FabSwingers.com forum: Do you trust anyone who want to film you having fun with wife or hubby for their private use only ?

By *ieutenant OP Man
over a year ago

london

With era of porn revenge spreading like wide fire.will you consent to someone filming you for their private use.

Sorry folks call me old fashioned guy. Many couples and singles have asked me if I like to be filmed? But I declined the request, due to privacy issue. Yes there are some genuine people who just need to film for their home use only.

Will you accept to be filmed at any time if such request was put forward prior to meeting. Won't you have second thoughts regarding where the film may end up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will you accept to be filmed at any time if such request was put forward prior to meeting. Won't you have second thoughts regarding where the film may end up? "

No, I wouldn't let anyone film me. If I'm not in a long term relationship with someone, I don't trust them not to show the footage to their mates. Or the internet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes wouldn't bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't trust anybody, even if they sound and prove trustworthy, people are unpredictable, stay safe... I would prefer watch others not myself, for me it's boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't remember what thread this is. I was about to say something, no doubt profound and thoughtful. The phone rang and now I've forgotten what I was doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay. Got it. I don't trust filming. Always worried that they won't get my best side. Or even worse, poor lighting and sound.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Never in a million years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would trust only if that person would use my equipment and would be there purely to operate it and should have no chance to make a copy for hers/his own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would trust only if that person would use my equipment and would be there purely to operate it and should have no chance to make a copy for hers/his own."

I've done something similar for a couple I met a few years back - used their camera to film them having sex. They kept the film, no copies made, everyone's happy.

To directly answer the OP, no I wouldn't risk being filmed by anyone other than trusted long term partners (and even that can be risky!) for all of the reasons you and others have said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Done it many a time, and really enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time anyone could film me is if we had built a trustworthy friendship over a good amount of time. I don't have sex with just anyone anyway, but there definitely has to be some strong trust there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have some 'fab' friends who like to film our antics and I am comfortable with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if I can wear my Freddy Krueger mask.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

I'm not bothered but then again, it's my hubby filming anyway

He likes to take pics with the rare vid but always shows them to the guy to prove his face isn't captured and to get approval for posting or keeping. The one guy we do have face pics of is our long term regular, but after 5 years of meeting him I guess he trusts us by now

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

My first 3sum was with a really nice couple but I regret the filming. We got on great over drinks and adjourned to their plush Hotel suite. I got there to find about 3 video cameras set up as well as a still camera. I got it on with Mrs and it was mostly very enjoyable apart from her getting d*unk from too much wine and ending up 'unwell'. But all Mr did was film and take photos. After we finished they promised me we would meet up again and watch together. I never heard from them again despite calling. I now hate the fact all that filming is possibly out there. OK they may have deleted it by now but I am still not that keen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just get my partner to hold the camera

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always have a camera when we play. Any single guys invited are told in advance that the photos are for personal use.

If they are unhappy with that then we will invite someone else.

On the other hand it is a strict no if they want to bring their own camera.

I appreciate there are double standards operating here but that's our preference & so far we have never encountered a guy saying no.

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

"We always have a camera when we play. Any single guys invited are told in advance that the photos are for personal use.

If they are unhappy with that then we will invite someone else.

On the other hand it is a strict no if they want to bring their own camera.

I appreciate there are double standards operating here but that's our preference & so far we have never encountered a guy saying no."

Pretty much the same for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never ever.....

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By *heeriskingMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I've been more than happy for hubby to film the fun. Had a watch of the footage the next time i met up.

If i trust a couple enough to meet them then i trust them enough to film and take pics.

Andy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes both ways.

I would be happy to be filmed and also we are big fans of filming but any videos we make from meets permission is granted and no faces are shown,if they are it's ours and never enough to be recognised.

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"We always have a camera when we play. Any single guys invited are told in advance that the photos are for personal use.

If they are unhappy with that then we will invite someone else.

On the other hand it is a strict no if they want to bring their own camera.

I appreciate there are double standards operating here but that's our preference & so far we have never encountered a guy saying no."

Not a singly guy saying no? I don't doubt you for a second but I think we all know what the pull factor is. Defo not the camera.

I guess one sure way to know is to give them the option of choosing camera or no camera and then may I add, no ultimatum. Then you will have the true picture.

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By *hyguyMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

It's ok by me

Love to meet couples who film the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We always have a camera when we play. Any single guys invited are told in advance that the photos are for personal use.

If they are unhappy with that then we will invite someone else.

On the other hand it is a strict no if they want to bring their own camera.

I appreciate there are double standards operating here but that's our preference & so far we have never encountered a guy saying no.

Not a singly guy saying no? I don't doubt you for a second but I think we all know what the pull factor is. Defo not the camera.

I guess one sure way to know is to give them the option of choosing camera or no camera and then may I add, no ultimatum. Then you will have the true picture.

