

How important are they to you when deciding whether to meet someone or not ?

If someone is verified but chooses not to show them would that reduce your interest in them ?

What type information do you think you consciously or subconsciously take from them?

Just curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually follow the verification trail to see if they are real and have a idea on the type of people they meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is our second profile, we took some time out and rather than just hide it we decided to delete altogether. Our last profile was around 2-3 years old and had a handful of veris, some social some more so. We decided if we were starting afresh we wouldn't be contacting old meets to re-verify us as it wasn't important to us.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I look to see if they have some and are actually showing them, then I make my decision on whether I can be arsed to meet or not.

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

"I usually follow the verification trail to see if they are real and have a idea on the type of people they meet"

^^^This

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

They have their uses but then so does a well written profile, carefully constructed messages, great photos and gut instinct. I've met newbies as well as folk with more veris than I could ever trawl through, even if I wanted to. Everyone uses the veri system differently and that's fine. I choose to show some and hide others due to poor reaction (from folk I'd never want to meet in the first place!) and a wish for discretion. Those who don't like what they see can move onto the next profile - there are plenty of folk on site and there's someone for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Just tells me that they are the sex they state on their profile. Most women do not pretend to be men here, so really applies to 'couples' and single women

Other than that, it tells me if they actually meet

I don't pay much attention to the words. That I will decide for myself, if I ever meet them

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Essential for guys.

Everyone else they are not at all important for.

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

Verifications are important to us too. Like one of the responses above we also look at the verification trail which may speak volumes.

And if any one wants us as a friend and they've been on here a year or more with no verification, well, what does that tell you??? Best avoid....

Yes, they are important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep pretty essential for us single guys...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Essential.

However too many can be a bit of a turn-off. Plus those that are verified within minutes of being on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very important .

Hidden veris could be webcam which are worthless .

Wouldn't dream of meeting a couple or a single girl who has been on the site for over a month if they had no verifications .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Part of the toolkit and often give us an idea of who people meet that might give an indication that we're their type...cam verification is worthless and if someone has a long list of cam ones, it has, in our experience given a clue to the likelihood of them actually meeting. Other than that, that they have at least turned up to a meet at least once, are what they claim to be, couples single female..

The content isn't that important other than,gives the best blow job ever in which case, I won't bother trying to compete, or people claiming to play safe and a veri states that they've filled them up brimful of man gravy..

Multiple verifications from just one person can be off putting, a little too territorial for my peace of mind...

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

I go by them, see what they write about their meets to see what they are like as well as what people write about them. You have to allow for people who cannot really say what they want to say and read between the lines, good or bad. I am not keep in publishing everyone I meet, but like to show what people thought of me as a person, not the details of sex and the meet. I think they can saga lot about the personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually follow the verification trail to see if they are real and have a idea on the type of people they meet"

Ditto.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually follow the verification trail to see if they are real and have a idea on the type of people they meet"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I usually follow the verification trail to see if they are real and have a idea on the type of people they meet

Ditto.

Oh dear. I hid all of mine except for the most recent one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand why the need to see what kind of people they've met before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications sometimes put me off. If I wish to meet someone I will follow their verification trail a little. If they have already met the sexiest woman on Fab, or received the best blow job in the world then I avoid...how can I compete with that? Despite knowing what fab is about, when I meet I want to be made to feel like the sexiest woman etc...even if just for that meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say they were essential, but they can help to form a picture of someone. Some things in them I take with a pinch of salt as they're often written in a post orgasmic glow when someone is hoping for Round 2, but they can shed a bit of light sometimes if there are common themes/interests mentioned in them. And sometimes I'll look at the verifier to, but more out of curiosity than anything...unless their profile says something I really don't like, such as will only play bareback.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I could show my "steve is a shit shag" veri!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could show my "steve is a shit shag" veri!

Ooh, go on!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I could show my "steve is a shit shag" veri!

Go for it !

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I don't show mine but can see why people feel they are important... Sometimes , reading them, it is unclear who is being verified, the writer or the subject...Some appear to be nothing more than self advertising.