We are not naïve. lol

But it suits us. Like I said I am perfectly aware of the double standards operating & if a guy takes a principled stand & says no then he can party with someone else. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only if I can wear my Freddy Krueger mask. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to take pictures and vids when we do meets but only using our camera. We do send copies of the ones we like to them afterwards tho. This way we can control what other people can see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never allow it...!!!

But talking of trust - I once had a nice meet with a couple at their home, only to find out later that they'd filmed it all with mini spy cameras hidden all around the room - so be careful who you trust..!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"We always have a camera when we play. Any single guys invited are told in advance that the photos are for personal use.

If they are unhappy with that then we will invite someone else.

On the other hand it is a strict no if they want to bring their own camera.

I appreciate there are double standards operating here but that's our preference & so far we have never encountered a guy saying no.

Not a singly guy saying no? I don't doubt you for a second but I think we all know what the pull factor is. Defo not the camera.

I guess one sure way to know is to give them the option of choosing camera or no camera and then may I add, no ultimatum. Then you will have the true picture.

We are not naïve. lol

But it suits us. Like I said I am perfectly aware of the double standards operating & if a guy takes a principled stand & says no then he can party with someone else. Simple.

I see. Does that include if he doesn't like bareback? I couldn't help noticing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We always have a camera when we play. Any single guys invited are told in advance that the photos are for personal use.

If they are unhappy with that then we will invite someone else.

On the other hand it is a strict no if they want to bring their own camera.

I appreciate there are double standards operating here but that's our preference & so far we have never encountered a guy saying no.

Not a singly guy saying no? I don't doubt you for a second but I think we all know what the pull factor is. Defo not the camera.

I guess one sure way to know is to give them the option of choosing camera or no camera and then may I add, no ultimatum. Then you will have the true picture.

We are not naïve. lol

But it suits us. Like I said I am perfectly aware of the double standards operating & if a guy takes a principled stand & says no then he can party with someone else. Simple.

I see. Does that include if he doesn't like bareback? I couldn't help noticing it.

Unlike some on this site we are perfectly open about our likes & dislikes.

It is only a problem if you bounce your preferences on people at the last moment. Whether that is cameras or condoms.

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

We have done it once during a threesome...We wore suits and she wore this hot dress. We then wore masquerade masks to fit in with the theme. That way nobody can be identified and we all managed to have fun. The video will never go anywhere...but if it did its not the end of the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would only do it wearing a mask or hood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With era of porn revenge spreading like wide fire.will you consent to someone filming you for their private use.

Will you accept to be filmed at any time if such request was put forward prior to meeting. Won't you have second thoughts regarding where the film may end up? "

We occasionally enjoy filmng the fun but wouldnt let anyone film us.

We keep it for a few weeks then shred to military standard( we're paranoid lol)

we keep it on our laptop which is Bitlocker protected in a another (diff 20 key password) bitlocker protected virtual disk in the form of a Trucrypt protected file.

Not even Obama over at the Whitehouse have a quick tug watching Pips lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My first 3sum was with a really nice couple but I regret the filming. We got on great over drinks and adjourned to their plush Hotel suite. I got there to find about 3 video cameras set up as well as a still camera. I got it on with Mrs and it was mostly very enjoyable apart from her getting d*unk from too much wine and ending up 'unwell'. But all Mr did was film and take photos. After we finished they promised me we would meet up again and watch together. I never heard from them again despite calling. I now hate the fact all that filming is possibly out there. OK they may have deleted it by now but I am still not that keen."

3 cameras! Sound a bit keen. Bit too much effort to be for personal use! What happened to the shakey Iphone effect. Usually good enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no no no!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck no! Sadly, some are naiive enough to go ahead with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what's nice about drawing people, you get all the pleasure of the moment, the exhibitionism and the voyeurism... but the evidence is limited to a set of drawings which those being drawn can decide what to do with... i.e. no evidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never! Even in long term relationships I've never allowed pics/vids to be taken. I can't see what the benefit is to anyone plus I really wouldn't want to watch myself fucking.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

Done it in the past, somewhat trust the couples, but then again that is the past and somewhat explainable if evidence gets out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd never allow it...!!!

How did you find out?

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By *iguy39Man
over a year ago

manchester

You just know it will end up on youporn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust NO ONE. Suspect Everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy send me a vid of someone the other day that he was fucking!! I told him that wasn't fair and he shouldn't do that as I have no idea if she even knows he's showing people! Not nice.

I let one guy film me once but my face isn't in it, I saw it before I let him keep it, wouldn't do it again

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By *ieutenant OP Man
over a year ago

london

"I've been more than happy for hubby to film the fun. Had a watch of the footage the next time i met up.

If i trust a couple enough to meet them then i trust them enough to film and take pics.

Andy"

Really? Just because you are able to meet up. You base your trust on that. Well I respect you for your honest _iew

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By *ieutenant OP Man
over a year ago

london

"We always have a camera when we play. Any single guys invited are told in advance that the photos are for personal use.