I think there are a few people on the site who are very genuine who don't bother or like verifications, so may seem like they may not be real.

Whatever works for individuals, really

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

There you go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could show my "steve is a shit shag" veri!

That's a classic

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Verifications are important to us too. Like one of the responses above we also look at the verification trail which may speak volumes.

And if any one wants us as a friend and they've been on here a year or more with no verification, well, what does that tell you??? Best avoid....

Yes, they are important."

The ones who don't have any verifications after a year are the ones who don't think these are important at all. One just has to take their word that they are female or a 'couple'

Afterall, no bloke on FabS has ever conjured up a female profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There you go

Ha ha love it !!!

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Verifications are important to us too. Like one of the responses above we also look at the verification trail which may speak volumes.

And if any one wants us as a friend and they've been on here a year or more with no verification, well, what does that tell you??? Best avoid....

Yes, they are important.

The ones who don't have any verifications after a year are the ones who don't think these are important at all. One just has to take their word that they are female or a 'couple'

Afterall, no bloke on FabS has ever conjured up a female profile

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Surely no verifications after a year will arouse suspicion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually follow the verification trail to see if they are real and have a idea on the type of people they meet"

This ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications are important to us too. Like one of the responses above we also look at the verification trail which may speak volumes.

And if any one wants us as a friend and they've been on here a year or more with no verification, well, what does that tell you??? Best avoid....

Yes, they are important.

The ones who don't have any verifications after a year are the ones who don't think these are important at all. One just has to take their word that they are female or a 'couple'

Afterall, no bloke on FabS has ever conjured up a female profile

I didn't have any for almost a year, because I signed up for the site then didn't use it.

When I decided to use the site I just used the same profile rather than making a new one.

Sometimes I feel like I'm penalized for honesty there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There you go

Did you get to shag a sheep & was it a more enjoyable experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tend to look for as much information as possible on an interesting profile and veri's tend to provide a good insight

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'm nosy so always look at them as part of my decision process.I wouldn't decide purely on veries though as i like to make my own mind up.

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By *itTVlondonTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Very important; unless it s a newie with no veris - in which case I need to talk to them on phone/skype and screen them pre-meet; I would also need to see more pics of them (if they don t cam) if there are few or no veris

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

I've met verified and unverified people with mixed results in both groups. I tend to get a feel for someone through a bit of chat and take it from there.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Verifications are important to us too. Like one of the responses above we also look at the verification trail which may speak volumes.

And if any one wants us as a friend and they've been on here a year or more with no verification, well, what does that tell you??? Best avoid....

Yes, they are important.

The ones who don't have any verifications after a year are the ones who don't think these are important at all. One just has to take their word that they are female or a 'couple'

Afterall, no bloke on FabS has ever conjured up a female profile

I didn't have any for almost a year, because I signed up for the site then didn't use it.

When I decided to use the site I just used the same profile rather than making a new one.

Sometimes I feel like I'm penalized for honesty there..."

Not many here are honest. Most female and 'couples' profiles are fakes

The only way I can be reasonably certain that I am exchanging messages with another woman is if I see verifications from two or three different people who have met her in-person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide mine for one i dont always react with some meets the same as others and people actually messaged my verification meets asking for tips to get me to chat with them.

I think it proves we are genuine.

But some people who just do a few social meets or events are not always what we think they are.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"I go by them, see what they write about their meets to see what they are like as well as what people write about them. You have to allow for people who cannot really say what they want to say and read between the lines, good or bad. I am not keep in publishing everyone I meet, but like to show what people thought of me as a person, not the details of sex and the meet. I think they can saga lot about the personality."

That's very true and a point often overlooked by critics of the verification system. Some consistent comments about personality and demeanour rather than just on the sexual gymnastics of the meet can help to give a more useful and rounded account and summary of the person or couple.