If they are unhappy with that then we will invite someone else.

On the other hand it is a strict no if they want to bring their own camera.

I appreciate there are double standards operating here but that's our preference & so far we have never encountered a guy saying no.

Not a singly guy saying no? I don't doubt you for a second but I think we all know what the pull factor is. Defo not the camera.

I guess one sure way to know is to give them the option of choosing camera or no camera and then may I add, no ultimatum. Then you will have the true picture.

We are not naïve. lol

But it suits us. Like I said I am perfectly aware of the double standards operating & if a guy takes a principled stand & says no then he can party with someone else. Simple.

Will you let the guy have a copy of the video as well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to film with an ex FB of mine when I first joined, always on my phone though. Or so I thought. Until a male friend of mine told me I was on a porn site. The ex FB had used his phone and I hadn't realised (more fool me) and few months ago posted it online. Titled 'bradford girl sucking cock'. I was mortified. Obviously could see my face. And I wasn't breathing in. Lol. I reported it but it took 2 days for them to remove it.

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By *ieutenant OP Man
over a year ago

london

"With era of porn revenge spreading like wide fire.will you consent to someone filming you for their private use.

Will you accept to be filmed at any time if such request was put forward prior to meeting. Won't you have second thoughts regarding where the film may end up?

We occasionally enjoy filmng the fun but wouldnt let anyone film us.

We keep it for a few weeks then shred to military standard( we're paranoid lol)

we keep it on our laptop which is Bitlocker protected in a another (diff 20 key password) bitlocker protected virtual disk in the form of a Trucrypt protected file.

Not even Obama over at the Whitehouse have a quick tug watching Pips lol "

You are totally wrong. An India university student decrypt truecrpt password encryption under 4 hours. Don't trust any password software's. It can be breach or compromise

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

We meet without cameras etc for swinging but if we are asked to film the action I let people know I will use it on my sites and model releases have to he signed first.

As sinister as it sounds I / we meet as many people who want to be in films as we do swingers, being up front & honest with people as earned me a good reputation in both the swinging and film industry.

My advice is if you don't want to be seen don't star in films or photos...

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Some years ago I filmed a hot threesome between myself, a friend and her (then) fiance. Later the lady left him and entered a new relationship, and asked me to destroy the DVDs and master tapes of the threesome.

being a good guy, I destroyed everything.

Now she wishes she could watch it again!

There are honest people around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With era of porn revenge spreading like wide fire.will you consent to someone filming you for their private use.

Will you accept to be filmed at any time if such request was put forward prior to meeting. Won't you have second thoughts regarding where the film may end up?

We occasionally enjoy filmng the fun but wouldnt let anyone film us.

We keep it for a few weeks then shred to military standard( we're paranoid lol)

we keep it on our laptop which is Bitlocker protected in a another (diff 20 key password) bitlocker protected virtual disk in the form of a Trucrypt protected file.

Not even Obama over at the Whitehouse have a quick tug watching Pips lol

You are totally wrong. An India university student decrypt truecrpt password encryption under 4 hours. Don't trust any password software's. It can be breach or compromise

The trucrypt (28 digit password) virtual hd is behind a Bitlocker encrypted file ( different 28 digit password) which in turn is behind the ordinary password protected laptop hard drive ( 8 digit hard drive) which in turn is protected by Bitlocker.( another 28 digit password

We have a teenage son at home so protect ourselves in case he noses around.

Unless you can crack a closed down computer with a bitlocked hard drive then your fucked ( if you'll pardon the expression)

besides we have very very few Indian student burglars/guests in our house.

Bitlocker and truecrypt are both very very secure for all intents and purposes.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

The few videos and photos that I have of encounters are on external hard drives, DVDs or DV tapes locked away.

pretty secure.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

We have been camming our fun with other,s for 30 year,s now we never lend them out or show them to any one else. no one as ever said no to me videoing them but if they did it would mean no we respect every one,s wisher,s

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Have done this just wish I could have had a. Copy.

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

Have been filmed would be again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something I'm wanting to do but only with there equipment and consent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We often take photos or videos and don't mind if other couples want to as well.

Mostly single guys are happy to oblidge us... If Ms plays seperate ( rare currently) she will always take photos.

Mr finds most women though wouldn't be happy for photos or videos to be taken for Ms to see

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By *anidesiresTV/TS
over a year ago

Kildare

"You are totally wrong. An India university student decrypt truecrpt password encryption under 4 hours. Don't trust any password software's. It can be breach or compromise "

I can't find a single article online to support your claim. I can, however, find numerous articles detailing unsuccessful attempts to crack Truecrypt protected containers and volumes by Law Enforcement Authorities all over the world. The application is no longer in development, so while it appears to remain secure it is probably wise to consider a replacement.

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