Regarding numbers of verifications, I think a fair _iew that report those traits are helpful and these are the ones to display.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

We always look at the verification's to see what,s been said it helps a lot

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My 'shit shag' veri is a joke one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can be useful but in no way essential - can also be a nuisance hence we hae recently hid ours due to someone being silly

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I find verifications useful, to see if the person(s) meet socially and have had recent meets. Not arsed about reading them all, or the people who they have met previously.

I tend to avoid those with umpteen webcam veri's, with not meet veri's as that comes across as only interested in cyber sex. I have however met a couple of people socially who have had no verifications, so don't always rule the newbies out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Essential for guys.

Everyone else they are not at all important for. "

I always verify single guys it's essential to them one guy we know has over 400

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use them as mothing more than a guide then gut instinct kicks in and then after nessaging you get more idea.

Ultimately for me though is unless all parties will speak on phone prior to meeting then there is no chance of meeting as no one gets my address so easy.

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

"I wouldn't say they were essential, but they can help to form a picture of someone. Some things in them I take with a pinch of salt as they're often written in a post orgasmic glow when someone is hoping for Round 2, but they can shed a bit of light sometimes if there are common themes/interests mentioned in them. And sometimes I'll look at the verifier to, but more out of curiosity than anything...unless their profile says something I really don't like, such as will only play bareback. "

Yes, good response,

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Pretty important for us, shows thy are real. We too follow the verification trail and a couple of years ago found one 'couple' had two profiles and certified themselves. The fact 'they' used the same photos on both profiles showing a single man on his own rather gave the game away!

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

"I usually follow the verification trail to see if they are real and have a idea on the type of people they meet"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually follow the verification trail to see if they are real and have a idea on the type of people they meet"

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By *nknownCallerMan
over a year ago

Bath

I find the majority of them thoroughly entertaining

& they remind me of those peculiar readers letters that used to get published in 80s bongo magazines

So by my own admission there, I guess they're a medium to yet again judge people.

I'm sure they're just to verify people are genuine though, so if I saw a profile that had 10veri's that just said "Met, nice, good laugh & would meet again" I'd find it sufficient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How does a guy get a verification if people won't meet you without a verification?

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By *uestandpinkCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Spot on re the trail....and no pics too etc xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How does a guy get a verification if people won't meet you without a verification?"

Make an effort and go to big organised socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

veris are a pile of shite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Part of the toolkit and often give us an idea of who people meet that might give an indication that we're their type...cam verification is worthless and if someone has a long list of cam ones, it has, in our experience given a clue to the likelihood of them actually meeting. Other than that, that they have at least turned up to a meet at least once, are what they claim to be, couples single female..

Multiple verifications from just one person can be off putting, a little too territorial for my peace of mind...

This speaks volumes. Damned if you do damned if you don't. Verifications and people's interpretations are simply another way of pre judging people.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

Not if they're local no

I wouldn't travel to anyone who had none

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How does a guy get a verification if people won't meet you without a verification?

Make an effort and go to big organised socials."

What makes you sure he isnt making an effort?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not if they're local no

I wouldn't travel to anyone who had none "

I think that's a sensible way to look at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How does a guy get a verification if people won't meet you without a verification?

Make an effort and go to big organised socials.

What makes you sure he isnt making an effort?"

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

I thought it was important to get them in the beginning, but now I prefer it without...

Also I never send messages...

I kind of like the idea that I may not be real.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

after the first or second, a waste of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who will verify me... I'm new so meet needed but who wants to meet a unverified fab?

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

Veris are good to ID the person as legit....although we'd meet the unverified..we were unverified at one point.you need to start somewhere..

Best verification I've read was "avoid at all cost,shit shag,shit banter,and a tiny cock"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"avoid at all cost,shit shag,shit banter,and a tiny cock"

They showed it

Had to be a joke

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

Veris are important to me. I look for parallels between the profile and what people have said.

I also like to see what that person leaves for others. Crass, crude verifications with too much information put me off.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

""avoid at all cost,shit shag,shit banter,and a tiny cock"

They showed it

Had to be a joke

I hope it wasn't!

He did have a I don't give a fuck attitude though...

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